Can I have a big wedding?

[Anonymous]

So I was an absolute idiot and got married at 16, we divorced not even a full year later. My current boyfriend and me have been discussing marriage as a future possibility and I don’t know if having another big wedding is appropriate.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel uncertain about whether or not it's appropriate to have a big wedding after having been married before at a young age. However, your previous marriage shouldn't necessarily prevent you from having the wedding you want with your current partner.

When it comes to weddings, there are no right or wrong answers - it's ultimately up to you and your partner to decide what kind of celebration you want. Some people choose to have a big wedding, while others opt for something smaller and more intimate.

Before making any decisions, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about what you both want for your wedding day. Consider your budget, your personal preferences, and what kind of wedding would make both of you happiest.

Remember, your wedding should be a celebration of your love and commitment to each other. Whether it's big or small, what matters most is that you feel happy and excited about the day.

[MementoMori777]

Why wouldn't it be? You follow your heart, just cause you messed up with a past decision doesn't mean it should effect your future or even your present, if you are in love, go for it.

[Anonymous]

LOL what? is your age correct? you're 19 now? divorced before you were even 18? i think you just need to slow down. what is the rust to get married? stop trying to play house. marriage is obviously very serious and i just don't think marriage at age 19 is being taken seriously at all... you are going to make the same mistake AGAIN if you get married at this age... what is a "future possibility"? how long is that? at least 7 more years i would hope? i just think talking about these things is too much for a 19 year old in a relationship.

[Asker]

Girl shut up😅I’m CLEARLY not planning to get married soon. Also I’m not ‘playing house’ wtf do you even mean like I’m a 13 year old trying to move out or something. Thanks for the useless and unsolicited life advice, next time though realise no one cares about your opinion on their life just answer the god damn question and move on

[Opinion Owner]

lmao sigh

[Anonymous]

Its your big day. Choose what you want. So yes if thats what you want and if you can afford it