Will cutting out all women in a man's life (but his wife) resolve marital problems, if they already have problems & is very friendly w/other women?

[Anonymous]

I'm having problems in my marriage, and I think my husband is talking to too many women (as friends).

[nastyb]

there is no way to truly prevent a man from cheating unless you are with him 24/7. what if he flirts with women at work? There was a man at my prior job who chased after every single attractive woman (at the workplace) for sex. He had a girlfriend and a baby at home. He even planned on sexually assaulting me while I was with him working in the basement. He had sex with another coworker in one of the rooms at the college dorms. She never gave him her number either. They just fucked.

there is no real way to prevent your husband from talking to other women. The only way is to marry a man with decent morals / values and trust him. By preventing him from talking to other people, its kind of the same as putting him in a cage. One day, he will grow resentful and just bite you back.

Don't restrict on who he talks to. But restrict who he hangouts with one on one. Married men are not supposed to be sitting and grabbing coffees with women every weekend.

[LazerBean]

No. Doing that does not solve the problem, it just sweeps it under a rug to be worried about later.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. It may just make him resent you more like you’re being controlling. Obviously you have to figure out what the issue is first of all. Do you have any ideas? What type of martial issues? You’re assuming he’s talking to other women, you haven’t even confirmed. Even if he is how do you know he’s not talking to them about what’s going. Maybe he’s asking them for advice.

[jammcm]

You need to find out what the real problem is. I have to ask the question (s)

1) Is this just starting or has the marital problems been ongoing?

2) Not knowing how old you are or how long you have been married, how is your sex?

3) Have you talked to each other about the marital problems?

4) Have you talk to a marriage counselor?

[jahaims]

No it will not. He is the issue. If the only thing preventing someone from cheating is access then they are already a cheater.

[Blueeyes81]

No. It'll just create new problems.

[Asker]

How so?

[Blueeyes81]

You're looking at it from you side.

I'll put it this way. Your sink has a leak so you shut off your water to your house to stop the the leak. The leak is fixed but a dozen other problems arise. Can't use the bathroom, can't shower, can't do laundry, can't do the dishes. Yes you stopped your leak but now you have more problems than when you started.

You'd be limiting him from talking to 50% of the population and don't think that would cause more problems/resentment?