Is it wrong for married man to call you beautiful?

[Anonymous]

[Sarahr123]

Umm no. I would not be okay with my husband going around calling other women beautiful. It’s flirtatious. I wouldn’t go around calling men handsome would I? You only say that to your relatives and someone special. Like I would say to my brothers that they are handsome and to my dad and uncles and maybe my male cousins or elderly neighbours but I wouldn’t tell a young man that he is handsome. Men will obviously take it as an invitation.

[LoveWorkingOut]

U are right
I think it might be not appropriate even for cousins

[Sarahr123]

@LoveWorkingOut that’s true it may not be appropriate for all male cousins. Unless the cousin is 20ish years younger and you looked after them like your child or you were raised with cousins like they’re your sibling it would also be inappropriate.

[LoveWorkingOut]

Maybe but since its your sister or brother i think it might not be good even though just grew up like brother sister etc
I respect what u think:)

[Reem12345reem]

for me it is

[Lionman95]

One could say it´s not appropriate but I wouldn´t say it´s a problem. It gets wrong the moment he wants to meet you alone or says he tries to get moments with you alone. To me the redline would be if it leads to actions on his part, anything before that is just teasing.

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the MHO.

[DerekC321]

No, I don't think so.

[DerekC321]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Pinay_ako]

If he calls every woman that, it’s ok. But if he only calls you that as a special nickname then yes. I sense an attraction and maybe wants an affair if you allow it, then that will make you both wrong.

[Summeroflove]

Depends on how he said it. It’s a complement. As long as it didn’t feel flirty or creepy. I would say it’s fine. It can be a little concerning but again it depends more on how it was said.

[AviatorTom]

No, why would you think it's wrong for someone to pay a woman a compliment?

[Avicenna]

If that's as far as it goes, no

[AydenHazor]

That depends on how it's intended and received. Are they saying it in a way where they're hitting on you? If so that is wrong. Are they saying it in a way where it's just a compliment intended to build you up? If so, assuming you have a friendship in which that is appropriate, I see nothing wrong with it.

[ohsheeT]

I would hope not I mean if I see a beautiful girl I'm going to say hey you're beautiful there's nothing wrong with that he's making an observation and if he knows her anything she's she's beautiful then let him say it's not a big deal

[DizzyDesii]

Its awkward for sure. I wouldn't trust him. Some things are better left unsaid. If I was married, I’d compliment him in my head but wouldn't dare approach someone like that even if a compliment is all it was

[UniquelyBasic]

Seems like a bit much to actually say it to you personally. He could've just thought it in his head and kept it that way.

[Adaeva]

Only if you are not beautiful. However, if you are beautiful, you have heard it hundreds, maybe thousands, of times so you don't want to hear it.

[wishiwasfiction]

Borderline, it's like one of those things that could make upset you but you would probably be afraid to confront him about it because you don't want be seen as toxic or jealous. You know?

I mean it's weird but technically not wrong

[Reem12345reem]

EXACTLY

[Zatsuma]

Even if you don't approve of it, be greatful, don't engage, say "thank you... I bet your wife is too!" Then move on quickly knowing you also made your point. 😁

[artgorgeous]

Depending on the context of conversation. If it fits the logic is some discussion then it's ok. But if it's just a statement out of nowhere, then its awkward.

[worldscolide]

No.. It is wrong for him to flirt, and no recognizing beauty is not flirting.

Women stupidly feel like men become neuter when we marry. That's not how it works, we still recognize beauty when we see it...

[Pacquet]

Depends on how he says it and the context surrounding it. I’ve called women beautiful while being in relationships, doesn’t mean I want something from them, it’s just an acknowledgment of something I noticed. That said context is everything.

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

It's not wrong, but it's kind of an eye-brow-raiser.

Why does he feel like he needs to call you beautiful, instead of just telling you you look nice?

I guess it depends on the circumstances.

[mobiusforniner]

Im married. I've said it to a coworker. It was because I was madly in love with her. So yeah, it is wrong.

[blueonblack22]

There is a tone of voice and body language he will give off that will really give away what me means by that.

[BlackBeauty90]

Yes

Because it means he has feelings he should not. Kindly tell him to stop, say that you find his behavior unacceptable 😤.

[Grovermint]

Not at all. It's a rather innocent comment. Married, whether male, female, non-binary, etc doesn't mean you lose your eyes for anyone else. I'm sure you've seen plenty of people you consider attractive.

[richardcory]

Depends on the context and how it was said. Could be OK, or could be serious flirting

[molonski2]

NO , marriage does not immediately make you non sexual , life goes on.

[EmmaMary]

Providing it's said in the right context then it's totally acceptable.

[jshm2]

It's just a compliment. Would you prefer they call you "Oi Average!" instead?

[panda2712]

Depends on context but majority people would say it’s wrong

[Anonymous]

yes, i wouldn't like that... and i'm sure his spouse or kids wouldn't either.

[Fireguy17]

No, it was a compliment.
It doesn't always mean he wants to drill you

[Anonymous]

i like married guys so if i like someone who's married i would like if he said that to me

[Sasha0426]

I’m surprised you like men who are taken 🤣 That seems to be a thing these days. No one wants a single person because they don’t have anything that you can take.

[Sasha0426]

*I’m not surprised

[Anonymous]

Silence on my part. Married or not.

The problem is, the compliments nowadays are simply not worth it. They may bring their own set of problems.

[Mangospacho]

No. I tell my wife she’s beautiful all the time.

[Shy_Steve]

Some Guys are just over Confident and call every Girl He finds Attractive that.

[Anonymous]

Only if he's hot. If he's a fat load and not a threat I see nothing wrong w it.

[JamesRandiDebates]

No. And it is not wrong for you to give married man a BJ.

[hardboiledink]

Yes he should concentrate on hos wife

[Kabluie]

No. Honesty does not go away with wedlock.

[rienna888]

yeah some people see it as flirting.

[Sasha0426]

Yes. Have your spouse call everyone ugly.

[Kelly6]

no it's not wrong

[jahaims]

It depends on the circumstances

[EaterPeter]

I was in wrong all my life till now?

[BLP11520]

No it’s just being honest

[In_Trance]

Ask his wife

[peedy]

Absolutely not

[Anonymous]

Ohk...