Not only do married people live longer lives. Rate of healing after disease / injury is quicker for married men than single men.
Well because a lot of people today are kind self absorbed and feel like relationships are more about them than the other people. So many feel like it's easier to just beat off and be single than to try and form a fulfilling relationship..
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Yeah, a lot of people tend to glorify being single... it's either because they had crappy/meh relationships or they're just coping..
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A few years ago, a woman named Amber Heard has shown the world what a truly monstrous betrayal looks like. Now, this might have made people think: "What if I get to meet an Amber Heard-class monster in my marriage?" Everything You say is perfectly correct for a successful marriage, but these days, only 50% of marriages are successful. Now, as an anonymous friend here already mentioned, within the other 50% of unsuccessful marriages, 80% percent of those are torn down by women. That means, a man is facing a 40% chance of randomly having his life ruined. And even though I began it all with a mention of Amber Heard, right now, by "ruined" I mean just the typical and almost accidental "divorce rape". Now, a 40% chance to have Your life randomly ruined and a 50% of an unsuccessful marriage in general is not really hope-inspiring, is it? The risk is far too high in this casino, it's simply better to grab Your belongings and move out, not even looking back.
Now... There is a way out of it, and it's a traditional, purely Catholic marriage. No damned legal contracts included, just two loving people, their trust and devotion. It only works for believers, but let's assume, probably unfairly, that women who are non-believers have no humanly acceptable code of ethics ingrained in their minds, so we are fine without them. This time, the leap of faith is mutual. I'm one of the men who are willing to take it, anyway. Now let's find a woman who's willing to do the same, even if she is a believer... I think I might have found a single one in my whole life, but that's not yet proven, and we have known each other for quite long already.
There You have it. Marriage, if successful, is the best deal You can get in this world and there's no way around it. However, one wrong move, usually the very choice of woman for the marriage, and the hell You're headed for is something beyond an average person's comprehension. Personally, I'm not taking the risk. Unless it's a traditional, purely Catholic marriage, but it has its own challenges.
You make it sound so simple. I would not mind getting married, but finding someone I connect with on such a level seems like a pipe dream. I generally go two or three years between dates, and I'd be a very sad person if I let that depress me any more than it does. It seems prudent to become happy while single with the current uncertainty of the dating market.
Personally because I don’t like how people marry but never marry the one that most matches them and just spend the res of their life with a non true partner because it’s so damn hard and has the least propability of happening to find your true match so instead of abandoning that I prefer to stay single till that happens and aside from that people are self sufficient physically and emotionally too so we are bot neccesarily build to be with a partner!
Everyone doesn’t want to live an infer life. If I had a blast of a life I’d be ok w a shorter one than a long boring mine. Would a couple who isn’t married but has been together for 30 years still live a longer life? If so why the need to get married? Not everyone wants marriage, especially men. Not a whole lot in marriage that a man can benefit from. Almost men nowadays can get everything they need in a relationship w put the marriage. Kids, love, a partner, fun, etc, etc.
Oh my goodness. Didn't you just write another post criticising people for being single over 40's. Not everyone wants to get married. There are more divorces today than there was 10 years ago. Marriage does not mean you will be happy or that you ate better off.
Stop putting people down for being single. It's actually wrong
People's decisions to be single or married are highly individual and influenced by various factors beyond just life expectancy and healing rates. While studies may show certain health benefits for married individuals, personal happiness, compatibility, and life goals also play a significant role in such choices. Additionally, societal norms and expectations continue to evolve, allowing people to make diverse decisions regarding their relationships.
People in a SUCCESSFUL marriage tend to live longer. The problem today, especially for men, is that half of marriages are NOT successful long term and it is women who end them in 80% of cases.
Most guys would want to get married if they knew their wife wouldn't destroy their lives a few years later.
Do we have the full studies, so we can see all the parameters included? For example, what age groups did they include? If they start early enough, most of the guys will not be married and each death will ridiculously skew the numbers.
There is also the large number of divorces, which stress a lot of people. Are the divorced counted as single? Are the widowed?People will try anything to justify their behaviour.
Usually they are single because they should NOT be around civilised people, let alone married.
I'd prefer a shorter life, but a spectacular one :)
Because they have only experienced unhealthy relationships
because divorce is always right around the corner for married men whether they are at fault for it or not
Being single is a death sentence that people bring onto themselves. Sad.
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