Do you think men shouldn’t get married 🚫💍?

[Anonymous]

Most women wanna be independent nowadays. Yet they all want marriage for security. They’re hypocrites, no many should give this to a woman. Women have to earn it through good behaviour, respect and discipline.

just remember there are zero benefits to marriage as a man. Marriage is a celebration for women not men. Women win not us.

That’s facts

I disagree

[aceleon]

woman nature relias on hypocrisy mate.

feminism ends where the heat begins.

also i agree with the marriage is for beta males, at least a completely monogamous one, our nature is polygynous (harem) just settling for one girl is just man couldn't risk losing the one girl he barely found and clicked and sacrificng other non-guaranteed opportunities in order to keep her.

now think about it you have let's say 4 wives, each of them works along side you, this means 5 income that goes to one house, 4 woman that can share chores between or not all of them has to work 1 or 2 of them can stay at home and do the chores and raise the kids and they wouldn't feel alone either, 4 woman also means more kid and more opportunity spread your bloodline and more financial and other type of support to the household in general in the future, this is how our ancestors got stronger and more crowded, nowadays people barely able to keep a monogamous house hold.

and before anyone says why not 2 sided poly, because no sane man would share his womans, male and female sexual behavior and pair bonding is not same mans are biologically poly while womans are biologically monogamous (psychologically hypergamous though) they can fuck 1000 guy at the same time ifthey want but all the children will belong to one of those guys the rest would just nut for nothing.

[BourbonAndBacon]

It isn't wise to marry someone who doesn't add value to your life. When I was single and dating, some women were very proud of the fact that they were strong and independent and had their own money. I felt that they only needed me to kill their spiders and take the garbage out. Marrying those women do not make my life better in any way. They usually offer nothing personality wise if they lead with strong and independent because those aren't relationship skills. I have enough stress in my life and I want my home to be a place where all that stress goes away.

[LazerBean]

I agree that most men are too low quality to reap the benefits of getting married. However, I think the solution for such low quality men is to simply be the woman of the relationship. Since those men tend to be more feminine and less competent than women, they can simply be the stay at home housewife while the woman can be the man of the house. That's probably what you need. You erase primarily by a woman, right? So naturally you're going to be feminine and look to a woman to lead your household.

[Asker]

This response is too stupid to read.

I’m the leader. I’ll have a girlfriend and have kids with her but I’m not getting married. Why should I take all the risk?

[LazerBean]

Yeah in your dreams, fatherless child lmao

[Asker]

What? No I believe in family and love….
But I don’t believe in messing up my finances. What if she decides she suddenly doesn’t love me. Then messes up my hard work. Think about it, not from your own narrow minded perspective.

[Asker]

Like I’m trying to get mega rich one day. Don’t need a woman destroying my dreams

[LazerBean]

I'm not narrow minded, I'm thinking like a normal conservative person who wasn't raised in a broken, dysfunctional family of whores. I don't blame you for thinking the way you do, I know that you cannot help but to do so because of your promiscuous, liberal genetics.

[Asker]

I wasn’t born in a dysfunctional family. I have a bigger stronger family than yours. We’re also all extremely successful and united asf. Try again haha.
I’m not promiscuous if I want one partner haha.

All women are brainwashed by something, that’s how I view it. Only men have independent thought.

[LazerBean]

I can't blame you for having that fantasy

[Asker]

What fantasy?

[LazerBean]

Of not being from a broken family when you were clearly raised by a single, liberal mother

[Asker]

Haha. Got both parents, married, I’m closer to my mother but my father has done so much for me. Love ‘em both 😜

You’re closed minded as fuck. Did you ever see daylight as a kid? Or did your parents lock you inside?

[LazerBean]

Obviously not, people from good families don't turn out as damaged and libraral as you have. But again, I can't blame you having that fantasy

[Asker]

You’re too naïve if you think that’s how it works. I’m not turning down marriage if we sign agreements/prenups.

I’m not liberal. I have moderate views, not overly conservative or liberal. Actual liberals are stupid and sheep in my opinion. Liberals are a different spectrum.

I was 15 when I woke up to this stuff. I remember my maths tutor at the end of every session would open up to me about his life and divorce. It was quite shocking. How he was left without kids, lost his house and paying all this money from his business to her while she’s with a new man. He said other things I can’t remember but yeah….
Women use men for security which makes sense. But if any cracks come out not many women of today won’t stick you through thick and thin. That’s something of our parents generation.

[Anonymous]

man, social media really screwed you up. not all women think like that.

so what does a man have to earn? because you're only going off on what women should do to "earn" marriage. you don't "earn" marriage. marriage is between two people who love each other. you sound like a miserable incel.

the benefits of marriage are the same for each party and they are actually pretty good benefits. not just "money if we get divorced". get a prenup if you're so upset and worried about it lol.

[Avicenna]

In some cases, yes, but for most men, marriage is really risky.

[Asker]

It’s not worth the risk.

[Anonymous]

I disagree. Women are outperforming men in education and graduating college and becoming more successful than men. I think men should be the ones to stay at home cook and clean and women should continue doing everything productive. Just face you work under a girl boss makes more money than you. The more you fight it the worst you'll feel. Once you accept the truth the truth will set you free.

[Asker]

True apart from the more successful than men.

[Asker]

Men literally build and maintain 100% of this world. Women are useless in comparison. Even now.

Education doesn’t necessarily make you amazing. It’s usually the mediocre students that go onto start enterprises

[Asker]

Also I’m going to be an employer whereas you’re going to be a simp/cuck

[aceleon]

don't bother with it mate this type of ''things'' are sick, mentally ill they are not healthy enough to understand you ibet they jerk off to the idea of a woman boss choking him or something.

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker Good job at moving up to Mcdonald's manager. That's why you feel so insecure about women. When I don't care about someone I don't complain about them or even think about them. When women used to do badly in school everyone called them "dumb, less logical or bad at math's more emotional" the same things you're saying right now. Why when men do slightly worse in school all of a sudden it's the entire education system, feminism or women's fault some how.

Most of the skilled workers I have went to college. Sure, Bill Gates can make it without college when he had a computer room before universities even had computers in them. But I am sure you believe in your mind that all mediocre students dropping out because they failed college algebra can become as successful as Bill Gate are a trust fund kid. The people that say you don't need college are usually trying to sell you some bullshit course online or they have a trust fund account and actually don't need it.

And then another thing start complaining about is mass immigration. Well... wouldn't to hire an Indian guy overseas with the education to do the job if I had people here in this country. But of course you like to watch PragerU, Ben Shapiro and other anti-intellectual garbage and believe that you're special and college is just indoctrination.

There's plenty of Republicans who are business owners that are happy to have immigrants from other countries, so they can get cheap labor. That's why they tell you not to go. Again congrats on moving up to McDonalds manager. You showed the evil colleges and feminism who is boss.

[aceleon]

shut up no one listens a cuck simp like you go to sleep kid.

[BarryLiverstone]

I’d say posting anti marriage propaganda on a free site is a waste of energy. Marriage is valuable and it’s better to encourage it.

[Anonymous]

I've said this repeatedly. If a guy can find a wife before 25 then he should get married. But all of top quality wife material are GONE by 25. So if he should find himself single after 25 he then needs to think long and hard about each women he considers.

[Anonymous]

Puss cake. I’m married for over a decade. I’ve grown as a man, a husband and a father in ways I’ll never have otherwise. Sure, it ain’t easy And there are times where both of us have wanted to quit But we figured it out. And that bond grows stronger each day

bitching about marriage and how it doesn’t work is for people who can’t commit and who are self centered.

[Lliam]

Pathetic. You're right, self-centered guys like you only ruin women's lives by marrying them.
But normal guys with healthy values do well with a good life partner. I highly recommend it.

[Apple1996]

Only good mentally stable men should get married. Which isn't many of y'all

[IslaTheWitch]

It should be the couple's decision. If both want it, then why not?

[Djaay]

Marriage is ok. You gotta ask yourself tho , what kind of man actually gets drugged through the sewer from a woman?

[boobliker]

I think we all need to think about what we want and what we can get!!

[strateguy632]

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