My husband met up with his ex right before we got married?

[Anonymous]

I found out my husband met up with his ex right before we got married a year ago. Not sure what to do. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

Depends on why he decided to meet up with her and what exactly did they do. I would definitely confront him about it (and show him the evidence in case he denies it). If he denies it then it’s high key sus and I’d probably wouldn’t trust him again.

My boyfriend also secretly met up with his ex but he came clean when I confronted him about it, not sure how honest he was about the whole thing but I’m choosing to give him a chance. It’s all up to you tbh, but his reaction to being confronted would definitely help you decide on what to do.

You can either give him another chance and try to fix the broken trust in which he also has to actively work on earning your trust back. Or you can walk away from the disrespect.

[miadee]

I'd be very upset too. If he denies it, talk to his ex. Most likely, either if she has good or bad intentions, she'd confess.

[laly520]

did u ask him why he met her n what happened between em?

[Asker]

He denies it

[laly520]

he is hiding sth n it isn't any good

[Anonymous]

what exactly did he do when meeting up with her? coffee? or you don't know? it's all rather shady, yes.

[Billlewis]

I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[EmmaMary]

I don't see what the problem is.

[jahaims]

He obviously hid it. Which is lying