He had sex with his ex after we broke up, what now?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my boyfriend for a month. In that time he called me and asked to meet one day and told me he missed me another and apologised for keep bothering me another.

We got back together.

Now he told me in this time he picked his ex up at the airport who was flying in to visit her sister and boyfriend and that they had sex 2-3 times.

He was honest and it was just sex and he told me openly so I feel it is wrong for me to be mad, I broke up with him.

But I still like what the actual fuck?

[meesegoMoo]

Is she really still an ex? Sounds like trouble. If you broke up with him and wanted to mend things, and he did that it would be different. He was the one wanting to get back together, so why go straight to another woman? Is a man who can use a woman just for sex really a good man? And he's using that as his DEFENSE ! Him having a prior relationship with her makes it worse, colder, possibly sleazy.

You had a reason for breaking up with him the first time, has anything changed for the better?
If you're okay with that pattern, with being treated like that, it's your choice. Would you tust this guy for a serious relationship? If not, ask yourself if dating him would be wasted time.

[Anonymous]

Why did you break up?

Why did you made up?

Would you have expected him to not make a big deal if you fucked another dude while you were broken up?

Sex for guys is not the same as for girls. It can be a quick release as well. No need for emotional connection, which is needed by many girls (not all). So if he says that it didn't mean anything, I would lean towards believing it.

The question is, does it bother you? (obviously yes because you posted this question. Twice). Then why are you still made up? What were you hoping for when you broke up? What do you hope now that you are made up?

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO. Though I do am not clear if it helped you.

[Asker]

Yes it did. I broke up because I didn't knew if he was serious enough and took this, sex, partying too lightlu6and that's why it bothered me so mich that the time he supposedly was missing me went to have sex with an ex he had contact with all along and said was nothing about swx or anything

[Kida317]

Girl, I'm sorry, but you gotta have more respect for yourself than that. IMHO - if he did it once, then yeah, maybe he could have been forgiven, but who the fuck stumbles into a pussy 3 times? Obviously there are something going on there, unresolved stuff. You really should not get into this. Just unhygienic