Is it wrong to feel upset and pissed off my husband had to travel with a woman co worker?

[Akam93]

She's married also and a lot older than me but I always think they like each other cause they both speak geek and she makes an exceptiononal amount of money which is green in my husband eyes. I'm just a basic jobless wife to him.

[LazerBean]

Yeah, honestly that doesn't really make sense. Just because they talk about the same kind of stuff doesn't mean they like each other. And if you're insecure about him liking women that work, then why not get a job? If you knew he wanted a wife that worked, and you didn't want to work, why did you even marry him?

[Akam93]

Because I'm a full time mother now.

[LazerBean]

🤷‍♀️ oh well I guess, to late to worry about it since you're married

[Akam93]

You ok? You seem very bitter about life. Like heartless bitter.

[LazerBean]

Thats an ironic thing for you to say

[rosemilk]

they can like each other in a platonic way and have common interests. it doesn't mean he wants to "wife her up". if this is an issue and you really think he'd do something because she has the same interests and makes more money than you do, i think you should talk to him.

[jasonjk]

Motherhood is something special and more important than 9-5 jobs. Calling yourself jobless isn't true, nurturing child takes forever. Stop degrading yourself and stop overthinking about your husband. He would have lied to you that he is traveling alone if he wanted to cheat on you.

[Anonymous]

It’s not that unusual for married guys to cheat with their coworkers. So you have a right to be worried. Even if he says it would never happen, it still happens.

[IslaTheWitch]

you can feel whatever you want... but will it change anything? It's a business trip, and you have no say in it.

I'm just a basic jobless wife to him. Maybe try to change THIS? Direct your emotions and energy to something constructive

[laly520]

u have the right to worry but I think u r being too insecure about it considering she has things u dont

but if he is being any sus around her then u gotta do sth about him going to travel with her

[sheikalana]

Is normal to feel insecure about it. Keep in mind this is just work related. Tell him to call you and keep you updated once he arrives to his destination.

[RavVid]

You are wrong. On the jobless wife aspect be a good one and he won't want a career oriented wife.

[Anonymous]

I went through the same thing.. trust him until he gives you a reason not too. It’s some sneaky women out here too

[AimeeKyle]

No. I have had to do it many many times. It isn’t a big deal and most always out of his control on who goes.

[Rangers]

That's a MASSIVE red flag that he raised, I'd be pissed as well

[OtterMan68]

if you suspect your husband of liking another woman, that's something you two need to discuss

[RedInnocent69]

Guilty as charged. Can’t help it if you work with them. Sometimes work is just about work.

[Drumlin2001]

Seems a bit wrong. Do you not trust him?

[Akam93]

I do I think. I don't trust woman though.

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea they're probably gonna fuck too