My sister married guys of her choice 2 times. But my mom is trying to push me into arrange marriage. Why does she has double standards?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Is this because of religion? You should marry who you want. Who do she want you to marry?

[Asker]

Yes religion and caste. She wants to arrange my marriage with a girl from our Hindu religion and within our caste.

[Opinion Owner]

Well what about the girl you are dating now? are you allowed one marriage

[Opinion Owner]

Is this someone your mom recently found for you? Do you have the right to marry who you want in your religion?

[Asker]

Yes, my mom found a girl with the help of a match maker. My father is an open minded person and he supports me. As per our religion and caste, I am not allowed to marry outside my religion and caste. I am not allowed to date and marry a lower caste girl in India. I am dating an American Christian girl and I want to marry her.

[Opinion Owner]

Does this affect your future with kids? You should do what you wanna do

[Asker]

Ofc It'll effect my kids in the future. I have to allow my kids to date anyone. I want to do what I love to do. Interracial marriages are common these days in India.

[Opinion Owner]

You should definitely do what you wanna do then!

[Opinion Owner]

Keep us updated

[Asker]

Thanks ☺️sure

[red-lipstick-girl]

Because you are his only son and he wants to marry you to someone he wants.

[Asker]

I am in love with American girl. I can't stay happy if I am married to a wrong girl.

[dudeinohio]

You are an adult. Do what you want

[Asker]

Yes sir

[In_Trance]

You're not a child; grow a pair