On what base does lesbian couple decide who is the wife and who is the husband lol?

[Anonymous]

[rosemilk]

they are both wives. unless one of them is trans which i'm sure they'd like to be referred to as whatever gender they say they are.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That's not how it works at all.

[Asker]

That's what I've heard from several videos of lesbians.
One was referring to her couple as a wife

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

We are both wives. There isn't a "man" role. My wife is more dominating, but she isn't masculine at all. When it's something I'm better at, I take the lead, and if she's better at something, then she will.

[Asker]

So the dominant partner can't be called a husband?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No. She isn't a guy. She's still my wife

[Asker]

Okay thanks for clarification

[NamerOfStars]

They don't. One is the wife, and the other is the other wife. What part of "lesbian" don't you understand? There IS no "husband".

[Astarlessnightsky]

At what point do chopsticks decide who is the fork and who is the spoon.

[msmissydc]

Thats not how this works. Thats not how any of this works. Not having a husband is part of the purpose behind lesbian weddings.

[LaurenM1997]

They are both wife’s they can’t be husbands cause there’s no man

[LaurenM1997]

Unless one of them is trans

[Anonymous]

How do you and your boyfriend decide which one is the wife and which is the husband? LOL

[Asker]

I'm straight thank God so the roles are naturally defined lol

[DryGermanGuy]

The one owning the strapon is the man! 😬

[jahaims]

They are both wives dumb nuts