Can a man do whatever he wants with his wife?

Question

I think yes. A wife should do whatever her husband wants.

DarkLegacy · Accepted Answer

Of curse she should. It is that which makes her a good wife, and im pleased you think that to.

Goodoldguy · Accepted Answer

It's his right

MrOracle · Answer

There ARE limits to what he can do, and there should be. Having said that, too many women today think about marriage as "what I'm going to get" or even more specifically "what he has to give me/do for me" with very little thought for what she has to give to him or do for him. That's not how marriage was, and not how it's supposed to be.

The reason the man traditionally has so much authority in a marriage is because he also has a commensurate amount of responsibility. It's always been the husband's job to protect and provide for his family (and that's a VERY large and encompassing burden to take on), while it's been the wife's role to take care of her husband and her children. The man has the greater responsibility - the buck stops with him - so he has the greater authority.

Feminism, under the guise of making things "equal", has in so many ways favored women over men and put massive obstacles in men's way, to reduce men's success and thus enable more women to be successful, in the job market, in education, and under the law. Now, most women are forced to work, whether they want to or not, and men are less equipped to be able to support a family on their own. This was absolutely the plan - it's why the Rockefeller donated so heavily to the Women's Suffrage movement - he wanted women in the work force to drive down the cost of labor. But this has led to both men being less able to be traditional husbands and women much less interested in being traditional wives - though most still want all the traditional benefits, just without any of the traditional responsibilities. That's why the marriage rate has been steadily falling for the last 40 years.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

no. sometimes they don't even know each other. especially a side of him that she doesn't know or he doesn't know that owns them at all times! i'll give up a wife, but i won't give up my life. -- a theme that a devoted wife takes throughout history.

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Anonymous · Answer

When two people get married they become one flesh. Which means whatever one does affects the other. Now having said that, every relationship has it's own dynamic. So you kind of have to go by that. This is why it's important to properly vet your partner before marriage. It's a lifetime commitment. People change, but people really don't change at thier core.

adam6402 · Answer

A wife should submit to her husband, but a husband needs to be good to her in return and shouldn't ever ask his wife to do anything that she isn't comfortable submitting to.

osmanthus · Answer

I don't think so. That's a very broad statement or question.

And sure, if that's your belief then by all reasoning if your husband told you to eat pig shit and shoot yourself on the roadside then... ok.

avery58 · Answer

She doesn't belong to her husbands. She's an individual before anything else. A marriage is supposed to be a  partnership  and based on communication :) She can if she wants to.

4ngelic · Answer

no, it's not because she's your wife that she's your thing. same goes for the husband not being the wife's thing. you need to treat them well and be considerate of them, because they're a human being not a possession.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, not at all. If he can do that, she can do the same.

MisterWack · Answer

As long as it’s not r*pe, assault, beatings, and killings.  That is where the line is drawn, nothing illegal or evil or ill moral in the eyes of both too.

serious · Answer

Whatever he wants. No. Unless the wife thinks and is ready to accept this definition of " whatever a husband wants". The husband cannot do whatever he wants with his wife.

EmmaMary · Answer

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thatshydork · Answer

You’re asking a dangerously broad question. If you’re referring to beating her/abusing her in any way, no. Absolutely not.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Why are you a misogynist? I don't get it. Was this modeled for you as a child?  NO! Full stop. A partner MAY NOT do as he/she pleases with their partner.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Yes but with borders and wouldn't do anything that is abnormal!

Booklover_90 · Answer

What do you “whatever he wants?” Sexually or in general?

Crimsyjo · Answer

Noooooo. Never. He can request. She can accept or deny.

Anonymous · Answer

Some things some men may want,: + To share her with their friends + Anal sex + To pee on her or in her mouth  + To keep her in bondage etc  + To have her marked as their property ... +

handsomelad70 · Answer

H**L NO !!!(Are you living in NINETEEN TWENTY-FOUR, laddie?)

Wiredone · Answer

No he can't. If he forces her to have sex it is still considered rape where I live

Theodoricus · Answer

If the wife has a true man, then yes. Otherwise, no.

OddBeMe · Answer

I need you to talk to my wife on the phone. Might take awhile.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Purpose is pleasure and satisfaction, so must know each other's choice

Ladybossj · Answer

With her concent.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Willing participant only

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

Only if she's willing

Amur8711 · Answer

If she consents, then yes. Lol

renodnol32 · Answer

Nope. Maybe the reverse hahah.

Jerre · Answer

As long as he doesn’t hurt her

mayurr · Answer

None should be forced for something.

Anonymous · Answer

Another man in a pink account.

DJB72 · Answer

Nope. God teaches mutual submission in marriage.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Absolutely not.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

As long as she's ok with it

Jennz6 · Answer

Depending on where you live

Twalli · Answer

No, a wife is not property.

_piotr · Answer

Nope.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Well you can't mean that

impalabill77 · Answer

No he can not

eagle1951 · Answer

nooo

dudeinohio · Answer

Nice.

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