Should I buy this ring for myself?

[jasmine9847]

I once bought this Pandora ring when I was still single because it's stunning, but my brother thought it looked like an engagement ring, so I returned it.

Now that I'm married, I have my engagement and wedding rings, and I still find myself wanting the Pandora pretty ring. Do you think it would offend my husband if I bought it? I can wear it around the house instead of my engagement and wedding rings because I don't even wear them anyway when I'm at home.

Do you think it's ok if I buy it for myself? Should I bring it up with my husband?

Thank you.

Updates

1 y

So we talked about it. He said he's willing to get it for me for Valentines. I don't know if I can wait for that long. Should I get it myself now?

[Anonymous]

Of course it would offend him. For one he’s going to think what he got you isn’t good enough for you. He’s going to think you don’t like the ring he got you. Which deep down in a way is true to a degree, because you’d rather have the Pandora ring than the one he got you. Third to me that would be an insult that you don’t even wear his ring at home but you’d wear that one. That just tells me even more that his ring isn’t the best cause all this time while home you’re not wearing it but the minute you get the other ring all of a sudden you want to wear a ring.

[AviatorTom]

If you like it, go ahead and get it. I suggest you wear it on the ring finger of your other hand, keep your engagement and wedding rings on your wedding finger.

Talk with your husband about it. Maybe he would want to buy it for you.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO. Enjoy the ring, even if you have to wait for Valentines Day.

[Caroline91]

It is very pretty. I think It does look like and engagement ring. My husband and I discuss any expensive purchases with each other. If you get it, you could always wear it on your right hand, instead of left.

[WhitneySnow]

I think that’s a great idea. But yeah, ask your husband what he thinks.

[OlderAndWiser]

You should be asking your husband, not us.

[Abbycado]

It’s really pretty. If you want and can afford it, buy it.

[MicahRaine]

Just show it to your husband and be like "Ohhh look at this ring I just found! I've always loved it since I was younger!"

If he has money for it than it'll show up lol

[Nikki1989]

Sure, if you want it and can afford it, buy it.

[Anonymous]

buy whatever you want. it's your money, your decision. sucks you listened to your brother years ago. for what?

[jamesgoldman]

No, most of the Pandora I buy ends up in the furnace

[Staximus]

If you wear that instead of your wedding ring, you're asking for problems

[noohair]

If you can't talk to your husband about this, that is the issue.

[exitseven]

yes, splurge. you deserved it.

[LiamJHayden]

Let him buy it for you.

[jasmine9847]

Should I put it on my Amazon wishlist?

[SmileyLady]

It’s definitely ok.

[SmileyLady]

I’d let him get it for you. Maybe you could buy it together?

[SmileyLady]

Just think of how much more special it’ll be when it’s a thoughtful, personal gift from the love of your life 🥰

[msc545]

Wait for Valentine's day.

[OddBeMe]

Whatever makes you happy. Life is short

[EnjoytheDay777]

Yes, go for it. Looks nice 🙂

[Danny_dan92]

Do it. Fuck it