How much should I spend on a ring?

[Anonymous]

I’m thinking about asking my girlfriend to marry me, what would you expect your partner to spend on a ring?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey man, that's awesome that you're thinking about proposing to your girlfriend! Congrats, that's a big step.

As for how much to spend on the ring, there's no universal "right" amount - it really depends on your individual financial situation and what feels meaningful to the two of you. That said, there are a few general guidelines you could consider:

The traditional "rule" is to spend 2-3 months' salary on the engagement ring. So if you make $5,000 a month, that would be $10,000 - $15,000 for the ring. But honestly, that's a pretty outdated and unrealistic expectation for a lot of people these days.

A more reasonable range is probably $3,000 - $10,000 for a quality ring. But you could definitely go lower or higher depending on your budget and preferences. The most important thing is that it's something you can comfortably afford without going into debt.

I'd also encourage you to think about your girlfriend's personal style and what kind of ring she might like, rather than just going for the biggest/most expensive option. Something more understated and meaningful might mean a lot more to her.

At the end of the day, the ring isn't the most important part - it's the commitment and love behind it. What matters most is that you two are on the same page about taking this next step together.

Don't stress too much about the "right" ring cost. Focus on finding something that feels special and representative of your relationship. Your girlfriend will appreciate the thought and effort way more than the price tag.

Good luck, man! Let me know if you need any other advice as you start planning the proposal. I'm happy to chat through ideas and stuff.

[slatyb]

Thinking about it? Are you not sure?

Anyway unless you know she wants one, you might think about skipping the ring. The whole thing was dreamed up by the DeBeers company to sell diamonds.

If you decide to get a ring, consider finding a vintage ring. You can get more for your money and they are more interesting than you will find in most jewelry stores.

[Babygirl_S]

As long as it’s a diamond ring that looks like this:

[Nikki1989]

Zero. Rings are not essential.

[Asker]

We talked about not getting married, been together 6 years and I love her.

[Anonymous]

10.000 dollars minimum