When I was 16 and a half I was babysitting for a lady
When she got home the lady that she went out with asked if I wanted a ride home and I said sure well she only lived a couple blocks from my house come to find out and she asked me if I wanted to go to her house I said sure
Well one thing led to another and I would go over every night every other night and for about a year and then she told me she was going to get back with her husband and I said what I didn't know that she was married..
And then one time this girl I worked with asked me if I could give her a ride home and I said sure So on the way home she tells me to pull into a church parking lot go to the back so I did and you know what happened back there in front of God to everybody
But then I took her home and she lived in a cul-de-sac and I saw her truck in the garage door was open with the light on and then I see some guy in there I go who's that and she was oh that's my boyfriend and I said what you're kidding me she said it's a long story she said I will tell you she goes come on in and meet him I said wait wait wait wait it's you start laughing and she goes just come in and meet him is it okay
So anyway him and I became pretty good friends because he's into the same things I'm into with cars motors and equipment and all this crap but they both explained to me not at the same time though that he was a diabetic and then he didn't have too much longer to live and his private parts didn't work the way that he wanted them to he told me that if I like her I should start dating her I just couldn't do it because he was like a good friend after a while20 Reply
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- 10 d
No, actually. I've never even fantasized about it. Even with women who were just dating the guy. I guess I always just thought it would be so much more trouble than it was worth, so I wasn't interested.
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- s11 d
I have, yes, and likely many more times without knowing, back when I was a ‘working girl’. My clients personal lives were not my business, and what they chose to do with their income is their decision - at the end of the day I was providing a service and getting paid, nothing else to it.
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- 10 d
nope... taken people aren't interesting :D
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Yes, I had my fair share of married women through the years that were unhappy in their marriages , some of them were just sex and nothing more and most of them lied and told me they were single when really they were nt , only 2 of them didn’t lie to me and proved to me her marriage was a nightmare and told Me they were do divorcing their husbands to be with me , the one separated from her husband to be with me and then he begged for her back and she eventually gave him another chance , the second one divorced her husband to be with me , and she turned out to be a psycho , so i eventually dumped her ass. So it is what it is , I no longer try to end up in bed with married women , but I can’t read minds , it happens.
30 Reply- 10 d
I've been married twice, so yes, I've been with a married person.
10 Reply I have, and at times it ended in a disaster and others it ended with the wife staying with her husband. One affair was with a woman that I was friends with her husband and her, and honestly, I was crazy about her, and we had the best sex I ever had, bar none. I would do it again.
30 ReplyI've been used for oral service exclusively by several married and separated women, as well as one woman who used me copiously throughout the majority of her marriage to an older guy who was never permitted any intercourse with her whatsoever. Donna utilized a rotation of younger, more masculine men for intercourse and myself for both cunnilingus and anilingus, as well as the occasional 'after date cleanup service', whenever she found it convenient.
20 Reply- u11 d
I have not been with anybody taken, no...
but, when I was way younger, there was this married, older than me girl... that was into me very much, and she was a big big big time tease about it, lol...18 Reply- 11 d
Oh wow lol. Well that's good that you didn't entertain it.
- 11 d
I was definitely put down to the stress test to the max... lmfao
and the very hormonal and primal part of me did consider and imagine many possibilities
but the more, sane, in control... part of myself, hit the brakes on it... lmao
like I said, I was young - 11 d
It looks counterintuitive to brake from instinct and then immediately state you were young.
It's an unexpected ending, it has its charm for that, but you still ruined the story I was reading 😂 - 11 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not well, that's just how it happened... lol
I was very young, yes... but also wise enough
that's also the story about how I became a Jedi - 11 d
I would debate if the force is about self-control in that context, in my blurry opinion of a fictional spirituality, it looks like self-control but not about sex?
More about the thirst for revenge. But I'm really not a star wars fan lol - 11 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not I have no idea about the Force or Star Wars either lmao
but I do know that, that kind of control was the biggest test, and something I had to Master... to be able to say yes, I was able to hold myself, lol - 11 d
Intriguing, a test by whom and who told you to master anything? We are moving from star wars to karate kid now 😅
- 11 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not a test by such kinky neighbor...
and told, by the "better" side of my conscience, that thinks ahead, not just thinks about head, lmao
- Anonymous(36-45)11 d
I’m married. i had a married woman make an offer. I turned her down. A year later my single best friend wanted to hook up. I turned her down, too. Both women were absolutely gorgeous
Sometimes I double down and wonder what was I thinking. but then I come home from work and hear my kids yell “daddy!” and I’m reminded why it was all worth it.
320 Reply- 11 d
Not to play temptation but... You'd still hear "daddy !" when coming home, even if you were not married anymore, it would not change fatherhood inherently
- 11 d
Someone else got the same idea at the same time lol, more or less
- Opinion Owner11 d
@Maybe_Maybe_not that’s short sighted thinking. Screwing some other chicks, betraying my wife, living with guilt and the constant thought that being found out would destroy the lives of my little kids who look up to me as the example of a father and husband- I ask you…. would you think it’s worth it?
- Opinion Owner11 d
@Peridot25 did I say i didn’t like my wife? Or is that what you want to assume?
- Opinion Owner11 d
@Peridot25 Because the temptation is always there. Just because we are married doesn’t mean we don’t find other people attractive. My wife finds other dudes attractive all the time.
- 11 d
In the scenario I presented, you are not married anymore, so there is no betrayal and no subsequent guilt. You're still a father though, that's what I'm saying
- Opinion Owner11 d
@Peridot25 Tempted? Sure. My wife’s hot.
- Opinion Owner11 d
@Peridot25 Too late now. i lost my best friend. She literally moved across the country afterwards. But on the flip side i couldn’t bear the thought that my best friend would settle for scraps from a man she can’t have. She deserved better so I set the example to show I loved her enough not to take advantage of her, even when she let me
Being a man is more than just having a dick you know. - Opinion Owner11 d
@Peridot25 well, being in a relationship doesn’t automatically switch off sexual temptations. You’re naive if you think it does. Shit, if that were true we’d all be perfectly monogamous pigeons. But we ain’t. Best wishes to you.
I actually was with a woman that was married, but she was seperated and she also didn't tell me until over a month in of our fling. I thought it was just a hook up situation. SHe eventually told me, and we continued seeing each other for a few more months.
20 Reply- 11 d
Why in the fuck do people on this site always assume the worst?
Read the replies. Bad Bad Bad Bad
20 Reply - 10 d
I had a relationship with a married man but I didn't know he was married, he told me he was single, three months later he confessed that he was married and I left him, I can't have anything to do with a married man.
41 Reply- 10 d
Luckily it was a virtual relationship, we decided to meet but luckily it didn't happen, I hate liar people.
- 11 d
No, but I had had a lot of married women in the past want to sleep with me. I didn’t proceed to do it. Once someone is married, leave that person’s relationship alone. If you want to have sex, do it with someone who isn’t taken. It’s the right caring thing to do.
20 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)11 d
No. I had a woman that was married (going through a divorce try to take me home).
I was conflicted about it to. Because I couldn't in good conscience do that. Even though she was getting divorced she was still technically married. So I told her no. Figuring after she was divorced... ya know, who knows, maybe. But then she started dating a guy I knew who didn't share my ethical standards instead.
This is what a guy with morals and values gets in this society. 🤦♂️
10 Reply - 2 d
This is disgusting ! YOU NEVER EVER COME ACROSS IN BETWEEN A MARRIED COUPLE! If a couple is married LIVE THEM ALONE ! Do not ruined their happiness
10 Reply I’ve been offered by married men and thought about it but have not gone through with it
40 Reply495 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. Fortunately Not... I do feel extremely sorry for those women who have been so dreadfully deceived.
20 ReplyI was with two married men and nearly dated a third…that I know about…when I was young and naive and believed that married people don’t have affairs.
30 Reply686 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. I worked at a place where there was a secretary who was probably 35-40 and married. I was 19 years old. She used to flirt with me all the time. I would have had sex with her in a heartbeat.
20 Reply- 11 d
I’ve had married women want to fuck me.
But that’s ethically immoral so I turned them down30 Reply 756 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. Yes, but I didn't know he was married. Another reason to never believe the BS that men will spin to you. Chances are they are lying.
30 Reply- 9 d
I am with a married person every single day. I call him David you can call him David, Dave or my husband whichever works for you.😃😁😊
10 Reply - 10 d
Thought about it sure.. but no need to hurt some other person to just fool around with a dude who essentially cheats..
10 Reply - 10 d
naw. i've been approached by married women tho. sucks. cause i'm single and would very much like to do things with them but messing with married women is jsut trashy.
20 Reply - 11 d
No. I believe if someone is married they’re off the market. They’re spoken for. They said yes to their partner for a reason. There’s a reason why having an affair is considered wrong.
20 Reply Nope I've never attempted it and no married person has ever come on to me either.
20 Reply- 10 d
Yeah, I do plan to be with one. With someone who is married to me, of course.
10 Reply - 11 d
Sometimes yes, if they're separated, but I feel someone will end up getting hurt.
10 Reply - 11 d
Always thought being a bull was fun.
At the same time you might just be killed if caught.
20 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)11 d
Yes, like over than 2 years ago.
But he is in the open marriage.40 Reply - 11 d
No. Too young to be crushing on married people.
10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)10 d
Yes, but I was 17 and she was 30. I wouldn't do the same thing today. I believe the enabler is just as guilty as the cheater if they know the person is married.
20 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)11 d
Nope. It’s a hard NO for me whether they are married, or used to be. Their brains are too messed up and it’s just not a quality I want in my relationship.
30 Reply - 11 d
Do you mean, have I ever fucked one? Yes, 3 of them. For some reason, single chicks want nothing to do with me but, married chicks can't keep their lips off of me!! Either pair!
11 Reply I'm with a married woman every night. She's the only married woman I'd ever be with, she's my wife
10 Reply- 10 d
he wasn't married
they got engaged after he cheated
because she was pregnant
guess to her that made up for him
having sex with me10 Reply Nope but I once flirted with a married guy, bc I didn't know he was married, once I found out, I blocked him right away
11 Reply- 11 d
Never been with a married person or thought about it but have been hit on by married women a lot
10 Reply No. My parents were swingers and had threesomes and foursomes. it led to a lot of confusion and yelling. You lose them the same way you got them
20 Reply- 11 d
Many times and even more on vid cams!
Married guys get really chatty about her and his problems thou
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They paid you for this?
- 10 d
@Update_Available No just fun I’m pretty fun
- 10 d
Gimme this fun too XD
- 9 d
In my earlier years yes, I have been with many married women and now I am ashamed. All of them were great while they lasted. I have never cheated on my wife but she can't seem to stop cheating on me. 2 STD's, UTI, disappearing, oh! we have 4 children, 10 to 20 years of age. She stopped having sex with me after her cheating started. Told me that I did not taste right, and I took too long to have an orgasm.
00 Reply - 10 d
I guess I have to say yes because I'm guilty of admiring and "what if" thoughts.
10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)10 d
It just feels so great to be with a middle age married women. Even if we don't have sex, I have thought about it and it feels great. Too bad it is wrong otherwise I think it's the best thing there is especially white women are so superior and loving. They don't feel threatened and enjoy talking to you.
The women of color on the other hand are pathetic bitches. They have bad attitude.00 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)9 d
I did sleep with a married dude 3 times in high school (i knew for 2 of the times he was married and had kids around my age...). Or else I have no idea if anyone else I did things with was married or even taken (I assumed they were single).
10 Reply - 8 d
I only did some stuff online. In real life, that's asking for trouble
10 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)10 d
I've never been with anyone, but I thought of being with a girl who is currently married (but she wasn't married when I met her first time).
10 Reply Yes, on several occasions. Their husbands were having ED problems and could not have sex. I helped their wives get over their hornyness, their husbands knew and were content with it.
10 Reply- 11 d
I stole a married woman, knocked her up and never married her.
Come to think of it...90% of the women I've fucked were in relationships or married.
10 Reply Only married person I thought of being with is my wife.
10 ReplyNo, married men are a huge turn-off.
20 ReplyI have been with a married person and i haven't thought about it either yet.
10 Reply- 10 d
No and I would never intentionally
10 Reply - 10 d
I am a married person that often fucks my married wife. I also used to fuck my married best friend. Marriage is stupid.
10 Reply I got an offer from a married woman
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What do you mean
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Have you ever been involved with a married person. Like slept with them or wanted to be with them even though they were married.
- 11 d
Maybe wanted to. And maybe found myself in an awkward situation or close to it. But not properly
I never have and never will.
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I have not been with one to my knowledge.
20 Reply Nope and nope.
10 ReplyThought about it but would never
10 ReplyI'm having sex with an engaged person.
10 Reply- 11 d
Ew no
10 Reply 395 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. Yes...
20 ReplyHell yes best sex ever
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