Do families interfere with married couples? ?

[red-lipstick-girl]

Some families intervene and interfere with their married children when they argue. I have always been against such things because families should not interfere when it comes to couples.

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The problem has nothing to do with me, I'm not married and why do you take everything so personally?

[ohsheeT]

A lot of couples when they argued they go to their parents house and they start talking about it all upset so that means they get the parents involved that's the biggest mistake right there


Because now you have the parents unhappy at you and of course they only got part of the truth probably so yeah that's why it's not right because then they form opinion on you only knowing part of the story is my belief anyway

My kids have always been able to come to me and talk about anything and everything no limitation

When they get married if they have an argument they come over to my house and talk to me about it I'm not going to pick sides I'm going to tell them exactly what I see and feel if they're wrong I'm going to tell them they're wrong I'm not going to hold any punches

But I will not judge either my son's wife or my daughter's husband is this happens because who knows if I'm getting all the truth or not and it's none of my business to be honest it's something they have to work out and that's what I would tell each one of my kids you have to look at it a lot of different ways you're not right just because you think something doesn't mean you're right it's called respect

[Summeroflove]

Absolutely and there is really a few reason's one is being well meaning. Looking out for someone now that can cause more harm then good but in some cases they might be right. Sometimes they may see things that you don’t or maybe they are jealous. It depends.

Some parents want to keep control over their children in a unhealthy way. They don’t want to see them marry someone else.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think it happens but I would assume or at least hope the intentions are purely out to look out for whoevers marriage they are invading of course tho that doesn't excuse the butting in, I'm sure the toxic ones exist too tho

[Jennz6]

The first wife and sometimes the mother in law

[Jennz6]

@red-lipstick-girl according to Shreia law I’m pretty sure men are allowed up to 4 wives and the first wife must approve of the other woman before they can marry

[Cheerfull009]

Yes, the previous wives search new wife for husband. but in Pakistan, married man will get written permission from his previous wife to bring new wife, if he violates the law , he will fined with imprisonment

[Jennz6]

@Cheerfull009 does he need permission to get a concubine? 🧕

[red-lipstick-girl]

In Islam, yes, you can bring 4 wives, but in Turkey, this is forbidden, monogamy is in question and I am against bringing a woman over me.

[Jennz6]

@red-lipstick-girl I agree with you honey but it’s impossible for me

[Jennz6]

@red-lipstick-girl
I sent you a private message

[Grond21]

Yes, I have seen that too. I'm conservative, but it can be a problem in some conservative cultures. When it happens, its usually toxic. I dislike it intensely

[nawtee_me]

I believe that once you are grown you should be able to make you own choices in life. That also means making your own mistakes too. How else are you going to learn….

[Anonymous]

Why did you ask a question and then answer it?

[red-lipstick-girl]

I shared my own opinion, it's nobody's business.

[Yellovv]

That's depends on family, some of them are supportive and some of them doesn't..

[molonski2]

Virtually always , like it or..

[molonski2]

Update ; I did not assume YOU.

[CubaPirate]

In certain cultures

[NathanDavis]

mine doesn't