What does it mean then your spouse doesn’t want you involved with your family?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

It could meet a couple things you can mean that he's controlling he doesn't want to go around them because he doesn't want the parents to actually know who he really truly is

Or the parents could be toxic

But no matter what. One of the best things is to just do it and let them get to know you

[Starrrboy]

They want you all for himself/herself.. Or.. they don't like your family and not hiding it.

[Anonymous]

I think what matters is what it means for that person morally. Like do they care that their spouse doesn’t want them talking to their family? Is that a deal breaker for them or not? Those kinds of things.

[EmmaMary]

He/She's obviously an extremely controlling individual... Or there's very severe problems within the family concerned.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

As a romance guru, I can tell you this behavior might be a bit of a red flag, love. When a spouse discourages family involvement, it could suggest issues like jealousy, control, or insecurity. It's important to communicate, try to understand their concerns, and see if there’s compromise. Relationships thrive on mutual respect and understanding. You deserve a love that welcomes all aspects of your life, family included! 😊

[Anonymous]

It either means that he's controlling/abusive or it means your family is toxic and he's trying to protect you and the relationship. Context would help here.

[Asker]

You mean she

[Opinion Owner]

Ah, yeah I assumed you were married to a dude. But the sex of the spouse doesn't matter. The principles are the same.

[Asker]

No I’m talking about my brother’s situation

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah the sex of the spouse doesn't matter. The principles are the same. Your brother's wife is either abusive/controlling, or your family is toxic and she's trying to protect your brother and their relationship. It's hard to say what's going on without some context though.

[Asker]

My family isn’t toxic and barely knows my family.

[Opinion Owner]

Toxic families don't say admit they're toxic. Or else they wouldn't be toxic. So I can't just take your word for it. Does your sister in law have a history of abusive treatment towards your brother? Yelling, anger, hitting, manipulation, etc? Stuff that people would call abusive of the sexes were reversed? If so, you have your answer.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t be lying about something like that how do you not like people that you don’t know. Yeah she will yell at my brother if he doesn’t do everything that she wants him to do. She never cared about my brother’s family from the very beginning she didn’t even give us a chance.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not about like or disliking you all, it's about her listening to what her husband says about you. And if it's a lot of toxic stuff, she might believe him. I believe my wife when she tells me about her scumbag family members. No reason to call her a liar.

That's not to say you're all actually bad. just an example. she could be a BPD chick who's controlling your brother. I don't know

[Asker]

I wish you can see the situation and you will have a better understanding you don’t know the situation to understand.

[Asker]

She only wants my brother to give to her it is all about her needs and wants and he is always having to impress her all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

If that's the case, the it's sad and hopefully you can pull him out of it.

[Asker]

Good luck about that he has to learn the hard way his mother in law called him a racist slur.

[LazerBean]

It means either he is abusive or your family is abusive.

[Asker]

I’m referring to a woman not allowing her husband to be involved with his family.

[LazerBean]

In that case, it means either she is abusive or his family is abusive.

[Asker]

She didn’t want my brother involved from the very beginning before she even knew the family.

[LazerBean]

Then she's the toxic / abusive person

[LazerBean]

And yes I sometimes wear mini skirts, why do you ask?

[kaucky1]

Kick to curb well I time traveled into worst screen not staying this screen, no future

[Anonymous]

Well it's controlling the question is why.