Would you marry someone you met online?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

"Online dating" does not mean that your relationship is conducted entirely online and you never meet in person. You "meet" online, exchange a few DMs, then you exchange phone numbers, you have a few conversations on the phone (at least that is how older folks do it because we aren't afraid to talk to each other,) then you schedule your first face-to-face date. From there, it is just like conventional dating.

I met my wife online (on zoosk. com) in December 2020. Our first in person date was within a week of our online meeting. We started living together in July 2021. We got engaged in March 2023, and married in April 2024.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Never say never. But I don’t do online for many reasons as I just don’t know who I’m talking to. There is risks but there is risks witn anything as well

Valdemort · Accepted Answer

Well, if you take it offline at some point too... lol That's how all the dating apps work, right?

lilBigPotato · Accepted Answer

Sure? It's just how you met someone, of course would have to take it offline

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes, if her and I have great chemistry and connection together and we are both attracted to each other , then absolutely

ohsheeT · Answer

Of course. Because if you like them that much you will meet in person

FoxyFatale · Answer

Why not? If I met someone online who I really clicked with and built a genuine connection with, I wouldn’t see why it couldn’t lead to something serious. People meet in all sorts of ways these days, so online could be just as good as any other way.

sawno · Answer

Its the only circumstances where i'd consider marrying because then its needed for the visa.

bowenw · Answer

Where I meet someone would have no bearing on whether or not I would marry them. If they were a good person that I loved after getting to know them for a long time, I would not hesitate.

Miristheiss · Answer

I met mine at church. If our values and life goals lined up... etc. I wouldn't really care where we met each other. Most women on line (dating apps) aren't wife material but theoretically it is possible.

Fireguy17 · Answer

yeppers, that is where I met my wife. I live out in the boondocks, so there were not many choices, so we met on eHarmony.

leahzrc · Answer

That would be very rare for me bc I am not active on social media but I could see it happen if it were that lucky lmao

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

That all depends on how much i like that person how deep our connection is and what type of chemistry we have

Staximus · Answer

Only if I spent a lot of time with her in person after meeting her online, I would not marry a woman who I've never seen in person

abc3643 · Answer

I did. I met my wife professionally via emails. Eventually, she came to my place of work on business. A week later, she was my girlfriend... which her husband was not too happy about.

Grond21 · Answer

I'm going to. My fiance and I met on this app almost 6 years ago

Dongie · Answer

Yep! But I've never been married and at my age I can afford to be a little reckless in that regard. 🕺

nawtee_me · Answer

Yes but not immediately. There has to be a lot of video chatting to make sure they are who they say they are. There also has to be at some point an in person meeting. No hoping for the best and jumping in head first…?

FemPuppy · Answer

Oh absolutely i met my boyfriend online and we have been dating for 2 years now and I think we will get married I'd love to anyway

Sunrising · Answer

Who knows? A relationship has to start somewhere!

David_beckham · Answer

I don't think that it's a matter of if I have met that person online or offline; I think it's more about if the vibe matched, if our long-term goals matched, if our living style matches, and many more.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yes. Who cares who you met. Just not that 90 Day fiance show!! Where do they find such damaged needy people? 😯

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Would you buy a car without test driving it first? Of course not.

rizzzz007 · Answer

Depends how much I know her and we met people online and we match the vibe with them then we meet

NicholasRedone · Answer

Unlikely I want the love at first sight spark - banging 🫠🤔😋🍨🍦🙃😅🤭

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I might... if I got the right vibe from her.

WonderingManII · Answer

The question is not about where you met someone. The question should be are you two compatible.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

It would really depend on them being honest and truthful and actually loving me. If they lie to me and have no love for me I have no need of them.

Jay-_- · Answer

I wouldn't marry her strictly off online interactions. (Never say never tho right?)

YourExLover69 · Answer

Yes sure I can. If she is genuinely interested in me.

fish5505_87 · Answer

My former roommate did! She and her husband have two kids and a dog, twenty years later.

Smile456 · Answer

Not if I didn't live with them first. Living with someone is the real test.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

currently engaged to one, so sure

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never dated online

chrissykerdock · Answer

long as he has a pulse

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

If chemistry was right

exitseven · Answer

If we were a good match I might.

DJB72 · Answer

I did. We had 21 years of marriage.

CubaPirate · Answer

That's a long shot but never say never

Markella2 · Answer

I got to know her for at least 6 months.

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody i met has been marriage material.

Ariesman81 · Answer

It's a definite possibility.

Pterodon · Answer

Yeah if we loved each other

QuestionObsession · Answer

Of course I would. Aren't they people too?

talka20 · Answer

Possible for me

NewestOdium · Answer

I would and I have

Amur8711 · Answer

Yeah, if we started dating

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, if she's my type of girl.

eagle1951 · Answer

maybe if i truly loved them

serious · Answer

The answer is No.

strateguy632 · Answer

Possibly.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Yes some people do

Rockey_the_bicker · Answer

Yessss

aycosko · Answer

Yed can be posibble

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

hell no

Tstrbrainer · Answer

It happens often

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