How does it feel to be married?

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Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

It definitely feels good, like you're "on track" in life when you're in the first half of your friend/family group to get married. It also boosts your self concept that someone genuinely wants to be on your team for all of life, not just the young/hot days of it.

Taking the next step really does cement a level of emotional security, mostly because it's contrasted to those who don't even if both relationships end. It's still better to have been drafted and strike out than to be put on the bleachers even if the team loses a game.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Not married, but being home from school now, I could ask my dad. Here it comes… “I used to be wrong occasionally. Now I’m wrong professionally." XD

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Never been married but I assume it’s unique to everyone. It can be amazing having a partner, a best friend, a companion, emotional support, unconditional love (within reason), etc. On the other hand it can be a nightmare, abuse, misery, empty, being lonely in your own home, one sided, exhausted, etc.

kraegon · Accepted Answer

I love it. My wife is my best friend! I imagine it's hell if you're not with the right person. I can think of quite a few past relationships that would have been awful if prolonged, but I've been quite happy with my wife. Love her more each day

AviatorTom · Answer

It's a good feeling to be married... most of the time. And when it isn't, you think about the good times that soon return.

Finchie40 · Answer

Great if you are married to the right person.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

It feels good when you are with the right person. I felt comfortable and completely at home with him. Coming home to him everyday was great and the sex was absolutely amazing. It never got old or boring like some people say. Tbh it felt the same as when we were just girlfriend and boyfriend lol

( that's before his mental illness set in of course lol)

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It probably feels like this, I have heard nightmare stories. As for being married it’s an experience I have never felt & never will experience because I don’t plan on getting married & nowadays I wouldn’t be stupid enough to say I DO.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@simslover92 to some people, it may be filled with regret or later regret or even buyers remorse - or the feeling that they've hooked line and sinker into a commitment that's hard to back out from without losing 50 percent of belongings lol or shared assets then lol 💍💍😜

HaveNoName · Answer

When you have the strong belief that being married is the only righteous way to be in a physical and intimate relationship with the opposite gender, then the question of "how does it feel to be married?" does not pop up in your head.

WhitneySnow · Answer

My parents fight a lot. I don’t know any married couples my age.

Stevepro68 · Answer

Try to imagine being locked in a small box with one porno magazine, no food. And sandpaper super glued to both hands. While watching though the airholes the woman you love burn 100 dollars bills in a fire, looking at her phone doom scrolling.
And that's the weekend version.

itsannalee · Answer

The same as being in relationship, just before marriage i put everything for my family (parents) after married i put myself for my husband and make him as priority.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Overall, it's great. Sometimes you're more excited and passionate about each other and others, you just feel like roommates. But in general, it's a very stable and fulfilling life.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

I have never been married but many married couples are unhappy and this makes me uneasy about marriage. Maybe I can get married when I am 30 but not for now.

Shiprex · Answer

It's good overall but the romantic notion of it is well overstated. It takes a lot of compromise and communication as well as plenty of communication.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is wonderful, intoxicating, exciting. Probably due to the deepened connection and intimacy.

Ferngully2000 · Answer

Not much different from being in a long term relationship, Highs with the lows, it takes work for sure. Main thing is not to take each other for granted or get in a rut. Try to keep the passion alive too.

Likes2drive · Answer

I used to be married years ago for many years, but it can be good with the right person but other times it feels like you’re trapped and have no friends and it’s only you too that you see every day

sage2021 · Answer

If you can have fun with each other and laugh a lot together the rest is gravy!🫂❤️

bddddd · Answer

It feels like nothing at all. Unless you to fly to Vegas to get married overnight, you have already done all the work the relationship needs. You get a ring and that's it.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Looking at it afterwards... it feels like living way below my own potential.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I’m unmarried and still a virgin. I’m very selective when it comes to finding my first man.

exitseven · Answer

It took some getting used to but it's all good.

Godihateyou · Answer

Like making a promise at 23 you could never understand and then regretting it every second but you ain't no bitch so you tough it out until the murder suicide after the kids are grown.

dudeinohio · Answer

Pretty good. No loneliness and regular sex. Got someone to talk to .

Anonymous · Answer

Marriage can be great, but the divorce erases everything good about it and leaves an empty hole that never goes away.

Anonymous · Answer

it's the same as being in a relationship, but i guess they just brag more about it

Sal_Monella · Answer

Whether it is the right thing or the wrong thing to do, it i s confining.

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

You will have to decide what to have for dinner. Every day of your life. Forever.

Anonymous · Answer

Here you go.

princeofromance · Answer

I am not sure considering I am not nor have ever been married.

notCryHONEY · Answer

0:00 singleness 1:27 marriage 3:01

Anonymous · Answer

I have no idea, I've never been in any kind of relationship, let alone married.

Seveceksin · Answer

It feels good when you are with the right person.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Like a nightmare that you can’t wake up from. Don’t ever do it

Robert1971 · Answer

Been married since 2010. Sometimes we have our ups and downs. Most of the time we are happy.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Like it did when we were just dating lol

January_Sixth · Answer

Obviously it depends

nicfire171 · Answer

Not sure how to describe the feeling. It’s secure.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

probably no different than when ur not married

msc545 · Answer

Frightening and disheartening.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Sandy and squishy.

DawnB · Answer

Even better divorced

Jersey2 · Answer

Comfortable.

CubaPirate · Answer

Contented

xyzguy1296 · Answer

No clue

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Wish I knew

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