1.2K opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. yes it’s not about money to me Especially when you’re a man
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@Melanie31 Rich or poor, if I loved them... Yes.!
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Never. I don’t marry according to income lol 😂
I would never marry a rich person either. I would marry the person who was right for me. In all honesty, I’d probably be most comfortably financially speaking with a working clad person, who was similar to myself. I’d want someone to work on making a life for our future selves. Not someone I have to carry and haul over my shoulders, or someone I’d feel in debt to. Or “beneath.”
Someone I could see as an equal. A life partner. 🟰
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6 moAbsolutely. Money has never mattered to me. I just want a ride or die that's willing to sleep under a bridge with me. Real loyalty not based on how much I make.
20 Reply556 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. Sure, but she’d have to have good money manager skills and little to no debt.
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5 moI grew up in poverty , my parents would literally not eat so that “we” could… I never had money and I never had “new” , recycling and up scaling that is now tending was a way of life for us…. I don’t want pity or sympathy though.. I sneered at the people replacing their home furnishings after a year for new , buying a whole new wardrobe of clothes because their sense of fashion changed … what a waste…. Is this what it means to have money I commonly thought?
Now I have a comfortable life , I don’t NEED any more.
So why have I gave you this insight to my life to me in answer to your question.
Well , it’s not about poor to me , sure perhaps I have a minority perspective but I doubt it. It’s about who you are !! , are you poor because you make stupid financial decisions , are you poor because you abuse credit because you think you NEED the things you don’t , the shiny bits that don’t actually add to your life but detract from it. Or are you poor because relatively speaking you’re not financially where you need to be … yet
I always look past a persons present circumstances. Largely people are a product of their choices , but some of those sadly more defined by at least genetics , culture and geography.
I grew up “without”, at times I felt less than or even ‘worthless’ but this gives me a perspective , attitude and outlook now that’s incredibly valuable10 Reply
6 moif wasn't married, I'd consider it. It's about the person not the state. but they have to have something to contribute to life. Im fine living a basic existence, but Iike living well as well in certain ways, like food and comfort at home.
so many poor people could do better if they just had support. Some people though are corrupt and will remain stuck... by way of their programming, not their abilities. limited by their thinking.
it worked well though my wife and I were fairly even in finances and complementary too.
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6 moOnly if he thought I was poor as well, otherwise I would forever wonder if he was marrying me for my money. But then of course, if I was fooling him, honesty would be lacking.
Bottom line... any relationship without trust is of no value.
Final Answer: No
10 ReplySure, if the pussy, tits or brains are good enough.
Being "poor" doesn't mean much if you have something someone "better" is willing to take you on. Just be careful that it isn't the ONLY thing you are marrying for. Mainly as then they will lose interest, leaving you poor again.
10 ReplyIf they were able to love you more than any other person that you came across, I do not see the reason why not.
Just because somebody is poor, doesn’t mean to say That they cannot provide you with:
Love,
Happiness,
Work their fingers to the bone to support you,
Be with you through the thick and thin,
And never ever give up on you.
I think that’s a good starting point, don’t you?10 ReplyMen don't care what assets a woman has or how much she earns. What we do care about are character attributes.
I'd happily marry a broke waitress if she suited me.
40 ReplyMoney should NOT enter the consideration at all. Doing so means you volunteered to "Go Pro." I, for one, am NOT interested in dating and potentially marrying a prostitute. In more vulgar terms... a whore.
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6 moDepends. Do they have any ambitions? Education/want of education? Like, if it's someone that's actively trying their best to make something of themselves, then yes. If it's someone with 2 brain cells fighting for 3rd place, fuck no
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5 moI would marry a person I love and feel connected to...
20 ReplyYes. I'm not poor and don't need my spouses money
30 ReplyYes. I sort of did because she was a first job after uni state although her parents are well off she wanted to be independent and so was skint mostly to begin with.
20 ReplyProbably not ideal. I make good money but I would rather find someone that makes a fairly good income so we can travel and stuff. I don’t really make enough to pay for 2 people all the time. But I also would not rule it out. Love is certainly more important than money.
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6 moI'd rather marry a woman who is poor, than a woman who comes from a rich family. A rich woman will have a sense of entitlement, where as a poor woman will appreciate the little things.
10 Reply Of course not, but a man will because it is not her money that he is after.
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5 moTo marry is a process of insecurity, but not one of wealth.
So it's a ''no'' in all three cases to me.
10 Reply I already knew this was a woman asking before I even opened the question.
10 ReplyIf I loved her, I would. I have enough money for us.
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@Melanie31 Thank you for the Like
I’ve recently heard you can marry and not attach credit and if that’s true I’d say yes.
10 ReplyMoney isn't everything. I would if she was the right one
10 Reply799 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. My wife and I were both flat broke when we got married.
20 ReplyIf your finances are in order, then sure. You are 17, so it would not be my advice to do so unless you have an inheritance coming to you etc
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6 moYeah, because I'm not exactly overflowing with monetary gain at the moment..
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Anonymous(25-29)6 mono.
Only poor people want to marry other poor people.
Just the truth...
you never see rich person dying to marry a poor person
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Opinion Owner5 mo@Theodish_Warrior
men do care. you just aren't aware because you come from the lower classes.
rich men tend to marry rich women.
Nobody likes poor.
Opinion Owner5 moevery time a rich man gets married, his parents always want to make sure she comes from a rich family.
i live near wall st. i see this shit all the time.- 5 mo
I knew the women would have the same answer as you. You all are about $
Opinion Owner5 mo@blackeagle007
rich men are the same way too.
rich men only want to marry rich women
rich parents want their sons to marry rich girls.
nobody likes poor
only poor men like poor women. nobody else likes poor- 5 mo
Ok Karen
Opinion Owner5 mo@blackeagle007
ok broketard- 5 mo
Trump supporter. lol. Your high standards keeps ya single
Opinion Owner5 mo@blackeagle007
At least I get to retire early. you're gonna work till the day you die- 5 mo
Retire where? White trash maga Florida? lol. Your attitude sucks. This is why we guys are checking out. Women are terrible
Opinion Owner5 mo@blackeagle007
thats why you will die all alone, single with no kids
Opinion Owner5 mo@Theodish_Warrior
[Men tend to marry women of lower status and women marry men of upper status. It's called hypergamy.]
rich men marry rich women. Maybe not on exactly equal wealth but SIMILAR WEALTH.
For example, she makes 250k, he makes 350k.
Or if his family is worth 50 million, her family is worth 5 million.
but you will never ever see a man worth 50 million wanting to marry his own maid.
Opinion Owner5 mo@VIVANT
exactly!
when was the last time a rich man wanted to marry his maid? NEVER!
It's always a rich girl from a financially well off family, very educated, very well spoken, polished, successful, polite.
Opinion Owner5 mo@Theodish_Warrior
Wealthy men tend to marry wealthy women.
Wealthy men tend to look down on the poor.
Argue with me all you want.
You will never see a rich man marry his maid. And trust me, he's got PLENTY OF MAIDS running around his house.
If he really wanted to marry a broke maid , he would.
6 moNo, I won't get married because I'm poor too, we can't live as two poor people.
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@DemiMot I don't need an old man I'm just telling the truth, two poor people can't get along, I'm not seeing anyone because I'm poor anyway, I'll evaluate this situation when I earn money.
Right now I can't afford to support a woman so she would have to be able to pay her own bills or at least for half of the shit
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6 moI was married to a poor person and every girlfriend I end up with is always broke or poor it seems
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6 moIf she brings peace rather than strife and drama and is interesting to me in some ways that is good enough for me.
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6 moWell, as a worthy guy, I’d say sure. But it does depend on the reply to my opinion on your last question… 🤔😂
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6 moAbsolutely. I don't need any more money so it's not a factor for me.
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6 moSure, I don't need to be filthy rich to be happy and I make enough to support myself and another.
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4 moYou practically can't. This is the sad truth. A poor person usually comes with debts and poor professional skills that will just drag you down.
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6 moHacked yeah I rather much marry a poor woman and not a here's the list.
*Toxic
*Maga
*Racist Karen
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6 moNo woman wants ugly or poor they can make a poor handsome man rich
10 ReplyI would never marry but if I did it wouldn't matter to me if she was rich or poor.
10 ReplyYeah I’m poor. I just hope he has work ethic and makes enough to support us.
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Anonymous(36-45)6 moSure, if she's my type of girl, yes I would.
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6 moYes I'd make her rich
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6 moIf I loved them I would
10 Reply663 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. I might. Maybe I did. We're happy.
10 ReplyI'd marry any Christian girl with good character
10 ReplyNo. I need him to the provider.
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5 moYes I would, if I was in love with them.
10 Reply525 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. Yeah
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5 moMen are after love. Women are after $
10 ReplyMoney can’t buy happiness anyway…..
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6 moNope.
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@Sam1133 how does someone get poor after a marriage?
- 5 mo
@Sam1133 then you were never that wealthy to start with. Recession can definitely have a negative impact on businesses but if it affects you in a way that you end up with nothing then your business was probably not that profitable. That's why is so important people have a fund for a rainy day. Nevertheless if such thing happened to my Husband I would expect him or even us to start a plan to get back on track.
Wealth and poverty aren't permanent.
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6 moSure I would. I make my own money
10 Reply675 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic. The answer is No.
10 Replyi did and i was
10 ReplyFor sure
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5 moAbsolutely
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5 monope
10 ReplyYes I would
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6 moNope
10 ReplyHell no!
00 ReplyOf course
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