Would you marry someone with visible tattoos of their ex’s names?

[Anonymous]

I am getting forced to marry a girl who has all her ex's name on her body now they are just designs but you can spot the names.
I am a virgin.
I never had a girlfriend It feels like I am forced to be with someone who is going to cheat, even if she doesn't feels like I'll be getting used to cleanse her image and ruin mine in the process

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Did she cheat on those boyfriends? If not, why would you ever suppose she would cheat on you then. If anything, she is showing that she is dedicated to whoever she has been with and also maybe a bit foolish to get anyone's name tattooed on them except for maybe their kids' names, and even then, it's questionable.

Also, why are you being forced to marry anyone to begin with? That's certainly not ideal anyway.

[Asker]

She will have so many requirements, expectations and a constant fear for me that she is just after my family's wealth or just profits (we aren't thatwealthy currently I have a depth of near about 50,000£

[Asker]

And it's how things are mostly in my country

[Asker]

And like the worst part is she had so many relationships.
What makes you think she will stay in this one.
And why should I give her a chance where I am not getting my Frist at all with anyone.
For me it's better to die alone in place of being with someone who had done everything with someone else before.
I won't even get a chance to fall in love and I had to start a forced married life with someone who is or was in love with someone else.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Oh lord. People are allowed to date. That's how they find out who they are compatible with to see if they want to go further. So what if she's dated a lot. Do you know how they ended? Did she break up with them or did they break up with her. Why did they break up? Do you know that either? It's unfair to say she won't be committed to you just because she has a dating history.

Why are you worried about her wanting your wealth. It's a forced marriage so it's not like she is getting a choice either. If you have wealth then you share it with your spouse. That's just how it works.

[Asker]

But isn't it unfair for me as well?
Being called useless or compared all the time to someone who I dont even know.
Being called creep or to naive on every step of the way?
Seen that happening with a lot guys who are like me. With the girl with more then one partner

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Why would you be compared or called a creep? Half of what you are saying is making no sense. I just sense insecurity on your part because she has a past with others. Guys like you act like women should never be with anyone else but you which just isn't realistic. Maybe she thought others were the right one until they weren't. Demanding a woman have no romantic past is selfish on your part and shows a lack of security on your end.

[Asker]

Yes I am insecure. Because I was never loved and now it feels that someone is getting forced to marry me, and I am afraid that there won't be any romance. I am also afraid that what if someone else I liked and I might had an chance with them. Look I know that noone else can love me and this forced married feels like I am going to just get used to set someone on the right path.
And I would be always fear that if she meets someone else who she loves I'll be alone all over again.
And the time, love, money spent for her happiness will be just a memory of pain for me.
I am afraid of moving on process as well.
I have never been in a relationship.
I have had only one sided love and rejections which have broken me down and afraid of even getting attached.
+ Time

[Asker]

You know I have lived my whole life in a fantasy that someone would love me first like other people who do find someone. Who are blessed with beauty, quality, talent and what not.
But I am not extraordinary in anyway I am just me. Honest, anxious about future, kind to the people I know, And don't have boundaries so that people can use me.

[Asker]

I don't know if you can understand but this whole thing feels just bad to me.
I am going back to UK to find a job there to escape this situation.

[Agape93]

I don't marry. But I don't give a shit what tattoos you have of someone. You loved them they're a part of you and your story. I won't begrudge you over a skin picture.

[Asker]

But that story is not a part of me, why I have to carry her expectations, or her feeling when none is in love with me to carry mine.
I don't want to hear that he was much better in this!
Why I married you nonsense.
Or more over me complaining to her about my unsuccessful love life full of rejection and heartaches.
I am broken as well but I don't to get paired with her cause she doesn't even have anything to offer me as she has spent all her trustworthy love on someone else and that person used her.

[Agape93]

I didn't ask about your personal life.

[Abbycado]

How are you being forced?

[Asker]

Family wants me to take care of someone who is like that just to see me suffer or turn them good.
They feel like I am a person who can fix her.
I said no but, I am being promised that she is now good and needs a second chance at life.
Why should I give the second chance?
I am in this condition where I am desperate enough to fall in love with someone good enough but not with someone to give them one more chance where I didn't even receive my first.

[loveyouoak]

No, I absolutely wouldn't marry him. But if I loved him very much, he would either have to get the tattoo removed or have my name tattooed over it.

[jahaims]

Obviously not