Should I go on a weeklong trip with guy friends and not tell my husband?

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My guy friends are willing to pay for me. All I have to do is go with them. It will be one week trip. I don’t want to tell my husband. I might just tell him I will be traveling for work for a week.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Since you placed your question under the "Dating" topic, we all know that this week long trip is not going to be a trip without you having to reimburse in a way or another for the expenses those friends settle for you.

Furthermore, not wanting to tell your husband tells me a lot about you and your ultimate intentions when going on that trip.

So, my question is: how many trips of that kind have you done before and not have told your husband?

You ask us for our opinion and so far, all the opinions speak in favor of telling your husband.

NoDecision · Accepted Answer

Wow! Keeping secrets? If you have nothing to hide, then why are you wanting to do this in secret? Will there be threesomes or something? 😯 If you have to have secrets of this nature, then your marriage is already over.

236color · Accepted Answer

Do you like being married? I think this is a great way to end up divorced. A trip with "guy friends" the husband isn't invited on is bad enough, but a SECRET trip. Just tell him "I'm going off for a week long gangbang" and see how he reacts.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Why would you it want to tell him? Sounds like subterfuge in your mind.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Id divorce you the second I found out you lied. Lying to yiur husband is not a good idea. These things have a sneaky way of coming to light.  If your comfortable ending up single, go for it.

fantasticass · Answer

Why are you married? Why are you hanging out with male friends while married? Sure, go away with them, and start your divorce when you return from the trip

spartan55 · Answer

Yeah that sounds like a great idea. You will have a whole week to bang all of them. You are gross.

beenherebefore · Answer

No. This is wrong on so many levels. If you respect your Husband and cherish your relationship do not it.

Purpleronnie · Answer

The question feels like the definition of rage bait.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Trust is important in a marriage. If you do not plan on having sex with the guys tell him. If you think sex will happen then maybe your marriage is not too solid. Ur thoughts?

Mike_Hum · Answer

If you want to be divorced, yeah. No one can be this stupid, can they?

Anonymous · Answer

You know the answer to this one, but it doesn’t matter because I don’t believe you’re either a woman or married

Anonymous · Answer

I would not do that. And never lie to my husband. That's not lovely.

genericname85 · Answer

yeah. lying to your spouse is always a great idea.

Anonymous · Answer

You're mistaken if you think the only expectation your guy friends will have of you is to go on the trip. Make sure you bring plenty of lube with you.

msc545 · Answer

By all means, go right ahead and do that and sleep with all of them. You're going to do that anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

If that happened to me he would be minus one wife. Rapidly.

Deepinthought345 · Answer

If you travel often on work, then this can be a good enough excuse.

Twalli · Answer

It seems that you assume it would be problematic if your husband knows which is a red flag.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Why would you not tell him? Deception like that is just one hop away from cheating.

HairF3tish · Answer

wow I think you are not normal for just asking that

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

You just said you want your husband to trust you. Why aren't you ever honest with him

Tyler_with_Questions · Answer

That’s incredibly wrong in so many ways.

NathanDavis · Answer

do any of them is a Linux enthusiast?

slatyb · Answer

Do you want to stay married? Then no.

Paige2006 · Answer

Would the guys have sex with you?

Staximus · Answer

This old town bicycle act is getting old

888theGreat · Answer

I seea divorce incoming

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

As long as they don't try to club you !!!

Jeff51 · Answer

You should tell hubby so he can say no.

CyberGhost615 · Answer

What’s his name so I can tell him to divorce you?

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not, but it's your choice.

Grilo · Answer

Women doing women shit

noohair · Answer

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