My boyfriend goes on vacation with friends?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He said he wants to go travel to some other city with some friends

Without me

I said how sad we can't make plans together

He said:Why said? Its ok we have lots of time ahead

I asked if he doesn't want to spend time with me

He said:No. Its just the circumstances... we well go out some day maybe during vacation, but i want to have rest

How to react... im sad and angry actually

[PeteBy]

I'm no social animal at the best of times and personally would never go on vacation with the 'guys'. Frankly I only spend maybe an hour with my male friends and even then the last time I did that was twelve years ago; as the more they drink the more they become boorish, lewd, crude and just boys will be boys.

I digress though. It's not healthy to want to spend every living moment with him. We all need 'me time', time to unwind, not feel pressured. Let off steam.

If he wants to go on vacation with the guys. You need to trust him and let him go enjoy himself while he still can. Don't suffocate him.

I've been in a couple of relationships where she wanted to spend every single minute with me and it becomes unbearable. You can push someone away by loving them too much.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He doesn't want to spend time with me even on weekends wtf
I feel unloved

[PeteBy]

Well. I'd be finding someone new if I were you. I don't get why men constantly want to hang around with their buddy's when they have a beautiful girlfriend/partner/wife. I do get the need for time occasionally but if he'd rather hang with them than you constantly. Find someone who will want to spend time with you.

[20yearsolder]

You are allowed to go on vacation with the girls too. Maybe you should do that, make a girls trip. It's actually good to be a part occasionally. Relax, everything will be fine

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well he always refuses to trips with me
Or even weekends with me
We only meet once a week whre we have dinner and sleep
Dont even have sex since he is always tired after work

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Last sex 17 of July... pfff wtf?

[20yearsolder]

So why are you staying in this relationship? Go find somebody that wants to be with you, wants to cuddle with you, wants to have sex with you, wants to be with you

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well
He says therr is nothung he doesn't like about me
And me... well i think i love him

[20yearsolder]

Well if you love him then I'm sure that you trust him. You can't be together 24/7 365 days a year. You're going to need little breaks like this. Us guys need to go hang with the boys every once in awhile. You should do the same with the girls. Then you guys plan stuff together as well

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

We work together everyday during 10 hours tho

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Maybe he is tired of me
But i want more time for US
Not working but intimate couple stuff

[soe11]

It is really sad news, I never go without my girlfriend.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well
He does

[soe11]

Get rid of him.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Why tho

[PrettyPriya]

Because, looking at your profile history of questions, you have about 101 problems with your boyfriend.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

@PrettyPriya well...

[In_Trance]

you need to get over it

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What do you mean?

[In_Trance]

I mean there's absolutely nothing wrong with what he's doing

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He doesn't want to spend time with Me

[In_Trance]

You really need to change your perception if you want relationships to be successful it's not that he doesn't want to spend time with you it's that he needs to balance time amongst all things that are important to him. Different people require different balances. If you need something more than he's capable of giving then you need to make a decision