Ex girlfriend of 4 years leaves me, find boyfriend within weeks and treats me like dirt?

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Ex girlfriend of 4 years leaves me, find boyfriend within weeks and treats me like dirt?
My ex and I were together 4 years. We were each others first love and first sexual partner. She broke up with me 2 years ago saying she wasn't happy and then just shortly after got into a relationship with another guy. 2 months later she contacts me and says that she's sorry. We meet, talk and we decide to try again. She leaves this new guy for me.

2 years pass and our relationship hits a rocky spot. Then she leaves me in September and starts dating another guy almost immediately, when she had just told me a month before that she had a gut feeling since the day we met that we would last forever. After 1 month and a half I contact her. We start talking. She says she loves me and wants to try again. She even kept my note that I sent with the flowers when we broke up. She said she kept all my love notes when I asked her.

3 weeks later from nowhere she decides that no, she can't do this and then breaks up with me AGAIN. I ask her how she could do this since she just told me she loved me and wanted to try again just days ago. She doesn't give me an answer. She blocks me on Facebook when I try to talk to her.

2 weeks later I see her with another guy, holding hands. A little over a month later I see that they went on vacation together. I only contacted her once after she blocked me and that was after I saw they had gone on vacation. I told her in a short message how I thought she was false and how she had lied to me about her love.

A month later I decide to block her number for good and I accidentally call her. But I hang up immediately and block her number. The day after her father calls and threatens to call the police if I contact her again. Like I was some sort of monster who hit her daughter when I had taken care of her for 4 years. I still to this day can't understand why and how she could do this. How she could find a new boyfriend so fast and move on. My friends said it was a rebound but it's been over 3 months now and they seem as happy as ever
Ex girlfriend of 4 years leaves me, find boyfriend within weeks and treats me like dirt?
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