Why say “marry late, not wrong” when age can make marriage harder?

[Peachie2050]

It doesn’t make sense as it gets impossible for women to have a husband after a certain age. It is why a lot of women panic and get married quickly around the age of 30.

[HighValue]

As a good quality man, I can tell you that once a woman is past 30 she has no value at all as a NEW partner. Men with options HAVE OPTIONS. They will not purposely choose a worse option. Having a promiscuous past or having kids from a past relationship also makes it much harder to find a good long term mate too. The best advice I can give you is do not take relationship advice from other women. Many are jealous and will try to ruin your life. And when in a relationship, make an agreement that when home without your partner, either partner should not let the other person's friends come in when their partner isn't there. A girlfriend/wife should not let her partner's male friends come in, even to wait for him to get there, and a boyfriend/husband should not let his mate's friends come in to wait for her to get there either. No alone time in private with others because plenty of people, even "friends" are back stabbing scumbags and will cause problems.

Also, if you want a successful, happy long term relationship, BOTH people should agree to not have smartphones or most social media. It is best to prevent potential problems than to try to fix something after it is damaged because it will never be the same again.

[4ngelic]

You're Indian I think, in the west it's not that much more difficult. Most women get married between 27 & 35, no one panic marries around 30 that's not a western thing. Many people even get married much later, some elderly people still get married. For ex one of my aunts got married for the first time at 40, one of my dad's female friends, when she was pushing 50 (first time). One of my neighbors got remarried around 60yo. The only time you should really hurry is if you want to marry someone very hot or wealthy (that isn't too old). They tend to want women in their twenties the most.
Besides there's not really a point in getting married just to get married, you need to like your spouse and be happy living with them. It's better to remain unmarried and maybe forever, than having a bad match. Marriage is supposed to enhance your life. Marriage isn't the sole goal of life at all. You don't need it for children if you want them anyways.

[Peachie2050]

I think it’s harder to marry after 30 even in America

[4ngelic]

I really don't think so (as a half American), 30 is one of the main ages women get married there. If it is, it's not that much harder, at least until 35 or so.
The whole 30 is too old to get married for women is a very very recent concept in the modern west, and is a far-right & manosphere thing, not a general mainstream cultural attitude. You have one of the guys below who believes this for ex.

[Peachie2050]

These things seem mainstream as most guys are saying that these days

[4ngelic]

Not most guys, unless you lurk on certain parts of the internet or you ask 15yos.

This website isn't a great reference on the average western person, not just for guys. Because of the nature of this site, it draws in a lot of different types of weirdos. You've probably noticed that. Ask about stuff like this in a more normal place, and the men will give you different answers.

[BonzoInBitburg]

You aren't the same person at 25 that you are at 35. But once you hit mid 30s, you pretty much are who you are so two people marrying later in life can be more stable than a couple that married young. It's easier to get married when your younger, but it's easier to stay married if you marry later.

[GothEgg]

My belief is that so many eomen marry late and wrong these days because they walked away from a relationship with a great guy they were with in their youth.

There were so many women encouraging me to do the same.

[Nikki1989]

You are joking, right? I know a couple that married in their 70s.

You need to get out more often.

[dudeinohio]

Not harder. Women simply find a guy in their age group. I met my wife when she was 53. There are probably fewer single people in that age group; but it evens out as both genders have the same amount of available people.

[zagor]

Because when you're young your judgment may not be as developed, and a wrong marriage can wreak havoc on your life. Marrying late isn't important, but not marrying wrong is...

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

So does multiple divorces and kids from several different marriages

[jahaims]

It's a cope for women when they can't find a partner until they are passed their prime.

[eagle1951]

I don't belive it's harder