Is Marrying Late And Right Better Than Marrying Early And Wrong?

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Malbonaviro · Accepted Answer

You shouldn't build a connection with someone you aren't interested in, which sadly is exactly what your friends and family will force upon you. 3/5 relationships are family friends which shows just how dependent on others everyone is even in relationships. Popular culture only exacerbates the issues with tropes that do happen to people, but are romanticized. The reality is that marrying shouldn't even be a question for someone you wanted to be with no matter the cost or consequence. It's not your shitty boomer mothers life to decide you should be miserable because she's jealous that she's no longer young and attractive anymore. These idiots saying that you merely lust after someone are literally just idiots. You build a connection with others the more your oxytocin releases with them, so that means they're literally poisoning the well by telling you otherwise. It's very sad to see old people so bitter from how shitty and worthless they had been in life trying to tell young people to waste theirs instead of live it. Don't forget where you come from, a society built on narcissistic people who enslaved and murdered others. Isn't a shocker that they shoot their own in the foot later down the road with bad advice on love.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yea marriage shouldn’t be a topic until the both of you been together for awhile , once the both of you really get to know each other , people that marry fast are just setting themselves up for disaster because they aren’t looking at the big picture , they are just infatuated with each other. So it’s best to wait to get married after you been together for awhile

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I believe that no matter what age a person gets married there are no guarantees it will work out.

I got married the first time when I was 20. We loved each other and got along very well. No fighting or arguing. We didn't have to "work hard" to make our marriage last.
We ended up getting divorced because he joined and band, and left me alone too much. But I wouldn't have ever wanted him to stop playing his music because it would be like cutting off one of his arms. He loved playing his 🎸 guitar!!

The second time I got married, I was 30 - older this time and it was a living disaster? We were divorced 4 years later.

So that's my take on this question.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Marrying late doesn't mean its making a better decision.

I have seen couples who dated for 10 years, get married, then 5 years later divorced.

It all has to do with your ability to pick the right person. Some people just don't know how to pick the right person. And this has to do with the fact many people think passion and chemistry are the most important things that will sustain a marriage. They never look for good character, kindness, consideration, ethics, morals, lifestyle habits compatibility, values, parenting philosophies

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I got married on April 27 this year. I am 69 and my wife was 60 when we got married. We are both as happy as two pigs in slop.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

I suppose it depends on how wrong the early marriage is, and if anything is learned by it. It's kind of a learning process, and you learn best by doing.

By the way, I know two people who are 67 and 70, who may be getting married for the first time soon.

DJB72 · Answer

I married at 31, we had our son when I was 45 and she passed away last month after 21 years of marriage. The only thing I wouldn't give up to have her back is our son.

Waiting has it's drawbacks. Getting older means you may have less time than you thought you'd have with the person you want to grow old with.

The pain of losing someone you love more than life is indescribable, but I wouldn't trade the time we had - good and bad - for anything.

LazerBean · Answer

Well yeah, marrying the right person as always better than marrying the wrong person lolre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Sevenpointfive · Answer

if i could teach my younger self something: it would be that just because it's right here, right now, in your face, doesn't mean it's better. it means you were stupid enough to give up 18 years of your life to find out.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes. Who wants to spend the rest of their days, no matter how many they have left, with someone that's not right for them?

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yes, definitely. Agree 100%. I've known so many people who married early and ended up divorcing

Gwendoline · Answer

Marrying wrong is never good late or early. I think marrying right and early is better than marrying right and late because you miss out on years

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

I will tell you what's wrong! Planning a child free wedding that is the must cruel and horrible thing to do. I hate it how some couples plan a child free wedding.

worldscolide · Answer

I actually agree. I married when I was 29. It took me a long time to be the kind of person who was a good fit for anyone lol.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Definitely unless you live in my neck of the woods because hey another set of rings on the scales

clampfan101 · Answer

Late and right for sure. Marriage is about finding your partner in life.

Garud · Answer

Yes. 99%.  For some marrying late and wrong can also happen

Peridot25 · Answer

My second oldest brother didn’t get married until his mid 30s. And he found the right person to be with.

tfan1 · Answer

I would say so. My wife and I didn’t marry until I was 30 and she was 29. Also we gave our virginity’s to each other on our wedding night 👍🙂

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Learning about birth control helps

kaucky1 · Answer

Does it matter to get marriedre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

shortster · Answer

Marrying right is always better than wrong. But it is best not to take too long to find someone.

Anonymous · Answer

That’s so true. I didn’t get a marriage proposal until I was 33.

Billlewis · Answer

In theory, yes.

Anonymous · Answer

marrying in 23 to 26 is good and. more possiblity for early child as well

WhitneySnow · Answer

Well yeah obviously

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Yeah, probably. Why getting worried?

Fireguy17 · Answer

you betcha, and way cheaper too!

eagle1951 · Answer

yeah all the way

Sugar_7 · Answer

I agree with you.

Wise4myage · Answer

Sounds logical to me.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Sounds correct.

WatchedPot · Answer

Why wouldn't it be?

alicedunrst · Answer

yes i wanna marry

msc545 · Answer

It is not as good as not marrying at all.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

D**N SKIPPY !!!

Jerre · Answer

I think you are 100% correct!

Osmaniyeli · Answer

Bence geç yaşta daha iyi olur.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Yes, later is good option

nawtee_me · Answer

Absolutely…

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Of course it is.

Intheclouds00 · Answer

Yes.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yeah

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