Why do women wait until after they lose their bloom before they realize they must settle for a guy who will marry them?

[Kelley1]

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Men date down, but they marry equals. However, young women chase after the hottest guys they can date. Around age 28, after numerous one-night stands and/or going-nowhere relationships, women realize they need to find a man who will marry them, not just date them.

They look around and ask, "Where have all the good men gone?" Of course, the men they rejected when they were young, sexy, and beautiful are still there, but they are seeking young women in their prime; not older leftover women.

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

There is entire youtube channels dedicated to this topic. It's so common that they have endless content to make fun of.

I think the common consensus is they think they can always pull the guy they want and they just hoe it up until it's too late. Along with unrealistic standards... and those standards just get even more annoying as they age for some reason. You know... the ones that have a laundry list of must have's and they don't bring much more than their clam and attitude to the table... and they don't understand why their ideal man wants nothing to do with their blown out vadge and attitude.

[BlackFalcon03]

Many reasons. A lot of women feel they can akways do better or the grass is greener. A lot of women also price themselves out of the market. A lot of women think theyve more time than they do.

[Kelley1]

It is too easy for a young woman to believe she can marry Chad because he fucks her. However, men date down for sex, but they marry equals. If a man can fuck a woman, he knows he can probably marry her. It doesn't work that way for women. A woman can fuck Chad, but to marry, she has to settle for Brad.

[BlackFalcon03]

Not a case of men dating down for sex. More men differentiate between the women they have sex with and woupd marry.

[Mark_Est]

Typical feminism and girlbossing.

Usually older women tell younger to ruin themselves so men wouldn't want them and perhaps choose the older women instead.

Most dudes are also cucked out of their minds these days. With all the tv shows, movied and media, to think it is normal to be cuck at the end of the womans... phases.

Most dudes also watch porn and cuck train themselves. Sitting in their small chair jerking it to a woman they like, hopping to be with her, while some chads go at her.

What a clown world.

That is why we have this degenarate society.

Men only date virgins. Men have self respect for themselves and the women they date. And any normal woman also has respect for herself, not being some easy ass for fboys or randoms.

[832loverboy73]

Taylor Swift is a #girlboss. Don't think she's bitter.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

they're like
"Oh I wanna enjoy my youth by f**king around, be with adventurous bad boys and live for the thrill" and then when the biological clock calls, they are like "Oh I have been ran through but damn now I quickly have to find a boring simp who has good money and marry plus get kids, because society says so." Feminism however says "No you need no man, continue the f**king around without binding yourself, but also be a girlboss and become bitter from loneliness"

[832loverboy73]

It's "RUN through," not RAN through," but the rest of your opinion is largely right.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

@832loverboy73 you seriously correcting spelling mistakes now dude...

[832loverboy73]

I was a spelling bee champion as a lad, so spelling and grammatical mistakes bug me.

[capriVib]

Because instead of analyzing relationships or reading charts like you, they just go with the flow or waste time on guys who aren't marriage material and finally wake up around 28. But no need to be that pessimistic, they still manage to find someone.

[Kelley1]

Of course, a woman can always find someone if she is willing to settle for an unemployed bum. However, instead of the VP earning $100k, she could have married in her prime; in her decline, she has to settle for a used-car salesman earning $42k.

[capriVib]

Good for you then, you're 22 and right in your prime. Perfect time to take advantage while everyone your age is sleeping on it and bag a rich husband 😂

​Gotta ask though, out of the 2,837,373 messages you get

Why are men so desperate to meet women? ↗

​How do you even tell apart who makes 100k and who makes 42k, isn't that basically pure luck anyway?

Plus looks alone don't even seem enough to lock down a rich guy, seen plenty of wealthy men married to ugly wives, feels like it's mostly just luck.

[slatyb]

"Lose their bloom" ? When does that happen? What does happen is that there are more women graduating college than men, so a woman who does not marry in her twenties is going to have a difficult time finding a college man to marry.

[Kelley1]

That is very true. A 30-year-old attorney with a high income, who was beautiful at age 20, believes she deserves a high-earning VP near her age. However, he is interested in her pretty 20-year-old clerk. It is not a girl's money that men are after.

[Iron_Man]

I’m not into woman that are dating 28-year-olds how does a 28 year-old guy have a lot of money anyway when they’re just getting started out in life? Most guys are in their mid 40s before they even buy Their first house I’ve seen this so many times. My neighbors. I don’t like hot girls that sleep around. They become trash and undesirable if their body count is too high and I don’t want them.

[Kelley1]

Who cares what a guy is earning when he is just out of college at age 24, if he has the potential to earn a high income by age 30? It is the potential that I care about. The structural engineer that I am dating had a starting salary of $82K. It will be more than $100k by age 30. I don

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think they can make that much money at 30 either

[Kelley1]

I don't mind a few lean years when I first lean years when I first get married. I would far rather marry a 24-year-old man with a high earning potential than some over-the-hill, pot-bellied 40-year-old who has peaked out at $90K. Young women who marry old men because they earn $20K more can have them with my blessings. I don't want them.

[Iron_Man]

If you’re so special and can find the best then why aren’t you married then why don’t you get married your past your age now that you said about your prime? It’s time to do something.

[Kelley1]

I know that, and I have lowered my standards. I will lower them again if not engaged by New Year.

[Iron_Man]

You have a little bit less than two months. We’ll see if you’re engaged. By December 31.

[lightbulb27]

Experience, pressure... they have a clock. They have seen other women suffer mistakes, they learn.

[Kelley1]

They learn, but not until after they have lost their bloom.

[lightbulb27]

some kids don't learn to stay away from bees til they poke a stick into the nest. Learn by doing type vs learn by others?

[virgo2267]

I wouldn’t say settle. But definitely wiser at making their options more suitable to their needs

[loveslongnails]

Everybody has dreams, most don't come true.

[msc545]

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk.

[Kelley1]

Both men and women age, but men age more slowly than women. A 40-year-old man, earning a higher salary, is not a more desirable husband than a 25-year-old guy with the potential to earn even more.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I honestly think they're so into having fun the don't even realize their doing that

[MrChinaski]

It may well be an optimal search strategy ex ante. Life is risk and ex post outcomes vary.

[MrChinaski]

At least my experience is that most women I know that are single have lived otherwise similarly to most women I know that are married. And it just hasn't happened, for whatever reason.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Hit me up in two years and introduce me to your younger sister.

[leviopperman]

because it's just what people do nowadays. it didn't used to be this way

[Surely]

Pretty much like you said!

[832loverboy73]

Because they can monetize their looks (if they're hot) until 35 or 40.

[Kelley1]

There is little demand for a 35- to 40-year-old woman. There is a huge demand for an 18- to 24-year-old woman.

[832loverboy73]

I'd club a buxom 35-to-40-year-old babe.

[Paige2006]

Because they are having fun being single