Polls: Marriage & Weddings

Oh goodness, this is going to sound so Random, but it's factors that exists... we have become so liberal and so inclusive, that we tend to ignore the Risks and potential factors that might be unajustable to others. Especially when it comes to intermarriage and Cultural factors.

When you marry a person please know that it is not only the person you're marrying but you're marrying

• For those who look to dating outside their Race you marrying The custom's, culture, way of life, traditions, languages etc.
• Your marrying their Family, there will be in-laws rocking up at your doorstep, some you may like, others may may not be able to Stand.
• You'll be marrying I to a new environment and Structure, order, and a different way if doing things especially when in-laws come over.

Isn't it true that generally women want to get married and have a family/kids... while generally men want to live alone life without marriage and kids/family?

Why is it so?

If you are married, where do you get married?

If you haven't married yet, and want to, where do you want to get married?

Please vote in the poll and add details in a comment... if you want.

I've been seeing a lot of stories recently about men who were on the run for a crime and living under assumed names and their own wives didn't even know.

One man robbed a bank when he was young, and he never got caught and lived under an assumed name his whole life, and only told his family his crime and real name when he was on his death bed.

Another man raped a co-worker almost two decades ago, and was on the run and living under an assumed name the entire time, and his wife only found out about it when he was finally caught by police.

Maybe it's just me, but trust and loyalty are extremely important to me. My conscience would never allow me to decieve someone to that degree, and also, I wouldn't marry a woman I couldn't trust with that kind of sensitive information to begin with.

It's truly saddening that someone could be THAT selfish to stoop to that kind of level of deception! Why would they even marry someone they didn't trust? I were those women I would have been furious and heartbroken and would probably never be able to trust another man again.

For simplicity sake husband works and provides for the wife and the wife handles domestic chores. Is it still traditional without children?

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women claim marriage is worse for them. That they have to be subservient to their husbands every need at least according to the bible while men claim marriage is worse for them because he is expected to do everything for her plus work and eventually end up divorced and lose half of everything he worked so hard for. I know there are a lot of people both men and women who still believe marriage is a great thing that should be sought after too. What do you think?

The ring shop told me the ring would cost between $1500 and 1750 once I chose the design I wanted. Is this a reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring?

Do you believe in Astrology... and feel that it's a science and is helpful in matching during marriage/ initial stages of relationship?

Would it be ok for both of them or it would be a problematic thing and hence he should marry a woman 5-8 years younger than him?