Agree or Disagree: Women who do only fans are not marriage material?

[coachTanthony]

Agree

Disagree

[Rosexøxø]

Some do it as a hobby. Some do it for business.

Some do it cause they enjoy the content and environment with it. Some do it cause they need the money.

If they do it for the money and want what’s easy then maybe they won’t find legitimate love/intimacy if they aren’t willing to put up dukes and endure a little struggle/adversity.

I also think a woman who uses that for money is 50% of the time the equivalent of a man using what he’s got to make his living. He has physical strength and uses that in fields like construction or factory work. Anything with long hours or heavy loads. The woman used what she had for the physical appeal and aesthetic and caring or enhancing her body in order to make her wage.

The other 50% aren’t using their body as tool and for wage, but for attention and sexual purposes. They enjoy the attention of many men, and if that’s the case it’d be difficult for them to be CONTENT with the attention of one ☝️ man, EVEN if she had TRUE feelings for him. They could work through it, but it would otherwise and still be difficult to overcome.

Women who seek other careers are usually more capable of pursuing those and therefore able to hold on to more standards and their beliefs. Women like that may also endure some struggles and have a better chance of sticking it through for a soulmate couple, but it’s not always guaranteed. Every individual of both sexes aren’t always going to want to stick it through and deem it worth it.

They don’t seem marriage material because of the somewhat in genuine look their make up face and surgeries give off, and the very idea and visual of a body being seen by all men- that doesn’t give traditionalistic sense of wife material or motherhood.

I think about half could and deserve marriage and love if it’s a temporary income for them and it leaves more of a hard memory or traumatic experience than one from the 50% who enjoyed it and reminisces or ends up relapsing into her previous life (style).

In general with all walks of life- some people walk paths they fall/stumble upon, and some enjoy and willing-fully choose their path, no matter if it’s good for them or not, and/or if it’s good for others or appears well.

I think it depends on a case by case basis. It would be nice for those women to receive a better bond that brings out the best qualities within them and overall enhanced their life, but I don’t encourage or promote anyone pursuing people who walk certain paths for serious, long term, and/or life long relationships with them.

Same as someone who sells drugs but doesn’t enjoy it or something. I think it’d be nice if they too even found love in this life and found a new lifestyle more suitable and a difference source of income. And leave the past as the past, but I won’t paint them as good or promote and encourage others to take them seriously or pursue those people. So the same goes for the woman who chooses or stumbles upon the path of sexual monetization. I don’t encourage people seek out a meaningful relationship with women like that.

[Rosexøxø]

If either of those type of people STUMBLE also upon a good soul who matches their energy and doesn’t mind their past as long as they move on and away from it, then I can be happy for those couples.

But women who do such careers aren’t marriage material. If they drastically change their life, maybe they could, but I don’t promote this. I say they aren’t. The sex industry is just as bad as the drug industry consisting of men. Neither are marriage material. If they’re lucky to find someone for them and try to live an honest life and marriage. I can be happy for them.

[Rosexøxø]

Voted: agree- they’re NOT marriage material.

[IslaTheWitch]

I would say, that if you will ONLY take into consideration what people do or have done without learning their reasons and lessons learned, your life will be very limited...

people make mistakes... but it isn't important... important is what they learned and how they changed their lives...

[Miristheiss]

No it isn't. That is coping BS people tell themselves. Any woman who sells her body to thousands of men and let thousands of men share in that part of her is 100% not wife material... expect to degenerate men. The reasons are irrelevant.. They may make things more understandable but it still doesn't change the fact that they are not relationship people.

This is the coping of modern women. The past doesn't matter. I can do whatever and I'm entitled to a relationship or the man I want. He should just accept me and marry me and ignore my past.
BS. That is total BS.
You sell your body to degenerate men then you are worthy of degenerate men. Simp loser men. Your reasons for being a prostitute are irrelevant. Any wise man, any man with character and standards wouldn't go on one date with a sex worker or former sex worker. Go on selling your BS about how the past just goes away with no consequences and you still deserve your high quality prince charming. If he has standards and clear deal breakers it just means he is judgmental, intolerant, closed minded... blah, blah, blah.
Total BS.

[IslaTheWitch]

@Miristheiss men are adults, they don't have to "buy" her body... but if they do, the responsibility is on them, not on her.

the reasons and lessons learned are the most important things. Why? because we, as a sentient species, learn ONLY by action... which mainly means learning from mistakes... it's how nature built it. So, of course, you can call it BS... but it's exactly how you learned to walk, to masturbate, to talk, to write, etc...

so now... people who are able to learn are our future... because they can distinguish, based on their own experiences, what has acceptable consequences and what doesn't...

[Miristheiss]

As a human, as a person, for her own personal growth it is best for her to learn from the past and make better decisions for the future for her own well being.
For dating a potential mate is under no such obligation. Having a standard of any woman I marry, who will be the mom of my kids, she'll share all of my resources and I'll intimately share all of my heart, myself with her NOT be a former stripper or on line prostitute... that is a VERY, VERY RESONABLE STANDARE. WISE.

But, she did it because of X, Y, Z. Not my problem. I am not going to wife a sex worker. Sex is for man and wife not man, wife and the 1,000 pathetic losers she sent masturbation videos to and chatted up online.

[Rosexøxø]

@islathewitch
Yeah, if they provide good qualities and leave that life behind entirely and maybe even learned a thing or two from it that could benefit others and their children, then I think they would be material for that.

[IslaTheWitch]

@Rosexøxø a lot of kids and young adults do drugs, they steal, rob, and do other really bad things... most of them are men... should we forgive them? what about young gangsters and criminalists? also, most of them are men... should we forgive them just because?

[Miristheiss]

Deflection from the topic.
By all means avoid those guys. Wise move.
Girls like bad boys though.

[IslaTheWitch]

@Miristheiss it just shows how easy it is to go to double standards... OF women are evil... but drug boys are "topic deflection" lol

[Miristheiss]

Start another thread about druggy bad boys. You are free to do so.
That has nothing to do with marrying sex workers. That is what this thread is about.

[Miristheiss]

Ps- I said women like bad boys.
That is on the women. Women often go after low character men. That is on them for having horrific standards.
Women fall in love with murderes in prison. It makes zero sense.

[HawkPerception]

Absolutely agree. If it's what you're currently doing or even what you've done in the past, there's something called accountability. You can't expect to be showing or have shown yourself to the world and to have spread your legs for every guy that pays enough and expect to get with guys that have higher standards.

Inversely though, men that subscribe to OnlyFans are also not husband material.

Although not related to the question entirely, here are some interesting stats on it:

▪️70% of OnlyFans content creators are women (go figure.. I thought it would be more)

▪️Female OnlyFans creators earn 78% more than their make counterparts on average

▪️85% of the top 10% earners on OnlyFans are women

▪️The majority (60%) of OnlyFans users are male

▪️The average OnlyFans creators make less than $180/month

▪️The top 1% earners on OnlyFans make 33% of the total revenue from it

▪️The top 10% earners on OnlyFans make about 40% of the total revenue

▪️Apparently the highest earner on OnlyFans makes $29.4 million/year

That's absolutely nuts

[GiganticPecans]

What kind? Almonds?

[RavVid]

You don't marry your sex worker

[coachTanthony]

lol. true

[RavVid]

hanks for the MHO.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is that what you would want to be the role model for your future children?

[DishLady]

Most likely not... I agree with @OlderAndWiser on this one...

[Alli112]

I think I'm just less prejudiced against sex work and related fields, so my default answer is basically, why can't they get married? I think it really depends on the people involved, and would require a lot of communication on the topic before the couple commits, just because of the whole "navigating intimacy" aspect of the relationship being more complicated. (Ex. does her work continue, under what circumstances, what acts are allowed/disallowed to make both people feel safe and secure in their relationship, what happens if they choose to have children, does that change anything, etc).

(Let's not forget that male sex work is a thing too, albeit less common.)

[Minky17]

A lot of IG influences sell their bodies for profit. Sexually or photographically. Including men. A lot of reality stars have no actual talent so they have to prostitute themselves including personal trainers on IG. They will do anything for money.

If a human is that desperate for money - no they are not marriage material. They might try to sell their own spouse or children into prostitution to make money

[Rosexøxø]

Some decently credible
points

[mayurr]

True.

[Anonymous]

I agree. And the men who subscribe to them are also not husband material.

[HawkPerception]

Agreed

[WhiteBoyChill]

Very true. You have to be a special kind of loser to pay for nudes

[NathanDavis]

isn't OF like five years old or something?

because people were not people material long before that... lmao

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, people talk modeling is a new thing.

[NathanDavis]

@Nikki1989 socials do have the memory of a fish

[Miristheiss]

100%

Any man who would try a relationship with a sex worker is a moron, a total simp and has zero standards. Even if she gives it up, no one should ever marry these degenerates. A guy who'd marry this ilk has also proven himself to be a degenerate.

[Kaneki05]

People want free money anyone who denies that is odd. Therefore I trust a only fans girls more than a girl who don't.

So it's the other way around.

[chrissykerdock]

anyone is marriage material pornstars get married often

[Miristheiss]

To other degenerates.

[chrissykerdock]

@Miristheiss not necessarily some guys want a beautiful woman and fall in love

[Miristheiss]

Possible does not mean probable.
And if the exception to the rule occurs I'll put my money on it crashing and burning in a few years vs. being a long term success.

So many make life decisions based on the exceptions to the rule vs just going with the good, wise, long term success decisions.

[chrissykerdock]

@Miristheiss everything is a roll of the dice

[Miristheiss]

Wise people make decisions in a way that success and life goals met happening much more regularly vs. those that just make tons of self destructive choices and then hope it all works out because it is possible. .03% of the time.

[PeachyPie93]

How could you trust them when they are willing to share their body to THE WORLD for $3.99? 😂😂

[mobiusforniner]

I’d think if I find such woman relationship or marriage material, it speaks a lot about myself and what I value in life.

[DrPepper12]

Sex work IS work. I wouldn't care about modeling of ANY kind. Actual sex on camera with other actors/actresses? I don't know I'd like to think im ok with that too but im not sure...

[Anonymous]

Like this is even a question. There are women you have fun with and women you marry. And I think it's pretty clear which category this one falls into

[Jessikaah91]

They're still people.. whether they be "marriage material" or not.. 9 times out of 10 they'll be married or with a partner anyway.. porn stars get married too so if they do then onlyfans models probably will be too.

[GeminiDiamond]

Disagree Anthony. You can't shake the 8ball and get a response "she's never going to be a wife" in your reading!

[Chelsdope0]

I’ve accepted that that’s not going to happen for me… but I never wanted to get married.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Agree. Showing your nude body for money isn't fitting for a wife.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s for husband only

[Anonymous]

I notice it's mostly women who disagree, very telling, ladies the men are trying to tell you something.. If you fo sex work of any kind, you are not in fact marriage material..

[Rosexøxø]

Well you have to have reasons why you back what you say because some people may disagree but others may not know anyhow. Or have never seen a certain side to the matter. Everybody receives different types of education 🤷‍♀️ not everybody went to the same school, had the same teachers and tutors, or parents. Fact of life, simply stated.

[molonski2]

100% Agree , these are the new virtual street walkers , steer clear , certainly dont marry one , wholly sht !

[LazerBean]

100% agree. People who produce or consume pornography are not marriage material

[Nikki1989]

Newsflash — modelling has been around forever. Perhaps you didn't notice.

[Kelly6]

I disagree because even some married women have OF account mostly for financial needs.

Even some couples do it.

im married but just started OF on side

@Rosexøxø

[Anonymous]

but that's apparently too high of an "unrealistic" standard lol

long story short, no hymen, no diamond

[avery58]

Nope and neither are OF simps

[KrakenAttackin]

Why would any man marry a sex worker.

[msc545]

This is probably very true.

[zombiewoof]

Depends on how well we get along with each other

[zombiewoof]

And what gives you the right to judge me

[Dongie]

Yuck.

[dudeinohio]

I agree

[sirderpsalot123]

Agree

[Anonymous]

Disagree

[Anonymous]

100%