Most of the only fans consumers aren't single lonely men but married men. Many are leaving their wives.
So many regular girls are doing onlyfans now, some of the educated girls I know with great education are doing either only fans or other subscription-based websites.
It's a symptom of the problem, not the cause.
You have a large swath of men who are so disenfranchised, isolated, and intimately unfulfilled that a Cornerstone Market has grown to replace traditional intimacy for them. Only fans, by and large, serves a similar function to dating. It's a way to fulfill one's self, but, has guaranteed returns.
Dating provides the average man something like a 15% success rate. That essentially means you're only going to have one successful date in every 6 or so, and that's only if you do everything right. That can be pretty pricey, somewhere in the vicinity of $400-$900, depending on your standards.
There's a lot more you could be doing with that money, and that's where only fans is so appealing. Guaranteed returns for less than 1/6 of the investment, it seems like a winning deal. Even though it's not genuine, it most likely wasn't genuine in a real engagement anyway, what with how regular dating for a meal is now.
The truth is, a whole lot of men feel that interpersonal connections aren't worth the money, time, and hassle for a suboptimal, and typically flimsy result. If you have a real concern about relationships going away, you need to make the notion of one more appealing to this demoralized and displaced demographic. That's going to demand some real introspection from people who were raised to believe they are born infallible, and the other side born defective.
Marriages are already ruined if the guy is leaving it for greater entertainment in that department. In the cases where the woman is ruining the relationship because she wants to go to a web cam site and be a sex worker... don't you think it would've been over in one way or the other eventually?
Guys who get with sex workers in a serious manner from the start are just cucks... or they need the money she provides. I blame this group the least because that shit was dysfunctional from the start.
If it’s just your need for immediate gratification, then that’s fine. But, if it’s for your need to connect with a person & not make efforts outside of the platform, then there’s an underlying issue. Anything can become addictive or fantasy overtime, but the onus is on you for not letting it consume you. With that being said, having readily accessible platforms like these don’t make it easy to stop the compulsion, so self-awareness is key here! What can you handle? And, people who make content for these platforms whether they’re healthy or not have the autonomy to make profit over the choices they’ve made.
It's no different than porn except that the onlyfa6content creators aren't being exploited and run their own business. They're in charge. But you see more people complaining about onlyfans but then go and watch porn and masturbate and not complain about porn. So what's the big complaint really with onlyfans? Is it because women are making their own money and running things that make people mad?
It's not because it's pornography. Because people bitching about onlyfans are still consuming porn.
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No. Men watching OF is just a symptom of the actual disease, which is moral degeneracy. Watching OF doesn't not make a man a degenerate, men watch OF because they already are degenerate. A marriage with a degenerate is a failed marriage even if he doesn't watch OF.
And exactly who the fuck are you to call men degenerate?
doesn't fucking matter. We're already dehumanized as it is.
i was adopted. adoptive parents separated because of it. i was beaten most of the time, at school and home. I was blamed for the separation without ever knowing and that only understood a few years later after dad passed and suffered for it I was. I despise humanity because of it. I will never see hood in human beings. I see humanity as a virus only worthy of extermination.
well this was an interesting thread..
@wiltingrosepetal I wouldn't be here if it wasn't entertaining me lol
Same here of you. A virus worthy of extermination
I don’t even know what it is but I hear so much about it, I feel I need to check it out. There were a couple very attractive women on here that asked me to sign up for it and follow them or whatever you do but it’s too much b. s to go through.
I understand your concerns about adult entertainment, but I believe relationships should be based on personal choice and open communication. Everyone has different preferences, and it’s essential to respect individual boundaries and perspectives in matters of love and intimacy.
It doesn't change anything. It's not like onlyfans brings anything new to the table that didn't exist before. If guys want to watch porn or pay for some sexy stuff then they can do that without onlyfans too and the same for girls who want to earn some extra cash that way. It's only more centralised on one platform now
Is onlyfans a problem? It can be if the viewer has a porn addiction and suddenly believes the OF Woman is gonna get together with them and fulfill their sexual fantasies. The men leaving their wives for a fantasy were probably looking for a reason to leave to begin with.
Look, if he's promiscuous, he'll find an avenue to cheat. I'm sure the question ten years ago would've been 'is porn ruining marriages?' and twenty years ago would've been 'are prostitutes ruining marriages?'
Saying OF girls are the problem is just a scapegoat. If someone cheats, it's their fault. You can't blame a gun when someone pulled the trigger. Perhaps the violence wouldn't be as accessible if guns weren't around, but if people want to hurt others they will find a way.
Yes it has the potential to. But that´s the same with any platform where a guy can pay money to get explicite material. It´s just part of a bigger problem of guys giving up something that´s worth for an orgasm. That´s the problem, there will always be such sites and tools but it depends on how a guy handles the situation and this guy lost control.
Learn from him and stop watching porn.
People, their trust issues and too big egos are ruining relationships.
Looking for excuses is not the wisest thing to do.
This is just my opinion, but to me Only Fans is no better than porn. Just something to choke a chicken with your bare hands.
Nope. Funny how every time something comes along which can help a woman profit from sexuality or embrace individuality, guys keep saying it is ruining relationships.
I'm not an onlyfans disliker, I'm indifferent to pro only fans 😊🤭
I've used it a few times over the years, and usually I delete it quickly because, like me and GAG and things, I'm a mind brain 🧠 that's indecisive and changes like the weather. I could never pick a car colour color lol
No. The only that ruins relationships and marriage is the people in those marriages and relationships.
Blaming an external platform like OnlyFans and social media is an excuse by people who don't want to take responsibility for their personal failures.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. Overall I agree with what you are saying. Accountability is key. The problem is how easily many people are manipulated by social media and the larger (morally bankrupt) culture. Women are especially susceptible to hive thinking and the mental poisoning that follows.
@KrakenAttackin: You act like people are naturally virtuous and social media made them immoral.
With or without social media people are going to do what they want to do.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. No, I am not saying people are naturally virtuous. I am saying social media normalized debauchery.
@KrakenAttackin: It was normalized thousands of years ago when sin entered the world, social media just started around 12 or so years ago.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. Social media is a force multiplier, like how the machine gun changed warfare by bringing more carnage. Yes, war was already there but the machine gun forever changed the battlefield landscape.
@KrakenAttackin: Comparing machine guns to natural human sinful conduct just isn't it.
Humans by their very fallen nature are going to nasty, evil and immor in all sorts of ways.
Social media hasn't changed absolutely nothing in terms of being a "force multiplier" of human conduct like you think.
Social media just allows you to see it on a broader view while you sit on your couch compared to the past you will only see what's goingwithin your own community you had to be there in person to witness it.
Take all social media away tomorrow and I 100% guarantee you 20, 30 and even 100 plus years from now many people still going to be living the exact same way they are living right this moment.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy. We can agree to disagree. I do agree about lack of virtue but social media has greatly amplified debauchery.
That's like blaming video games and music for violence and crime. Like none of it has existed before.
OnlyFans needs to banned or the performers at least forced to adhere to the same rules and regulations as professional porn stars. It has ruined so many women's lives and mist of them won't even realize it until they age out, can't find or keep a man, and realize they will die alone. That's not even getting into the toll it takes on any children they have, honestly everyone in the porn industry should be sterilized.
Also, if you are a man and you subscribe to some thot's OnlyFans, you are a fucking loser!
Any guy that pays for Onlyfans is an idiot. Any girl is better off without them.
Want that sort of stuff? Plenty about if you know where to look!
I must be one of those idiots ,😄 oh well. I'll keep being me being me ☺️
Or i watch free sites like PH
I didn't even know how the logo looked like until this post.
That's just how little it influences my life.
Nonsense. I don't believe that many are leaving their wives for onlyfans. That's ridiculous. But even if they were, there's obviously something else going on there. They're clearly not in a happy loving marriage then.
I think it's more likely the soman leaves her husband to do OnlyFans.
No, those guys flock to onlyfans because they started off with porn... Porn is one of the catalyst for a more perverted society unfortunately..
I’m excited for ai. Not because I would use but because it would destroy the entire porn industry.
@Lionman95 bro. No way. Once ai video comes out real girls will be gone. Also even if you wanted a real girl you would never be able to find out. Ai will replace everything. It will be cheaper, look better, more accessible. No way real women will be able to compete.
@Lionman95 if you use ai porn then yes but if you don’t it will be easier. Women won’t be hoes anymore.
No, it's not. It ain't what's a good relationship. It may make me a bad relationship seem worse.
Nope, I've used Onlyfans sparingly off and on for a few years now. Only if I come across a particular inspiring model or couple model from linked other mainstream sites like PornHub verified.
Take accountability men are ruining their own relationships and marriages because they're insecure, desperate, needy and predators. Stop blaming the entity when you men need to be accountable like shut up already
Onlyfans became famous once porn was allowed. Now it is notorious for amateur porn. The people having anything to do with the porn and the subscribers are we both ruining relationships.
Only Fans is a symptom of a larger problem of moral decay.
The ones where the girl in the relationship is doing them yeah lol but also the ones where the guy is subscribed to girls OF
Only fans is a weird platform for weird people.
I think most OnlyFans subscribers aren't married. More likely they're pathetic wankers.
Only fans is trash
Not in of itself but I do think it’s a toxic site, and it baffles me how many guys pay to just look at nude photos of a random girl they’ve never met…
I’m single and I don’t subscribe to it , porn is free but the ones that are paying for onlyfans and married have other issues I guess
No , men will watch OF or porn. So it won’t make difference.
i am married but my hubby is ok even if i start working on OF
Absolutely. It’s cheating and women think they can just get away with it because they’re making $
I know how to resolve this issue simple!!! Lock yourself in a room blindfolded 24/7 365 and just eat & repeat …. Problem solved🙂🫶💯
How is a picture going to measure up to a real personal relationship?
It isn't just a picture, I have heard from one friend that the most pay comes from online girlfriend experience. Sex chats, videos , listening , fantasy
But are you going to meet the person for real and become intimate?
No different than porn. I doubt many guys are actually running off with OnlyFans girls.
Men will use any excuse for being bad husbands. I guess this is just another one.
It's depends on the person. If the person is mature enough to handle that you doing that and be able to let it slide then it's good
That's very likely, especially if a girl is hiding it.
I think so
Including porn and social media
No it isn't
Yes, it is
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