Do I harm myself with Onlyfans?

[Anonymous]

First of all sorry for my English. I have very big problems w my family which i can't explain in a short way. But all i can say is living with them damages me mentally and physically. So I thought the shortest way to having my financial freedom is having Onlyfans although it doesn't match my ethic. But I want to save myself from my family. Am I doing something wrong to myself?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that sounds like a really tough situation. Family stuff can be super complicated. I don't think starting an OnlyFans is necessarily wrong or harmful, but definitely think through how it might impact your mental health and relationships long-term. A few things to consider:

- Make sure you feel safe and in control. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.

- Set clear boundaries and stick to them. Don't let it negatively affect your self-esteem over time.

- Think about an exit plan - this shouldn't have to be a forever thing if it's just to get away from home for now.

- Talk to some trusted friends for support. Don't try to handle everything alone.

Ultimately you need to do what you think is best to take care of yourself right now. But be smart about it and put your well-being first, not just the money. Maybe there are other options too like getting a roommate to move out? Just some thoughts - hope it helps and feel free to DM me if you ever need someone to talk to. You'll figure it out!

[Asker]

First of all thank you for all the empaty. I've thought and tried a lot of ways before and none of them really worked. So this was always my last (exit) plan in my mind and time has come. I'll also think about the other advices you gave me. Thanks again!

[Oliverlogan263]

You're very welcome for listening and trying to offer some helpful perspective. It means a lot that you're thinking through this decision carefully. I know how tough family issues can be, and it's so hard when you feel stuck with no good options. But also remember - this doesn't have to be your only "exit plan." There may still be other doors that open up over time as your situation changes. One thing that helps me when I feel low is reminding myself that things won't always be this hard, even if it's rough now. Wishing you so much strength and courage as you take care of yourself. My DMs are always open if an extra ear helps. Rooting for you to find your way to a happier chapter soon! You've got this - stay hopeful.

[SixFootSexy]

Just your mental health. You'll likely develop a hatred towards all men that they are pigs and should be exploited. At the same time, devaluing your body to a commodity instead of a gift to give a future husband...

But the money (if you save any) and cats will be nice when you're childless, in your 40's, and no man will commit to you, because your photos are searchable online forever. Not to mention other job prospects. Look at Mia Khalifa for an example. Still hot physically, but bitter and washed up.

[Asker]

But i dont show my face. How would anyone know

[SixFootSexy]

Any moles, tattoos, birthmarks, etc. I think it'll be very easy to tell at some point. Are you just masturbating on there?

[Asker]

Dont have anything like that on my body. Also I change my face with AI.

[BasedBaeBecca]

Whether or not doing Onlyfans is harming yourself depends on how you feel about it, and the impact it has on your physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing. It sounds like you're experiencing a difficult situation with your family, and you're looking for a way out. Onlyfans can be a way to gain financial freedom, but it also brings along a lot of possible consequences, such as criticism, objectification, and potential negative perceptions of your character and reputation. Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether or not this is worth the risks for you.

[FreyaRed]

Internet never forgets. Even if you're a sexworker, when you stop you change the city and no one knows about your past. In internet this isn't possible because someone finds always something about your past, especially if you sold your pics for money. This can limit your option in partner choice or being a part of some societies.

[genericname85]

yes you can absolutely harm yourself mentally and your own future in many different ways doing that. i strongly advise to find a better solution for the struggle you are in. there's a very good chance there's some sort of institution or expert that you can contact to give you adivse on how to do it.

[Anonymous]

You harm your future.. No good man wants a woman who has had their pussy and asshole and breasts spread all over the internet.. No good man wants a sex worker.. Because sex workers dont make good wives and mothers. So yes you harm your self. Because the internet is forever.

[Asker]

I dont show my face

[Opinion Owner]

irrelevant

[dustybiker2]

If you aren't comfortable stop and remove your content. Your life and your choices. It isn't the only way to make money.

[laly520]

yes u r harming urself mentally n if u keep doing it u will be harmed even more

I hope at least u haven't showed ur face

[Asker]

I dont show my face

[laly520]

good thats less worse
I recommend quitting it forever
its nth but slow poison

[Asker]

I'm getting mentally harmed anyway

[laly520]

quit it n focus on taking care of urself
if its too much then seek therapy
if not possible then vent to anyone u trust

[Asker]

I really wish it was that easy

[laly520]

ik it isn't easy but u have to try n push

[ChicoFromThe305]

In the long run yes, your family won't be the only respect you'll lose, falling in the hoe path is irreversible

[Wise4myage]

I certainly don't think so, but just be careful.