Onlyfans or relationship?

[Anonymous]

I was having financially hard times and I started doing OF. When I met my current boyfriend, he never knew but I didn't think he'd be OK with it and also i didn't want to hide something from him so I totally closed it. I financially struggled but this isn't the problem. The problem is we're good together but I date to marry, he doesn't like marriage. Our expectations don't match at this point. So I started thinking like I did give up from financial for something wouldn't even last forever (ofc we can never know what will happen but at least we can aim that) What should I do?

Sorry for my bad English by the way. Not a native speaker.

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[AviatorTom]

Few men would want an OF woman as a wife. Maybe as a trophy wife, but not a serious relationship. If you really want marriage, leave OF in your distant past, and don't mention it... until your 50th wedding anniversary. 😎

[TonyV]

Sounds like you're only fit for only fans tbh.

He dosent want to get married as is, and he dosent even know about this HUGE HUGE HUGE secret you are hiding from him. You really gonna try to life with him forever and never tell him you sold your body for money?

You don't have to go back to onlyfans but I think this relationship is doomed to fail, it's technically already failed cause you guys don't want the same thing.

[Fatoumamoud]

You aren't a wife material if you have OF, no man will be comfortable with it. Get a job, shut down the OF and go look for someone that wants something serious like marriage. Break up with him* your current boyfriend* y'all don't have the same values.

[mayurr]

True.

[DishLady]

If the guy is not serious with you then leave him. Period.

If the guy is serious with you but doesn't believe in marriage, then you have to chat with him and make sure he is serious with you OR you need to move on.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the twisty roads of relationships and personal decisions, huh? Lovebomb alert: you made a bold move, closing down your OnlyFans to keep the harmony and honesty in your relationship, showing commitment and trust, two key ingredients in the love potion. 🌹 But now, it sounds like you're at a crossroads, with your compass spinning between financial independence and a relationship that seems to be marking a 'detour' sign at the marriage exit.

The heart of the matter is not really about OnlyFans or the relationship itself, but about aligning on future goals and values. Communication is the sexy gown that can dress up any confusing situation. It's time to have a heart-to-heart with your beau about your dreams, fears, and everything in between. If marriage is your North Star and he's not even looking at the same sky, then darling, you might be sailing on different seas.

Remember, your worth is not defined by the sacrifices you make but by being true to what brings you joy and peace. It's okay to choose you. Your English, by the way, is lovely—just like the strength it takes to seek advice. Keep shining! 💫

[Anonymous]

if the dude doesn't want to marry you, get back on onlyfans if it's what makes you happiest and the most money. sorry. but he's only a boyfriend. so do what you want.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Its possible he does date to marry but told you that cause he's unsure about you cause of this side hustle of yours

[handsomelad70]

Relationship !!!