Polls: Marriage & Weddings

I think that it's impossible! After a whole day of getting ready (make up, hairdresser, clothing) and dancing etc the bride and her groom would be super exhausted. I would expect that the first thing on their mind once they're in their house/ hotel room is to sleep after a tiring day, specially if the bride is virgin and would need some time and preparation so it won't hurt (the guy needs to take his time) and after a long day they might not be ready to take a lot of time.

If you're not married yet, do you think you'll have sex the day of the wedding?

https://www.ancient-origins.net/sites/default/files/field/image/Ghost-Marriages.jpg

Necrogamy or posthumous marriage is a marriage of two parties where one is deceased at the time of matrimony.

Most cases of necrogamy occur in France and China, as far as I know.

How do you feel about proposals at weddings? Guys would you propose to your girlfriend at someone's wedding? Ladies would you be ok with your guy proposing to you at someone's wedding?

I personally wouldn't want to be proposed to at someone's wedding. I would feel bad because the focus should be on the bride and groom the whole night.

And speaking of weddings, here's a few pics from my sister's wedding this past Saturday!

I was her maid of honor.


First time getting my makeup done professionally.


The bride and I.

My husband and I have been together for 12 years; since he was 21 and I was 19. We started out as best friends and within 6 months we were living together and in a serious relationship (the first and only serious one in my whole life). We used to be so close and now I feel like I'm just here to cook, clean, take care of the kids, and have sex with him whenever he wants it. I've told him that I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore and he just gets angry and treats me like a bitch for telling him how I feel. He has a life outside of the home; work, friends etc. I have nothing. I have no friends and my life revolves around being a homemaker. Any time I try to make friends he automatically hates them and then I am treated like a fool because they don't meet his standards. I have no family within 300 miles and anytime someone comes to visit he acts like he wants them gone as soon as they get here. He treats them horrible (disrespectful and rude) and I've always been friendly with his friends (even the ones I really don't like).
I feel like this relationship is a joke sometimes. Like people are looking at me like I'm an idiot for staying with him. When we fight (which is rare actually) he always says he'll try harder but the next day it's like nothing ever happened and things go back to the way they were. He expects me to do whatever he wants (and yeah I do it) but he can't even listen to me when I ask him to bring home milk and bread from the store. It can even be something extremely important and it's like he won't listen for even five minutes. He forgets stuff as soon as I'm done talking to him. I feel unloved and VERY unappreciated and he doesn't give a crap. He says he does but he keeps doing the same thing over and over again. I've even thought about leaving him because I feel like more of a maid/nanny than his wife. But he's also very jealous and possessive of me; said once he'd shoot me if I tried to leave him. I don't know what to do. I feel trapped and very alone