Polls: Marriage & Weddings

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The way I see it, true love does NOT need to be proven whether it would be through marriage or reproducing. Simply either love is there or it is not.
The way I also see it, my love life is none of the governments business and neither for the church.

I remember one conversation with a female GAGer on here, where she suggested a simple ceremony, that is pretty much like a marriage ceremony but without the ceremony being overly overpriced and without actually getting married. I called it the "official commitment ceremony" and she had agreed on that one.

Marriage is a hassle and more so the divorce and rigged courts if you have a pe nis.

As we know, the majority of domestic violence in the west is committed by women. Women rule the roost these days, often with an iron fist.



But what do husbands do? Why do wives kick the shit out of their husbands?

I have been having an affair with my wife's sweet beautiful younger sister after she moved in with us after their parents divorced. It started after during my wife's second pregnancy when she was bad with morning sickness all the time and her sister took care of her as well as the household choirs while I was at work. It started up after she caught me "taking care" of myself" in the basement and she laughed and giggled encouraging me to finish up as she wanted to watch, then she deceided to" help "me herself. After she offered to take care of my needs while my wife was unable like she did with everything else and thats where the affair started and though I was madly in love with my wife I fell big time for her younger sister.
Eventually my wife found out and there was hell to pay for it and she took the kids away from a month but came back after her sister had a discussion with her. So they both met me in the living room where they told me that they both love me and the younger sister my mistress was pregnant with my child and that they both want to live together as both my wives. So my head still can't get around it and they share me equally in bed on different nights.
Life is pretty sweet right now but I wonder about the future and if this can last long term as I love them both. So can a marriage with three people work?

My wife cheated on me with my two best friends. I found out this morning when they admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures theye took of her naked. When I confronted my wife she suddenly became angry and shouted "because you're crappy in bed ok? so fucking deal with it!!!" I was repeatedly sexually abused when I was 8 years old, and I find sex too hard deal with. The whole thing is too emotional for me, and she knows this. I love her so should I forgive her?

Now this phrase hasn't originated by gag but by a lot of people some online, some in real life that women tend to marry for resources while men marry for love. To clarify, what they mean is women know how to exactly press a guys button, manipulate and make herself seem in love with him.
They know how to go after men who make money, and efficiently as possible got themselves in the door and now married (studies actual show husbands on average make 20% more than their wise for the bear minimum). All under the rouse of love. We see evidence of this when we hear many women say they just want to get married already so they can get fat. We also see other instances when a male wises up a little and questions female behavior only to get shammed and bash for even having the though.

Example - Suppose a girl went out with a completely different type of guys in her youth. College athletes, real estate agents with swagger etc. Yet, by he late 20's she goes for an IT nerd she wouldn't have given a chance in her early 20's.



Guys who aren't brainwash by social programming and take a step back to question "Hey i'm nothing like any of the men she pursued in the past (which gives a pattern of what she likes) why does she want me?"

Many women and some men will chime in that the man is being insecure for asking a very real question about a woman's intention in wanting to get with him.

We also see evidence of resource extraction when 70% of divorces are initiated by women in marriages where the laws are in favor of extracting money from the man.

I have CF and so although I'm only 16 I've never had a girlfriend and I worry that no women will want to be with me due to it. My lifespan is only up to 40 years and I almost got diabetes in 2012 due to my sugar levels at 140 at the time. My sugar levels are now in the 70s and my doctor said with how much better I'm doing since I joined a gym I could go as far as 53, but it doesn't change that I'm infertile, cough a lot, can't grow anymore (I'm 5'9"), may develop a disability in my adulthood, and I need expensive medicine to stay alive. I'm not saying I need them to take care of me but there are many unfortunate limits to what I can do for them like give them kids. Girls, considering all these things would you still marry a man if he had CF? I know I already asked this but I just want more opinions and please tell me the truth

Also how important is her willingness to make her man a sandwich when requested when your thinking of proposing?
Im currently seeing a girl who expects me to propose, have a traditional wedding and settle down with her but she can't cook, won't learn to cook and point blank refuses to make me a sandwich because her women's group says she doesn't have too. I don't think I could go through with it.

Aphrodite - The Greek Goddess of Love and Beauty




Backstory:
Zeus feared she would cause war between the Olympians, so he married her to Hephaestus as a wife. She was married to the smith Hepaestus, but she really loved Ares, the god of war.

Hephaestus



Hephaestus was overjoyed, so he made her matchless jewels and a magical girdle that made her even more beautiful than she already was, which was unwise of him. Aphrodite was vain, however, and disliked his looks, but enjoyed his gift's, though she'd much rather have Ares for a husband. She has no children with Hephaestus but many children with Ares. Hephaestus was constantly trying to capture Ares and Aphrodite together and show it to Zeus.

Ares:

"According to Pew Research Center, the share of women ages eighteen to thirty-four that say having a successful marriage is one of the most important things in their lives rose nine percentage points since 1997--from 28 percent to 37%. For men, the opposite occurred. The share voicing this opinion dropped, from 35 percent to 29 percent." Why?
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/helen-smith/8-reasons-men-dont-want-t_b_3467778.html

I'm curious why people tink this is true as it is a fascinating subject and does really provide a fascinating discussion about the realtions between both genders in modern day Western countries (I'm assuming the rest of the English speaking West (Canada, UK, Ireland, Australia etc.) is in a similar position).

What will be the side effects of this?

Will this trend continue?

Why do you think this is happening?