I know a lot of people would say a year and a bit is too soon...
but talking to his mother last night she was pushing for us to get engaged and got us talking. Made me realise I'm ok with it as I want us to be the real deal. No one else has made me this happy. And he says as long as it's a long engagement then he is too. Just can't see him plucking up the courage to do it as he doesn't like change...
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Most Helpful Guy
I think it's fine but I always say wait for the man to ask. Not because he's a man but because I think that women tend to know quicker when they're in love w someone compared to us men. So it would be an uncomfortable situation if you asked him and he didn't k ow what to say. Then you'd be upset, possibly mad at him tho ok g he doesn't love you even though he truly may. Or he may say yes out of feeling obligated or maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings so he agrees to it. I hope you get what I'm saying.4
Most Helpful Girl
Meh, sure, it's fine. I'd be cool with proposing.3