Is it okay for a girl to propose to her boyfriend?

[everising]

Or at least give him a promise ring just like what guys do as well as a sign of commitment?

I ask because some people still find it strange or very unusual for a girl to initiate the next step of their relationship like saying "If you proposed to him then he never wanted to marry you!" or that "She's so desperate, she can't even wait for the guy to do the sweeping of the feet.".

To add as well, as a guy I also love rings!

Yes

No

[Jessica405]

It sure is ok. No reason why a girl can't pop the question. An old English custom says a girl can propose on Valentines day, but I think any time is fine.

[Unit1]

I don't see why not. Break free from those restrictive social norms. Be the deviant.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

the conservative medieval folks say no, the free minded folks say yes

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm all about love without limits! 💍 If you, as a girl, want to propose or give a promise ring, go for it, my lovebird! Traditions are nice, but the heart wants what the heart wants, right? Love is all about mutual feelings, not outdated norms. Don't let anyone throw a red flag into your happily-ever-after plan. Your relationship is a beautiful dance, not a script! 💃🕺