Polls: Marriage & Weddings

The guy that I’m in a relationship with since 2 years said that he won’t marry me till his parents approve of our marriage. When I heard this I feel too sad coz I left my home for 6 months once retaliating against my parents for this guy and that time this guy was saying me that his parents will easily accept me but that’s not true as he expected. I feel too bad when he said me “You should not feel you have invested a lot in me if things go wrong” when I asked him what’s “things go wrong” - he said it means breakup. My parents have accepted him. His is against due to intercaste.

Her ex husband pays child alimony that is meant to be spent fully for the child's needs. Would you judge the mother for spending some of it on her own needs and wants (makeup items, clothes, etc)

For those that don't want to get married, no point in answering.

For those that are married! Did you do it together or did they pick it out?

• My parents have accepted this guy. We love each other a lot. My parents are asking me to make my guy meet his parents for marriage talks. I had been convincing my parents for my guy since a year and they accepted him.
• the guys parents have denied saying they are against this marriage due to language issue.
• so my guy said that if his parents still deny of convincing them for 3 months, we will go ahead and court marry.
• In this scenario, how will normal Hindu wedding take place? Coz girls side wedding is my girls parents and reception is by boys side

Instead of engage and marry and then go for his 1 year mba?

I’m not ok with the 1 year gap between engagement and marriage. Is it normal? Or is it red flag?

Then he said we will do what parents say because he said that parents will talk about engage marry and then do mba so if they say to engage and marry both then we will do that and after that he will do mba of 1 year

bdw I’m based in Mumbai india

As California considers a ban on child marriage, opponents have come out to defend the practice—including liberal organizations such as Planned Parenthood and the American Civil Liberties Union.

Planned Parenthood Takes Up Arms Against Ban on Child Marriage

California, a state controlled by Democrats if there ever was one, was set to pass the first full ban on child marriage in the country before beloved liberal institutions spoke out against the proposed legislation.

Only two states in the country, California and Mississippi, have no minimum age requirement for marriage. Most states that still allow the practice of child marriage set the minimum age at 16, with others ranging from 14 to 18. In California, anyone under 18 who wishes to be wed must have parental or guardian approval along with a court order. However, advocates for the child marriage ban point out that in California, statutory rape claims cannot be brought to justice if the victim is married to the perpetrator.

Opponents of the child marriage ban, which also includes the Child Law Center, as well as Planned Parenthood and the ACLU, have pushed back against the proposed law for fear it will affect the age of consent for issues such as abortion and gender transition. On the talk show “Washington Watch,” former Georgia Representative Jody Hice said he thought he was reading something from satirical Conservative website “The Babylon Bee” when he heard that leftist organizations were pushing back on the child marriage ban.

While we often think of child marriage as an issue that only happens in other countries, more than 300,000 children (primarily girls) under age 18 were married in the United States between the years 2000-2018. Texas currently has the most child marriages on the books, with California in second place. I guess that partly explains why there are over 1 million teen pregnancies a year.

What do you think? Ban it or support it, and why?

What a lying CHEATING husband? There’s no good reason for a woman to get married in today’s society. I would argue in most marriages the guy is CHEATING. Even though THEY are the ones who asked the woman for marriage in the FIRST place. Then men have the nerve to complain about divorce rates being so high. On top of that with this 50/50 society women are paying for their own bills and things. What good does marrying a man do?

I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is that!). Also, I wonder why they have the commitment issues when it's the WOMAN who has to go through painful pregnancy and her body and life forever changing! Men can usually (at least physically) "run" from it. Then the scared poor woman files for child support! Tsk Tsk 😞

I've heard it's typical for the man to choose a woman's rings since he is the one that proposes but I cannot imagine that to many men are educated about rings or know their woman's style/fashion to pick out good rings. 💍💍💍

If you are/have been married or engaged who picked out the rings?

I personally picked out my own. My husband doesn't know anything about jewelry so it would have been bad if he picked for me.

or when did you, if you’re married already?