I had to discontinue my donations to 2 charities cause they kept sending me mail when I told them I only accept email. My dad reads my physical mail letters and he raised my rent twice to punish me for giving money to charity and after the charity promised not to send me paper mail, they got confused and sent me more paper mail. I also get yelled at by my dad when I leave a tip at restaurants I visit. And when I was 18 my dad told me I’m not allowed to be friends with people who are neither beautiful nor rich.
First of all, you're a grown up. Your dad can't tell you who to date, nor can he yell at you for leaving tips at restaurants - which I personally consider a courtesy to someone hard working in a place as stressful as a restaurant. As far as your dad reading your mail technically without your say-so, no only is your father being very rude, but is totally stupid raising your rent over a charity sending you physical mail. Not to mention, if you want to donate to a charity, that's your decision. Not your fathers. I think your father is being very chauvinistic to you. Rather than him dictate how you should live your life, you and him should talk about your differences one from another and about why you feel how you feel. Otherwise, you have your own life to live. Your father should get a life of his own and stop trying to live yours. Hope this helps.
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I don't support charities that lie if that's what you mean
If they can afford to run postal services or phone lines let alone television adverts, they don't get active support from me
Most of them are crooks... when there's money or drugs involved, there's always going to be some shady shit going on
In my opinion most charities are legal scams.
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I’d say the inept charity staff is less the issue than your dad. You’re 38 years old, why are you still at home letting your parents micromanage your life?
I hate when ANYONE doesn't keep their word. It's so hard to find reliability these days
One of the biggest charity scams is 1-877-KARS-4-KIDS
Yes, people have been misled and lied to even by charities
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