How to be comfortable with the way you look.

[IAmRedThunder]

I see a lot of people who come on GAG posting pictures of themselves asking everyone how they look. So many people are insecure with their appearance and I'm just here to help. I've been told all my life I'm not pretty enough to live, I make people want to rip their eyes out, etc....

just learn to not care. I have a sound opinion of myself and I won't let anyone change it. Own who you are. Look at yourself in the mirror everyday saying "you know what. I look pretty great today". If you're uncomfortable with your weight, then change it. Diet and go to the gym. I was, and I lost 80 pounds. Change is good. It helped me except who I was. if you can't go to the gym and work on your self confidence that way, then just accept that fact and be happy with what you are given. Whether it's a nice personality, if you don't get sick very often, if you have a nice sense of humor, if you're smart... whatever. Look at the pros and don't look so heavily into the flaws. Everyone has flaws. Be happy that you're alive 😊 it's taken me a long time to make the little progress I have in my self confidence. This kind of mental acceptance takes time. Be patient 💘

[Bleh-___-]

Not as simple as just learning to not care. I like the advice to take control and change what you dislike about yourself because most people encourage you to accept and live with something you're not satisfied with. But pretty much any time you respond to someone's problem with "just do ___" it's not the best advice haha

[IAmRedThunder]

Yeah. I kept getting messages of people asking me how they look, so i thought I'd do this to try and help a little bit 😊

[Bleh-___-]

Thanks for MHO :)

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Who would say that you aren't pretty enough to live?

[IAmRedThunder]

These strangers in a parking lot, and some people at my gym

[SuccessfulHornDog]

That is bizarre and wrong

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Wow, This is an old question

[Josht13]

I don't know who's calling you ugly that's not true. But you do look really young.

[IAmRedThunder]

I'm 19. So kinda young I guess

[Josht13]

I meant you look like 14.

[IAmRedThunder]

Haha thanks

[JayGarrick]

I honestly can't do that. I've been rejected so many times that I have no self confidence at all and find myself very ugly

[IAmRedThunder]

I know how hard it is. You can do it tho ❤