It is kinda odd, almost all of my boyfriends friends will start up different conversations when he leaves the room.
Conversations like what?
That sounds normal. Those are HIS friends, and they're guys. So of course they'll talk about things when he's around that would specifically interest him. They may think those subjects may not particularly interest you, so they change the subject to interest you and keep you entertained and comfy while he's away.
It just depends on WHAT they talk about when he's not around. If they're asking you about yourself, that's fine. They may just want to know more about that special girl in their buddy's life. It's even great if they ask you to hang out! You're the cool girlfriend! Picking fun at your boyfriend and telling you embarrassing stories about him can be funny, but if they're completely ripping your man apart or making him look bad, you should probably excuse yourself from the situation, or change the subject. Harmless flirting like roughhousing and joking around is okay too. But don't take it too far or else your boy and his buds will get suspicious of YOUR motives. Even if they are the ones that started it. Keep it friendly and non-intimate. Treat his guy friends like you would treat yours. Now, if the friends get a little touchy-feely, you need to put a stop to it immediately. Be firm and let them know that won't be happening, then stay by your boy's side at all times. Don't run and tell your boyfriend unless you're sure that his friends are making a pass at you and you feel uncomfortable. But the last thing you want to do is mess up the relationship between your man and his men. Don't do it. Long story short; It doesn't matter if your boy's friend likes you or not if you don't indulge him.
That's really funny. A similar thing happened to me. Some really cute guy who I knew had a girlfriend would talk to me once his girlfriend had left. haha. I guess it would be against social convention to flirt with you in front of him, so they do it behind his back. :D
if he flirts with you and is extra friendly and willing to do anything for you, then you get the hint-i had this too.
You can tell. But you maybe sending signals that you're not solid with your boyfriend. Women will give you a certain look and shut you down if you hint a flirt while she is into her man because she takes it as an insult.
You're probably being too friendly and nice. You need to more interest in your boyfriend. So in the event that the one friend winks at you, you find your boyfriend and lock eyes with him, because the dude will see that, and then find the closest location next to your boyfriend. This sends a message.
If you want them to stop this, start giving out vibes that you and boyfriend are a very strong couple.
Like: talk to them about how great your boyfriend is and how much you love the way he treats you. Talk about how you both are planning to travel somewhere together. etc.
There are a few key signs that your boyfriend's friend likes you:
If you think his friend likes you, you should definitely talk to your boyfriend about it. He might be okay with it, or he might not be. But it's always best to be honest with each other and communicate about these things.
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Just sounds like they are making conversation and trying to be nice
Well they probably know a lot about u from ur bf… and they prob want to be friends with u and then maybe more if u aren’t dating the guy anymore
because someone talks to you does not mean they like you...
you don't have many details here...
There just being nice...
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