That's similar to what happened to me. My boyfriend (now ex since 3 days ago) has this best friend who's a girl. He admitted that he had feelings for that girl (and we broke up for that), but then he realized that was a mistake and we got back together. Yet, he's still treating her in a special way, and he has put her over me for many times (it's really heartbreaking and unbelievable when he kept telling me how I was the most important to him). It came to the point where I couldn't stand it anymore because he just lied to me about what they've done, so I asked him to pick either me or that girl, and he picked her because she's his "best friend" and is "very important" to him. It left me no choice but to break up with him. I have NO WAY to believe that a guy would give up his girlfriend for another girl when that girl is only a "friend".
I don't know how important that girl is to your boyfriend, but definitely talk with him about it. I talked with my boyfriend about that for a few times. From the way he talks, you can tell if they are really just "friends" or if she's special to him. I was hoping things would change (especially after we got back together when he "realized" he made a mistake for leaving me for her), but reality told me no. Things just didn't change. He would do WHATEVER it takes to just see and talk to her. Even though he kept saying how he wanted to make us work and happy, all he wanted was to have me accept that girl. I can't do it. It just doesn't work if there's another person who's more important to him than me.
Tell your boyfriend how you feel. If he disregards your feelings and keeps doing whatever with that girl knowing that it would hurt your feeling, then you shouldn't be with him. If he really does care about you, he would do something to change the situations, anything.
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