How to tell if your guy friend likes you?

[Anonymous]

What are the signs?

[LonelyFiona]

What are the signs?

It’s hard to tell in your case but have a look at this list of signs:



He asks someone - If he asked some of your closest friends to ask YOU what you think about him and stuff... He likes you. It’s a lame technique but yeah, some guys just REALLY wanna be sure you know :) That’s why they do this :) So anyway, if he asked any of your friends your opinion of him - it’s pretty obvious...



Offering help - If the guy offers to help you with something, like really excitedly “Hey, I can help you with that!” that is also a sign that he likes you. He wants to do something nice to you, to help you out, it’s also pretty obvious no :) ?



Carries on conversation - Have you noticed that he sometimes wants to just extend a conversation that has led to a dead end? If he really doesn’t want to end the talk and comes up with new topics, ideas, jokes, and if you determine that he does it deliberately - you’re right :) HE LIKES YOU :)



Not mentioning other women - This can be a pretty clear giveaway. If he normally talks about women and mentions his female friends but when he talks to you - he doesn’t - then that can be a sign. Why does he do that? Well he just does not want you to think that he might like any of those girls... It’s weird, but guys do it subconsciously...



Pupils dilate – I didn’t want to write “pupil dilation” here, I think it would just sound plain stupid and scientific kind of xD. So scientists have proven this already, your pupils dilate when you see somebody you like! That’s an easy one, but you have to catch it. It happens in the beginning of the conversation usually, or after a compliment per se… So try to catch that when you bump into him next time

Signs He Likes You

Good luck :)

[Anonymous]

a guy who likes you is ALWAYS trying to make you laugh, whether its at him or with him. the guy may also act a little awkward around you and not be themselves. also, if a guy is always trying to talk to you, he probably likes you. but the main way to tell if a guy likes you is if he teases/makes fun of you constantly...its the most common way guys get your attention. the last way is if he is having his friends talk to you about him or they ask you about him...i hope this helps! :)

[laura_Elizabeth]

I think that when he could be with someone else, or do something else but he chooses to be with you... =]

[drummerdude25]

If he's a little nervous/awkward around you, that's a SURE sign! And if he's coming around you a lot, that's also a great sign.

And before you label the guy "clingy" or "weird", give the guy a break... He likes you and he's trying... Try to understand a guy's viewpoint. I personally don't think confidence is all its cracked up to be... If you find him attractive physically (whether it's cute/hot/whatever...) give him a chance! The best relationships can sometimes take a little time to get off the ground.

If he's nervous, he just needs a little time to open up and be himself with you. That's part of what a relationship is about... Working to be yourself around each other! I don't think a lot of people understand this concept or have the patience to give this approach a shot. I believe it is the RIGHT approach.

I may have added some unnecessary advice... lol but I hope this helps you some! :)

[ihatecopcars]

Dude deserves best answer^

[vioguitarchick]

I completely agree as far as shy or nervous guys. there are a couple guys iv given up on cause I didn't have the patience for that. I'm used to the "approacher" type of guys. I also assumed they weren't into me because of weirdness. maybe they weren't , who knows. The one thing I do know is that they just needed a different approach to get to know them better.

[Kayne]

He might ask you out.

On a less smart ass note.

He will give you more attention than other people (generally, I know I do)

May just act like a fool trying to make you laugh, at his expense. Making a girl smile is a big hint to us that you also like us.

Eye contact might be more sustained with you vs others.

[KINGZERO]

Well if he acts like the perfect friend then there's 1 sign. And 2 if you ask him what his type is and he describes you then there ya go again. Then there's sign 3,get him really drunk then bring it up and more than likely he'll admit it in his drunken stuper. Bingo problem solved.

[milop]

like the drummer guy said...

i sometimes look at her while she is talking with her friends, or while she is in class, and when she looks at me I always smile

also I usually like to hang around her every time I have a chance

if you see that he likes you, don't let him do all the work, give him a sign that you like him back so he can make a move

[palek]

He'll keep finding ways to spend time with you and be physically close to you.

[enlightenment]

you could always ask him...or try and make a move

[Anonymous]

He looks at you like he never see you before.