I asked a guy out and he said 'yeah for sure', what now?

[jacqueline15]

He's an awesome guy but i find myself making a lot of the moves, although he's made some pretty big ones himself. I asked him to hangout in the summer, and summers in a week, but I don't know what or how i should ask him. Like what if he's busy that day and says no? i don't think i could take rejection. We flirt a lot, and text, but it sucks cause ik he's going to visit his hometown over the summer, and I don't know how long.

[Steviewonder]

Its really simple, just text him with plans about what u should do eg. "Wanna go to the cinema next Friday", then go and have a good time. Simple. If he says he ain't free that day then just organize for a different time. He won't reject you, he already has made moves, he likes u

[jacqueline15]

haha it just sucks cause schools out soon and i feel like i need more time, and I don't know if im making moves to soon.

[Steviewonder]

Maybe they do things differently in America, but I would just text him with plans. Anyway don't see it as a date, just see it as a fun night out, things will go smoothly and then move on from there if you really like him

[jacqueline15]

hahaha alright that dude

[Anonymous]

guys dont reject or say no to girlfriends, unless a girl is asking to get pregnant or to buy you stuff than its no, what do you want him for? if its love and sex you want than tell and show him your feelings etc dont hold back its that simple

[jacqueline15]

i want to get to know him better, thats why i like him so much right now. he's still a mystery to me. haha that sounds so cheesy, but true.

[Cippy]

just ask him, unless you send 100 messages a day you won't be seen as desperate

[jacqueline15]

haha alright

[Questionmaster]

You text him about it, ask him when he wants to hang out. Make plans.

[jacqueline15]

I don't know it's not that easy. From my point of view, i do not want to be seen as desperate or annoying, considering that i already asked him to hangout and shit

[Questionmaster]

You're never going to hangout if one of you doesn't put the effort into it. Just saying "So what time can we hang out before you leave?" isn't desperate.