Are guys attracted to heartless girls?

[Anonymous]

I know love is for everybody at somepoint and so far my luck has been messed up. I just lost the one guy who I was ready to die for, yes me but now I want all my feelings to go. be heartless like the men I have had. return the favour:) break a few hearts. I admit its not good but its the right way from now till my "soul mate" will fight for me and prove me wrong cause honestly I'll never love again.

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Thanks for your responses. I am a loving girl just tired of meeting wrong guys which makes me think weather or not to be heartless too. but I guess I should focus on me for now.

[B-rad]

IM NOT.. but somehow i keep meeting them... my last love interest was abused and hurt before... and i used to think she was sincere because i was absolutely sincere about my intentions... i carried deep emotional affection for her... but because she was hurt there was a very fine line between being smothered & abandon... i tried everything in , y power to show her that she was special to me... but she shunned me and then blocked me on facebook... IM NOW WONDERING if i wasn't just some guy she could use to get back at men... BUT now im so bitter about having this same shot keep happening to me... if i attempt to date anyone again... im not gonna believe a fucking thing that comes out of her mouth... she's gonna have to proove herself to me for once... im tired of making myself vulnerable first just to show i care...

[jonah143]

I'm sorry about your relationship, I've been in a similar situation not so long ago after a 3 years relationship, the first couple of weeks I just wanted to be heartless as well, break some hearts.. etc, so I know how much it sucks, my situation has been even more sucky since the girl I've been with says she loves me yet she's not ready to do what it takes for the relationship to go on.
My advice to you, work on yourself at the moment, and try to believe that good people still exist, don't rush into anything, it might be good to make your ex regret that he left you by always looking and being the best you could be. But if your relationship has no chance of working again then just try to never think back about your ex

[BrunetteNYC]

It seems, and it's very odd, I have a few male friends that are always crazy about the girls who don't care for them, use them for money and cheat on them. Go figure.

[Skyward]

there is a difference between heartless and being a slut lol

[BrunetteNYC]

lol true!!

[kambo_trick3y]

You are either physically hot or you are not. It's that simple. Not a difficult concept to understand.

We don't magically all of a sudden like people with asshole personalities. If you ever find a guy who does, chances are he's fucked up in the head.

[legalboxers]

not me.. I fell in love with one.. Lost 15 lbs because of her, and nearly my life since she decimated my life to the point where I nearly lost control of my car. I feel like my life is an empty hole. I been robbed of all my insides. its the worst feeling ever

[kheserthorpe]

No, not particularly.

Most guys like 'sweet' girls when it comes to relationships.

Some guys state an attraction for 'bitches', because they can screw them in a really selfish way and not care about it.

[loda1994]

I think you shouldn't break anyonr's heart. Want revenge break the ones that broke yours not innocent guys.
Also dont ever give all your love to anyone keep some love for yourself.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

No way i want girl who has a kind, loving heart
there is guy out there for you just cause guys
break your heart means you need to give up

[clarence126]

It's not easy to meet the right man, let alone soul mate. Many kinds of traits appeal to men, sometimes heartlessness means carefree and happy, this may appeal to men.

[Anonymous]

no, guys hate girls that are heartless, that goes the same for brainless too

[cavmanier]

No I'll go for the sweet ones.