Do innocent girls turn most guys away?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Like girls that are very shy sweet and don’t seem sexual

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I meant like is being an innocent girl a turn off to most guys

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In my experience the only guys i’ve dated broke up with me to be with another girl. I’ve never been used or anything since i am a virgin but my ex did try to seduce me

[ZackBan]

As you may have noticed opinions are mixed on that one.
The thing is there are many types of "innocence".
There is the genuenly innocent who are usually a little bit of airheads and have no idea just how innocent they are.
And there are those who know they're innocent but have no desire not to be.
Me I don't like girls who just say "Im an innocent girl please don't try anything on me" not because it's a deal breaker to not have sex or anything like that, but because it's easy to turn innocence into weakness and That's a turn off for me. The girls I like, innocent or not, usually appeal to me because they're constantly trying to be better.

[beldath]

A lot of predators go for the innocent ones because they'd be to embarrassed to go to the police after, or get ptsd and end up sticking with them thinking that's how things are supposed to work.

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, if the guys you running into are wanting sex and you make it clear that you are not interested, than they will leave you and find a girl that will give them what they want.

Eventually, you will find a good guy that will have patience with you and love you for who you are, and wait until you are ready, or until marriage, if that is what you looking for.

This is the impression I am getting from you as to who you are looking for...

Am I close? :)

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Yeah you are close except that im not exactly waiting until marriage i just want to wait at least like 5 months after dating to do it

[laurieluvsit]

Smart! Don't let anyone talk you out of it! :)

[Anonymous]

You would be in great demand in UK. I know of 3 or 4 guys that would go for you.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I guess in the usa guys are different hopefully the guy im talking to is not like that

[Opinion Owner]

I hope so too! You deserve nothing less than the best!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO!

[Jjpayne]

To the right guys no. It's cute to be innocent and sweet. I feel like many guys are looking for sex but not if you look in the right places. You still have some time yet so take you time looking for guys. Good guys are out there. You just have to know where to look.

[Sensmind]

No, there are definitely men who are attracted to innocence , how much is sexual I don't know but a lot like the innocence because it is non sexual, more romantic in a way it takes pressure off the guy to be a stallion, some guys are fine just holding hands for first 10 dates.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Well first of all there's no such thing as a "innocent" person, everyone once past a certain age has some skeletons in their closet and their thoughts of their heart isn't pure as a baby anymore.

Shy women turn me off. With shy women there seems to be no energy at all or low energy with a boring vibe and conversations with them seems like talking to a wall. Screw that.

[Sevenpointfive]

if a girl is straight forward with her innocence it's not a turn off. when she teases or implies that she's something more than innocent it does

[Sevenpointfive]

update: ewww! you won't even suck a duck

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Lmao what? I've never even done anything sexual before

[Sevenpointfive]

ducks don't have avian flu. they are safe

[jennifer_bloom]

Its common sense - if more than 3 people hit on you - you have to reject 2 out of 3 guys

[Sweetnessxoxo]

That’s not what i meant lol like i meant like do guys usually push away from innocent girls?

[codycccccccccc]

No because they might be a little harder to ger but there into the FREAKY shit in the bedroom

[jgirl99]

This is true lol

[Sweetnessxoxo]

Do you think that this is why guys always leave me for another girl?

[jgirl99]

Why cause ur shy And inexperienced?

[Sweetnessxoxo]

@jgirl99 yeah and because I’m innocent?

[jgirl99]

No, i don't think that, I honestly think that the guys u been fucking with are just assholes who aren't men, theyre boys u know?

[Levin]

I mean, there's an inevitability about her getting ravaged.

I'm a bit too old for the innocent girl thing, tbh.

Cute teddy/panda thing though.

[SirRexington]

I'm attracted to "innocent girls" because I'm inexperienced and most women are whores it seems. I want and need a girl who is also relatively inexperienced.

[Ripper_E]

Personally, I don't make judgments off that alone, but some guys may be turned away. Some may not. That's why it's important to be you and be comfortable. You can't please everyone.

[Ianto]

I have a friend who is shy and sweet. At our age, that has to be a deliberate front, so I date women who are more comfortable with expessing their real personality.
Of course, at 18 things are different, and innocence may appeal to young guys.

[Massageman]

Never turned me away.
The only "great looking" gal I ever went out with was me disastrous prom date (check a prior answer for the into on that mess).

[Massageman]

* my disastrous

[lightbulb27]

Im big fan of modest and reserved, a little shy is ok. extremely shy is a bit challenging.

[pajamasam]

Not a turn off, we just worry our sex drive turns them off.

[taleets]

I think they can. I am like this and notice when I am more sexually outgoing I get more attention

[msss98]

Kinda, If u start innocent and stay innocent even after dating them that might be a turn off

[Tmoney0305]

No not in my opinion shy and sweet girls are kind of my type sometimes because they can be a mystery like me and, also considering that shy and sweet girls are rare nowadays

[bamesjond0069]

Guys just looking for sex will be turned off. Guys who want a real and serious relationship will love the fact you are a virgin and be glad to wait. Good luck.

[ohshee]

No you are fine u are beautiful. Ur sexy. Ur shy in good way I woukd date you I would also try to seduce you in to sex or foreplay some kinda activity so you could feel what it's like to cum together

[pizzalovershouse]

No just the jerks who think it is usely guys are attracted to girls who are nice an have same intrest

[Games_]

It really depends on the guy. Not all guys are like this. Ur just gonna have to keep trying

[BoxySama]

Don't be too closed-minded, the willingness to gain new experience is very attractive

[Dchrls78104]

To many guys, yes; to me, no, because that's not one of my deal-breakers.

[KrakenAttackin]

No, innocent girls are the ones you want to marry. Keep your standards and you will find a good man.

[andy530]

No, sometimes they are the most sexual ones they just hide it

[mnthan7]

So what they're too good in bedtime plus they've good kind of sense

[bannacookies]

No, but they get used more.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I’ve never been used before

[bannacookies]

That's good. Not everyone has, it's just more common because they are viewd as "inexperienced."

[bannacookies]

*viewed.

[Sweetnessxoxo]

I’ve just always been left for another girl

[bannacookies]

*If he tried to seduce you & you didn't want it, that's a form of being used. It doesn't mean they had to have sex with you for you to get used. It could be many things.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

No, they don't. The majority of guys prefer it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Naw they don't turn us away , i am not judgmental

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Not a turn off

[winterfox10]

It definitely turns me off

[UnknownGagsUser]

Well not really true

[Sweetnessxoxo]

But guys always leave me for another girl?

[COMMODOREII]

Not to me no. You shouldn't think like that.

[bklynbadboy1]

No innocent girls are a turn on

[Deku2009]

No it’s not a turn off at all

[Plitty-Tank]

Most men desire innocent looking women.

[Laozi]

Sometimes.

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Why not

[Nice222]

Love em.

[mynkMumbai]

Nooooo

[basilsn96]

Yes dear