As you may have noticed opinions are mixed on that one.
The thing is there are many types of "innocence".
There is the genuenly innocent who are usually a little bit of airheads and have no idea just how innocent they are.
And there are those who know they're innocent but have no desire not to be.
Me I don't like girls who just say "Im an innocent girl please don't try anything on me" not because it's a deal breaker to not have sex or anything like that, but because it's easy to turn innocence into weakness and That's a turn off for me. The girls I like, innocent or not, usually appeal to me because they're constantly trying to be better.
A lot of predators go for the innocent ones because they'd be to embarrassed to go to the police after, or get ptsd and end up sticking with them thinking that's how things are supposed to work.
Yes, if the guys you running into are wanting sex and you make it clear that you are not interested, than they will leave you and find a girl that will give them what they want.
Eventually, you will find a good guy that will have patience with you and love you for who you are, and wait until you are ready, or until marriage, if that is what you looking for.
This is the impression I am getting from you as to who you are looking for...
Am I close? :)
You would be in great demand in UK. I know of 3 or 4 guys that would go for you.
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To the right guys no. It's cute to be innocent and sweet. I feel like many guys are looking for sex but not if you look in the right places. You still have some time yet so take you time looking for guys. Good guys are out there. You just have to know where to look.
No, there are definitely men who are attracted to innocence , how much is sexual I don't know but a lot like the innocence because it is non sexual, more romantic in a way it takes pressure off the guy to be a stallion, some guys are fine just holding hands for first 10 dates.
Well first of all there's no such thing as a "innocent" person, everyone once past a certain age has some skeletons in their closet and their thoughts of their heart isn't pure as a baby anymore.
Shy women turn me off. With shy women there seems to be no energy at all or low energy with a boring vibe and conversations with them seems like talking to a wall. Screw that.
if a girl is straight forward with her innocence it's not a turn off. when she teases or implies that she's something more than innocent it does
Its common sense - if more than 3 people hit on you - you have to reject 2 out of 3 guys
No because they might be a little harder to ger but there into the FREAKY shit in the bedroom
I mean, there's an inevitability about her getting ravaged.
I'm a bit too old for the innocent girl thing, tbh.
Cute teddy/panda thing though.
I'm attracted to "innocent girls" because I'm inexperienced and most women are whores it seems. I want and need a girl who is also relatively inexperienced.
Personally, I don't make judgments off that alone, but some guys may be turned away. Some may not. That's why it's important to be you and be comfortable. You can't please everyone.
I have a friend who is shy and sweet. At our age, that has to be a deliberate front, so I date women who are more comfortable with expessing their real personality.
Of course, at 18 things are different, and innocence may appeal to young guys.
Never turned me away.
The only "great looking" gal I ever went out with was me disastrous prom date (check a prior answer for the into on that mess).
Im big fan of modest and reserved, a little shy is ok. extremely shy is a bit challenging.
Not a turn off, we just worry our sex drive turns them off.
I think they can. I am like this and notice when I am more sexually outgoing I get more attention
Kinda, If u start innocent and stay innocent even after dating them that might be a turn off
No not in my opinion shy and sweet girls are kind of my type sometimes because they can be a mystery like me and, also considering that shy and sweet girls are rare nowadays
Guys just looking for sex will be turned off. Guys who want a real and serious relationship will love the fact you are a virgin and be glad to wait. Good luck.
No you are fine u are beautiful. Ur sexy. Ur shy in good way I woukd date you I would also try to seduce you in to sex or foreplay some kinda activity so you could feel what it's like to cum together
No just the jerks who think it is usely guys are attracted to girls who are nice an have same intrest
It really depends on the guy. Not all guys are like this. Ur just gonna have to keep trying
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