It may seem like that and why wouldn't it when the media, public, websites ALL show how black female hoodrats, hoes, acting ratchet are ALWAYS given the spotlight it is almost quite rare to see a chill, laid back, classy and very sexy looking black women doing positive things in the world. Black female superstars don't count because they are superstars they are ALWAYS glorified. I'm talking about the sista whose going through the daily hustle, who is educated and has common sense, knows how to act, talk, that don't have kids from 2/3/4 different dudes that ain't shit let alone around to help the kids or some that even take care of themselves and these are the sistas that don't get the spotlight they deserve. Trust me, go to worldstar hip hop, look up ratchet weekly there are MANY media outlets that show the only lesser quality. on the real, these hoes ain't loyal, always talking about how they baby daddys wrapped around their fingers with the child support, shits bananas. I KNOW there are good looking wait, gorgeous looking black girls out there they are just hard to find when there's soooo many wack ass negative representations of black women out there some are even forced down people's throats through social media. I hope you don't find my answer rude or racist, I'm just telling you my opinion in no shape, way or form is this a sign of disrespect.
TOTALLY disagree!! Black women are hot! Hear this from a white man. Black women are the hottest! They have THE perfect body! They are mentally and physically the strongest type of women you will ever meet and very independent! Believe me there are loads of white men out there who are waiting for you! ;)
As I read some of the opinions many are very ignorant. Any girl can be loud , or ghetto. When people say the word ghetto , black girls come to their mind. Anyone can be loud no matter what the race are. All black girls aren't loud and all white girls aren't loud. I am a black girl and I'm not loud, "ghetto," or mean. I hate how people set stereotypes just b/c of a few black people actions. You don't see us blaming all white people for their actions. Also I seen a opinion that said they see movies about violent black girls and not white. Ok let me tell you something , have you watched lifetime? I see on lifetime white women can be obsessive , bossy , crazy , not forgiving , stalkers and kill their husbands , children , and kidnap babies and MANY more things. Why didn't that person mention that? But not all white women are like that , just like not all black women are like the stereotypes. Oh by the way I'm in a relationship with a white guy and it going well , and everyone accepts us.
Honestly I'd say that some men just aren't attracted, but most also believe in the sterotypes. I do pretty well dating as in I get hit on a lot but my current boyfriend is also white. Tbh, as a "light skinned" black girl, I do believe that colorism plays a part. A lot of men will only go after the "red bone" with nice hair. I think it might be harder for darker skinned women, I'm not talking bad about anyone I'm just stating what I see. And also, just some food for thought, studies have shown that next to black women, white women don't do as well in the dating pool also. It shows that the most desirable women tend to be Latin. From personal experiences though, a lot of men love black women that are attractive. I feel if you look good, you wouldn't really see the difference.
s It has to with stereotypes and the beauty standards. Most people believe in stereotypes. Black women aren't considered beautiful according to the beauty standards. And some men wouldn't consider to be in a interracial relationship because of the problems that this relationship could cause.
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To be honest, a lot of guys find black women sexy, attractive, gorgeous, and WELL FIGURED!!! but the truth is most men just can't take anger and negativity, n that goes for all races of women but to be honest, from my experience, I find that black women can be gaurded and its hard to break down those walls. let me put it to u this way, If I apprroach 10 girls and ask them all out on Friday night (a night I just want to relax and have fun) I dont always pick the most attractive chick, I go for the girl I think I will hav ea great time with.
"Nobody". tell me, if nobody likes black women why do they exist to this day?
If you want all white men to like black women you will never reach it because attraction is based on instinctual Racial preferences.
And what i know as problem is so many black men who put their primary preference as white girls and sometimes ignore black girls totally. unlike white men who are mostly have white girls as their primary preference. The problem is not that many Black men like white girls, the problem is why they ignore their Race as a primary preference of Dating and relationship as soon as they find a chance with a white girl.
That is the problem in your society. You have to be demanding of your own Race than to want other Races to change their Standards.
Unfortunetly more people like light pale skin and nice long straight or wavy hair and most American (north and south) or Asian or european girls dont even have that and most definelty most black girls dont have that. i know I'm not ghetto im a nerd that likes reading watching anime skateboarding and cheerleading thats rare for any race really and most guys are not attracted to me i dont know why maybe because I'm not loud and ghetto like they want me to be but thats just the way its gonna be everyone wants everyone else to be something else even if they can't change it
because finding the perfect black woman with looks and personality is hard. Even if they're mixed with something like white 1/4th black I don't have a thing for curly/frizzy hair even on white women. I consider what my kids will look like to a certain extent and avoid women that are a lot darker than me. I also hate how muscular black women are, its very noticeable and i like hair that's longer than shoulder length. I'd prefer if the girl I dated have a career, not saying all black women are this way but finding one who has everything I want isn't going to happen so I prefer other races.
An American white guy told me once he would never date a black girl because he's turned off by them since they are most likely to be "ghetto" and "loud" or some shit like that..
He precisely said "american black girls" not black girls, I think there is a difference between a British black girl and an American one, or an African girl with African American one, you feel me?
It's not the appearance but the attitude that is a turn off, unless you're a well educated and a quiet woman with class and have self respect, whatever your race you are, there wouldn't be a man who wouldn't want to date you..
You are right. there are a few men who like black woman but not many. Men are more tuned to looks than woman. woman go for , money, prestige, top athletes, strength but looks are not the main focus. that is why woman can date unattractive black males who are athletes or they happen to be cool guys or something. they also date and marry ugly old white men with money or young ugly white men who have money and power. Race has not too much to do with it. for men on the other hand, they are looking for physical attractiveness. white woman have a lot of visual cues that are more stimulating than black females. their lip color , both sets, stands out, thier nipple color stands out both against the white skin. also the long soft flowing hair. Not a racial thing just visual stimuli.
I actually saw a study someone posted on this site recently. It talked about how popular different gender+ethnicity combos were, and black women were the least popular out of all of them. So yes, based on several anecdotes from various people and the aforementioned study, I'd say they are the least desirable.
But as for why? First off, I don't find them as attractive as girls if other races (to the point where I've never been attracted to a black girl lol), and I have to assume others feel the same way. Also, there are plenty of stereotypes about black girls, most of them negative. So... yeah.
by the way I never understood the African girls vs American girls argument. Some of the most rudest people I've come across were Africans. It's like they come here with a chip on their shoulders. Maybe it's because I'm a Black American. And maybe they are a lot nicer to white people. Funny because when white men are choosing foreign brides they very rarely choose an African one if at all. They choose Asian or European. So this basically boils down to what I've known all along, lack of attraction not attitude.
I personally cannot find black women physically attractive and I've given it a chance too. I can find spanish/mexican women attractive yet not black.
There's nothing wrong with them at all. Nothing to do with their personality stereotypes or anything of that matter. I'm just like... hardwired to like white and only a portion of other races attractive. My stepbrother married a black woman too.
In my opinion, most of the time when non-Black girls date Black guys:
1) She only dates Black guys (Fetish)
2) He plays for their school team
3) She wants a short fling with the Black guy she see's on TV (Snapbacks and tatt's, skinny built, etc)
For that, I wouldn't think our situation is any better/different. Beneath the surface it's inauthentic.
Also, there are Black girls here who have White boyfriends. One of my homegirls dated Asian guys. Interracial dating in general is less successful because people tend to prefer their own.
Stereotypes and Euro-centric beauty standards, mostly. I do just fine in the dating world though, I don't see these studies showing that we're least desirable to be the least bit accurate in my life. Black women are so gorgeous and successful, man. Don't worry about what non-blacks (or anyone who doesn't matter) think of you. Just do you, and you will be fine.
Darling, black women are gorgeous. I say this as a Latina. Africa is where Kings and Queens originated Africa has history and raws like a lion! There's men who love you girls and ya BODY!
Unfortunately, according to studies (don't kill the messenger), we are indeed the least desirable group of women. It may be just physical attraction but we also live in a world that revolves around labels & categories. But I wouldn't dwell on it too much.
I think as long as the black girl is not ghetto, agressive, twerks all the time in clubs, and obnoxious, guys will still like her. I'm not into girls, but I can imagine if I were a guy, I would be attracted to black girls who are educated, smart, not agressive, doesn't behave in a slutty manner, and is not extremely obese.
In short, if she has class, guys will like her. If she doesn't, well, she'll only get the guys in her own "class".
I don't shun black women at all. I date all races including my own. Black women have got to stop listening to the media and all of this societal "standard of beauty" brainwashing bullshit. If black women were the least desirable, then the black race would be on the verge of extinction which it isn't.
Because many black women are ignorant, rude, and ghetto. Its not your fault, but their bad behavior has affected you own life!
You are wrong. Simple. Black women are as hot or some cases (case by case we are all the same but different on the outside) hotter than a white woman. People can be beautiful or ugly regardless of color and culture.
If more black girls were open to dating guys other than just white guys interracially, I'm sure their chances would be much higher.
you got to be kidding , I fantasise about having a black or Indian woman love the darl skin , the shapely bottom and the hot lustfull desires inside you ladie s xx
It's all about stereotypes but if you prove to be different you will be more attractive, and anyone that doesn't judge wouldn't care
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