Would you date a girl even if she refused to give you a bj?

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I was bored and just thought of this.

Yes

No

Maybe

Updates

+1 y

Wow I actually expected all the guys to say they would not.

[DodgersGM]

Honestly, if she said she'd NEVER give them, that would be a fairly large obstacle to overcome. I imagine that a good majority of people who will not perform oral sex will generally be less adventurous and sexually expressive, and that would be a huge stumbling block.

I don't want to say that it'd be an automatic dealbreaker in and of itself, because there's a lot more to relationships and love than just sex (and in the realm of sex, there's more than just receiving oral), so I'm gonna say it's a "maybe".

I'd just highly, HIGHLY prefer that she'd want to give me blow jobs, just like I'd want to please her orally.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Yeah I understand.

[DodgersGM]

Thanks! :-)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

No problem!! :)

[kangy]

Good

[cavmanier]

"I imagine that a good majority of people who will not perform oral sex will generally be less adventurous"

That's a lot of the issue.

[1337DirtAlliance]

That's a 100% deal breaker. Any guy who says they don't care about getting their dick sucked by the girl that's 'supposed' to love you but won't do that. Has never had a good blowjob and has no clue what they're missing.

Fuck being stuck with someone that won't do that when there are other girls who aren't selfish in the world to find who will treat you how you deserve.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting.

[LetItBe101]

I'm obviously not a guy but I think it'd be bullshit for a man to date a female who would write that off. Maybe most of the males are saying they would deal with that because they think the female could change her mind but that's too much of a risk since she was clear she will not be suckin any cock whatsoever. I say get a real woman who wants to please her partner.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting

[QueenNikki]

i don't like doing it because i'm can't get the hang of it, its so difficult for me :( I can make it up with a hand job, i promise!!!

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Lol. It probably is. You should read the opinion below.

De cual cuidad en Chile eres de?

[QueenNikki]

teeth is my biggest issue too haha
Vivo en Canada, pero mi familia es de Vallenar :)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Esta en el medio norte no? En Atacama?

[QueenNikki]

Si! :)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Ah. Porque te fuiste a Canadá?

[QueenNikki]

mi madre se caso con un canadiense cuando tenia 7 anos

[iambread]

I definitely would. But I would want her to at least try after some time in the relationship. I enjoy pleasing, so giving oral is inevitable. After awhile I would like a special treat and to be on the receiving end.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes every girl should be comfortable with what sexual activity she
wants to do without worrying about the guy being mad / upset with her

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

If a girl says she doesn't want give me blow job / hand job
than it would stand at that I would still love her the same
my dad left my late mom cause he wouldn't give him oral
so he is married to this new woman who he had affair with
but this woman he's married to she is loony wow but he
got what he deserves that serves for all the abue he done
to me

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

*She*

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Awe. That's terrible to hear about your late mother.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yep i agree thanks for your kind words
i appreciate them ;)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

No problem :)

[kheserthorpe]

If that's her only hang up I can live with it, though it would be mildly frustrating.

But if it's the start of a laundry list of things she isn't into forget it.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Let's pretend that and anal are the only two things she won't do. What do you say?

[kheserthorpe]

At your age I would have been fine with it.

Now... it's a maybe.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting!!

[one_true_alpha]

I wouldn't care, I don't care too much for bjs, I wouldn't want to do anal either, that just seems unsanitary

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Cool.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

They are unsanitary though.

[sovetskii13]

Unbelievable. BJ's are the first thing guys expect from girls? This world is messed up.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Lol okay.

[Averageusername]

How is that unbelievable? Blowjobs are the best

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Nor for everyone.

[ldrccarter]

well I think it's true...

[SuperNurse42]

Lack of oral both giving and receiving is a deal breaker for me. Some guys don't mind, but I'm not concerned with them.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting.

[Awsdrd1990]

why would you date a guy who "requires" a blow job lol... i just realized your really young... please don't do it. if someone your dating says he dose..

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Lol I said it was a hypothetical situation!

If any guy required that from me, I would kick him in the nuts.

[Prilee1992]

I vote MAYBE. Maybe you give me eat abalone then I would date you, blowjob isn't big deal for me

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting

[TheRedRose]

To be honest here, i dont want to have a blow job ever, sounds nasty LOL!

raging guys in 3..2...1...

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Really?

[Anonymous]

I don't know but if I really love the guy then I will give him head no matter how disgusting I think it is, but no I don't think it's disgusting at all.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Why do you think this way? I am curious to know.

[Opinion Owner]

what way? The would blow him part or the not disgusting part?

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Both.

[Opinion Owner]

1st part is because most guys like oral. One of my friends even told me that oral feels better than actual intercourse in his opinion, so not giving your bf head is probably the worst thing you can do, in my opinion anyway.

2nd part is because everybody does it. At first I thought it's disgusting too, but after I did it I don't think that way anymore.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Huh interesting. Lol now I feel kinda sad. Like no matter how good I do at intercourse, oral will always be better. :P

I find that slightly illogical. No offense. If everyone drank acid would you? Would that make it better?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't drink acid lol, because there's no such things as "everyone drinks acid" though.

[Opinion Owner]

So is it that you don't give oral? just curious.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

But what if there was a thing?

I am under 18 and have no interest in doing that until I am married lol. I think if I married a guy I love (right now I am in love with my ex), I would read up on how to do it right and give it a shot. If I don't like it, I would rarely do it but probably do it in exchange for something back.

[Opinion Owner]

I would say just imagine if the guy you date refuses to eat you out...

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I wouldn't really care.

[moves900]

usually if she says no to bjs, she`ll say no to almost anything you ask for
so bish best not kill my vibe

[DasBlaueKonigin]

What if she only said no to bj?

[moves900]

then i`ll swallow my pride and pull her buttcheeks back, and enter the back door ferociously without using a condom or lube

[DasBlaueKonigin]

That is stupid. Bjs don't hurt but anal does.

[moves900]

Good

[DasBlaueKonigin]

So know you like bringing pain to women? Sadist asshole. No wonder you are single.

[DIzzlegamespro]

Deffo would still date her I don't care about sex and all that all I want is someone who actually likes me and won't leave or cheat on me

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Aweeeee

[DIzzlegamespro]

Haha true though I don't want to use a girl in any way unless she wants to do something so until then I'm gonna be surprising her with gifts and making her happy
Well I would be doing if I wasn't single :(

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Lol someday. You are under 18, you still got time.

[DIzzlegamespro]

True haha but I don't many girls would want to date a soldier

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I know a lot who would.

[DIzzlegamespro]

Really haha thought people in the army were quite lonely

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Nope!!

[DIzzlegamespro]

Hmm well it hasn't worked out well for me but oh well

[DasBlaueKonigin]

You will find someone, just be patient.

[DIzzlegamespro]

Yeah hopefully thanks and I'm very patient :)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

No problem! :)

[DIzzlegamespro]

Haha :) May I ask but why did you take down your profile pic you looked nice on it (I did a rating opinion so I'm not a stalker)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Wait. What picture? Describe it.

[DIzzlegamespro]

The one where you were by the wall stood up and you looked like a model

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Oh. I felt ugly in that picture :/

[DIzzlegamespro]

Are you kidding me :O you were far from ugly if you want ugly look at me I created the word ugly

[DasBlaueKonigin]

took it down because it was getting a lot of insults.

[DIzzlegamespro]

Awww you looked very pretty on it but oh well

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Sorry bro. Can't stare at my picture :/

People were like, "too fat", "to ugly" so meh.

[DIzzlegamespro]

Okay those people must have been blind nd stupid but it's your choice so don't listen to them they don't know what they were saying

[DasBlaueKonigin]

*shrugs* I dunno. But thanks.

[Anonymous]

of coarse not. Most girls are more than willing to completely right off a guy who is shorter than she is, so id definitely right off some prude who can't give a bj

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I don't understand your answer.

[Opinion Owner]

its very simple, my answer is that i would not date a girl like this. Women refuse to date guys who are shorter than them out of "personal preference", just as its my personal preference not to date a girl who can't even give a blowjob

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Uh you are assuming something. I would and have dated guys who are shorter than me so terrible comparison.

[Opinion Owner]

sure, and I've dated a p*rn star. One can say anything on the internet without being fact checked on it. Besides, in my post i said "most" girls, not "all" girls. Exceptions always exist. But they are few and far between

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Oh you did say most. I accept your answer.

[Averageusername]

Maybe. There was this one girl who would do anything but apparently giving me a blow job was where she drew the line. It left me really frustrated

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Oh :/

That stinks.

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl but I voted no because I like giving blow jobs ;)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Can I ask why?

[Opinion Owner]

I really don't know... my first bj it was nasty, but then I started craving it more and more and now I love giving bjs. and im really good at it. you may not like to maybe because not sexually ready yet, or not used to the taste. yeah it tastes bad, but you get used to it

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Hmmm okay. How did you do it?

[Opinion Owner]

there is a way to not taste it tho, shove it down your throat, and you can use your lips and tease him at his tip, lick it like you would suck on a lollipop or a popsicle

[Opinion Owner]

I give great blowjobs.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Deepthroat? Doesn't that hurt?

I have a small mouth lol. So I would fail cause my teeth would scrape against it.

[Opinion Owner]

I have a small mouth too so you cover your teeth with your lips, and im a masochist, I love pain and being in the moment. and having a small mouth is good cuz then it is tight.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I have slips :/

Oh I don't like pain. It freaks me out. Does that change anything?

[QueenNikki]

they don't taste like anything to me, what the hell are you tasting? haha

[DasBlaueKonigin]

*I have small lips.

[Opinion Owner]

uh ohhhh... ok im gonna bring some hand sanitizer and clean my man's dick off from now on...

[Opinion Owner]

oh well I don't think so, im not a man, I don't have a penis haha but it's ok if you don't want to give him a bj :)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Lol not really. According to some, it fustrates them.

[Opinion Owner]

wow. well licking is the clostest thing to a bj. you can lick the shaft of it

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I guess. Lol thanks for the advice. When I marry, I shall use it :)

[Opinion Owner]

smart girl :) HOLY CRAP I JUST NOTICED YOU'RE UNDER 18 how old are you? I gave my first bj and 17

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Does licking give the same joy as the real thing?

I am 17 but uh I am going to wait until marriage before doing anything other than making out.

[Opinion Owner]

also very smart :) I had my first kiss at 17, my first everything at 17. And I wanted to stay a virgin, but I wanted to lose everything to one man. and I did. so I lost my virginity to my first kiss. and well they moan when I lick as if they are getting deep throat

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Oh. I mean i love my first kisser but i made an oath Thanks

[Neckbones13]

Men are perverted who want that. It completely dehumanizes the woman they claim they love.
Obviously he has no respect for her.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Yep so true

[Anonymous]

I guess it depends on the guy but I expect oral and I will give it too

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Hmmmmmm

[TheCanuck]

Different strokes for different folks! You'd just have respect that and move on!

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I don't understand.

[Anonymous]

of course i would... i don't understand this infatuation with bjs... vaginal is way better... the guys who want blowjobs don't value women... the guys who want bjs are the guys you don't want...

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting

[TheEnding]

Probably not. I feel shitty for it, but I think it would be too frustrating after a while.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

No its fine. You are being honest.

[Anonymous]

I date mature women that are not afraid of being sexual so no I do not.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Okay.

[LetItBe101]

THIS.

[Anonymous]

it would be cool if at least she shake the big fella otherwise it's bye bye

[DasBlaueKonigin]

If she did stroke the big fella?

What if all she asked from you was no bj and no anal?

[David126592]

I would not mind a woman not giving me a BJ as long as she lets me give give her oral sex.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting

[Anonymous]

Its really hard.
But i would try my best if i love her.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Alright!!

[JSmuve]

Nope. There's plenty of girls out there that are willing to suck a mean dick. There's no point in stopping the bus for a chick that doesn't.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Alright.

[Haraklus]

No way. I did that once. Not worth it.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting.

[jacquesvol]

Of course, I would.(and I did)

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting

[jacquesvol]

No normal. I don't expect girls to accept humiliation

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Humiliation?

[jacquesvol]

"Do as the guy wishes, get on your knees or he dumps you." What other word would you use for that?

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Asshole?

[jacquesvol]

You're starting to understand it.

[Keyspirits]

It means he juz want u physically but not much emotionally so u did the right thing.

[jayzee]

Definitely. The chemistry matters the most..

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Interesting.

[Anonymous]

No DUHHHHH

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Okay.

[EvilPimp]

Nope not at all.

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Alrighty

[Anonymous]

Bj's are non negotiable for me

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Lol :P

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure a lot of guys wouldn't mind tho

[DasBlaueKonigin]

I am slightly confused. I thought bjs were like heaven to guys so why are so many saying they would date a girl if she didn't give them a bj?

[Opinion Owner]

Vaginal sex actually feels better but takes more effort from us :P

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Oh. I thought it was just some thrusting? How is that with effort?

[Opinion Owner]

Its more effort than just getting a bj lol. But thrusting gets tiring when you're doing it for 20+min. Not complaining tho just saying

[DasBlaueKonigin]

Yeah I get it.