Honestly, if she said she'd NEVER give them, that would be a fairly large obstacle to overcome. I imagine that a good majority of people who will not perform oral sex will generally be less adventurous and sexually expressive, and that would be a huge stumbling block.
I don't want to say that it'd be an automatic dealbreaker in and of itself, because there's a lot more to relationships and love than just sex (and in the realm of sex, there's more than just receiving oral), so I'm gonna say it's a "maybe".
I'd just highly, HIGHLY prefer that she'd want to give me blow jobs, just like I'd want to please her orally.
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That's a 100% deal breaker. Any guy who says they don't care about getting their dick sucked by the girl that's 'supposed' to love you but won't do that. Has never had a good blowjob and has no clue what they're missing.
Fuck being stuck with someone that won't do that when there are other girls who aren't selfish in the world to find who will treat you how you deserve.
I'm obviously not a guy but I think it'd be bullshit for a man to date a female who would write that off. Maybe most of the males are saying they would deal with that because they think the female could change her mind but that's too much of a risk since she was clear she will not be suckin any cock whatsoever. I say get a real woman who wants to please her partner.
i don't like doing it because i'm can't get the hang of it, its so difficult for me :( I can make it up with a hand job, i promise!!!
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wants to do without worrying about the guy being mad / upset with herI definitely would. But I would want her to at least try after some time in the relationship. I enjoy pleasing, so giving oral is inevitable. After awhile I would like a special treat and to be on the receiving end.
If that's her only hang up I can live with it, though it would be mildly frustrating.
But if it's the start of a laundry list of things she isn't into forget it.I wouldn't care, I don't care too much for bjs, I wouldn't want to do anal either, that just seems unsanitary
Unbelievable. BJ's are the first thing guys expect from girls? This world is messed up.
Lack of oral both giving and receiving is a deal breaker for me. Some guys don't mind, but I'm not concerned with them.
why would you date a guy who "requires" a blow job lol... i just realized your really young... please don't do it. if someone your dating says he dose..
I vote MAYBE. Maybe you give me eat abalone then I would date you, blowjob isn't big deal for me
To be honest here, i dont want to have a blow job ever, sounds nasty LOL!
raging guys in 3..2...1...I don't know but if I really love the guy then I will give him head no matter how disgusting I think it is, but no I don't think it's disgusting at all.
Deffo would still date her I don't care about sex and all that all I want is someone who actually likes me and won't leave or cheat on me
of coarse not. Most girls are more than willing to completely right off a guy who is shorter than she is, so id definitely right off some prude who can't give a bj
usually if she says no to bjs, she`ll say no to almost anything you ask for
so bish best not kill my vibeI'm a girl but I voted no because I like giving blow jobs ;)
Men are perverted who want that. It completely dehumanizes the woman they claim they love.
Obviously he has no respect for her.Maybe. There was this one girl who would do anything but apparently giving me a blow job was where she drew the line. It left me really frustrated
I guess it depends on the guy but I expect oral and I will give it too
Different strokes for different folks! You'd just have respect that and move on!
of course i would... i don't understand this infatuation with bjs... vaginal is way better... the guys who want blowjobs don't value women... the guys who want bjs are the guys you don't want...
Probably not. I feel shitty for it, but I think it would be too frustrating after a while.
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