Do players ever fall in love? just curious?

[Anonymous]

Do playboys ever fall in love? just curious though.

[ViciousVic22]

Players usually become players ( from my experience from being a player) because they have negative experiences with women and they avoid the deep emotional intimacy that develops from forming a monogamous relationship because they are afraid of being vulnerable and putting their heart on the line so they put the walls up. It's really a trust issue. The only form of romance they can experience is through their brief and fleeting sexual encounters they have but they usually don't maintain any on going relationships because they are afraid of the similar outcomes they have experienced. On the surface it seems like they are selfish and only want sex (which is true to an extent) but deep down they have been hurt and broken inside and lost some faith in falling in love or finding love. Only a girl who can appeal to his true original nature and show that she's a girl he's willing to settle down and make him feel safe with will be a girl he will fall in love with but the further a man looses touch with this true nature the more likely he is able to stay a player. So in short yes but it takes a very special girl to pull that off and you may like the challenge but the risk of YOU getting hurt in the process is pretty big.

[Asker]

No, I learned my lesson, it is way too hard to believe he will fall in love with me though. But I am just curious.

[ViciousVic22]

Eh I don't know like personally I found that figuring out my romantic and relationship issues was easier when I studied general psychology that way you can recognize patterns of picking particular people and avoid ones that are gonna play with your emotions, it can be painful because it involves deep introspection and figuring out why you choose certain people but in the end you'll be in the know and you find someone that you deserve :p

[naturalgirl]

Would a guy who is possibly a player record a video of his girlfriend giving him head so just he can post it on Snapchat and in the video he is telling the girl oh it's okay and pat her on the back. She knows she is being recorded and then he posts a picture of them together two days later after the video release saying oh I never felt this way about any girl and oh I love you

[Iwanabreedyou]

yes they can!

[Anonymous]

Of course they do, they're only human.

Actually, there was this player who pursued me in year 11 for a term and then finally gave up. Then he went out with lots of girls, it seemed like he had a new one every week (it was a big school). But he kept on giving me glances and trying to flirt with me sometimes. He continued liking me, even till the end of year 12 when he asked me out again. I've always wondered: did he just want me because I was the only girl (that he approached) who resisted him and his ego couldn't stand that? Or was he in love with me for 2 years?

[naturalgirl]

Would a guy who is possibly a player record a video of his girlfriend giving him head so just he can post it on Snapchat and in the video he is telling the girl oh it's okay and pat her on the back. She knows she is being recorded and then he posts a picture of them together two days later after the video release saying oh I never felt this way about any girl and oh I love you

[Babygirl1975]

Not all guys are players, but yes, at some point, with right person, when the time is all wrong, that player will fall in love. It may be a love he/she may never be able to openly persue, or a love that only he/she will know or speak about, but one day it will happen. I know from experience, I am a player, and I am so in love, sometimes it hurts. This isn't something that just happened either, it is a love that has been going on for over 2 years.

[Anonymous]

To the anonymous girl who said that girls can be players aswell, and can fall in love: Yes, although it is true that girls can be players too and it is possible for both gender players to fall in love, its more likely for the female player to fall in love because they have a hormone/chemical in their brain which causes them to become attached to people more easily than men.

[sammy_31]

I believe so they indeed are human to but I guess become "players" from negative experiences. I guess it has to be someone who they truly fall for and love being with that will change their ways and like others have said it does not mean a player is only a guy girls are ones too but I'm sure you know this too. But also on the other hand they want to avoid being in love because they fear what they don't know because all they knew is lust not love. The world is full of lust.

[Anonymous]

Yes players do fall in love, but love is just a feeling, and feelings come and go. People don't walk around in a constant state of love. Some days you can't even remember what you use to see in your partner. That is when players cheat on the women the fell in love with. Things like trust, and respect are more long term, and far more reliable than just love. Those are traits a player can not compete with.

[naturalgirl]

Would a guy who is possibly a player record a video of his girlfriend giving him head so just he can post it on Snapchat and in the video he is telling the girl oh it's okay and pat her on the back. She knows she is being recorded and then he posts a picture of them together two days later after the video release saying oh I never felt this way about any girl and oh I love you

[soccerchick4eva]

Yes it is possible, they need to find that one girl that can change them :)

[Anonymous]

... Not all players are guys.

And yes I do fall in love :/

[Asker]

wow!

[Opinion Owner]

Really straight forward and being vulnerable there :/ but yea hope it explains it.

[bizzz]

yea eventually

[naturalgirl]

Would a guy who is possibly a player record a video of his girlfriend giving him head so just he can post it on Snapchat and in the video he is telling the girl oh it's okay and pat her on the back. She knows she is being recorded and then he posts a picture of them together two days later after the video release saying oh I never felt this way about any girl and oh I love you