I've fallen in love with a Player :(

[jojo38]

Ive met a gorgeous guy who has charmed me and wooed me into 3 dates and the 3rd date we made out, that was 3 days ago and I haven't heard anything from him since. problem is I think I've fallen for him. :(

[drstms]

Just so you know, that is infatuation and it is just the first stage of falling for someone. At least you haven't made the decision to invest the rest of your life in him. If he doesn't respect you enough to communicate, respect yourself enough to let him go. There is one out there, you just may not be ready for each other yet.

Also, God doesn't let things happen without a reason. Prayerfully seek His reason for allowing this to happen and you may learn something about yourself you will be happy to shed. He is the coach that helps you improve the good and shed the bad. Pain is always associated with identifying, and shedding the bad, while helping us see, and improve the good.

[tex151]

Well if he does like you, then he's doing everything right, sounds like he's just playing things cool and checking out his options. you think your falling in love with him, well I hope you didn't tell him that, especially only after three dates. So now your wondering where he is what he's doing and why he hasn't called you, he's waiting for you to call him, so go ahead and call him he will prob answer and if he doesn't he will prob call you back, but he never returns your calls then move on.

[jojo38]

Hey Tex151 no I would definitely not tell him that I'm falling for him, I'm playing it as cool as he is. I'm just not one of those girls that stalk or harass a guy by way of texting and phoning every day, I am the shy type unfortunately. And as you said it has only been 3 days maybe he will still call and if he doesn't well its his lose not mine... :-(

[ditzytiggsie]

Are you sure he's playing you or is it possible he's playing things cool?

[jojo38]

Hey not sure, he is a workaholic and we text and call each other every 2 or 3 days anyway, I'm probably jumping to conclusions, but yes as you have all said be careful and not fall for him unless I'm sure. Thanks Guys x

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I would be very careful if I were you. If he's a player like you say he is, you could end up getting very hurt. However, I can say from experience that even players can settle down, but it's not that always that easy. Just so you realize ahead of time what you could be getting yourself into. Remember that if you choose to try to stick with this guy, you know ahead of time that you could get hurt.

[Jarett]

Ok, you haven't fallen in love with him. You might have an attraction or infatuation, but it's not love. It's only been 3 dates. It should not take that much to get over him. Let him go.