How to break the touch barrier?

[Anonymous]

How should I break the touch barrier with a girl I like? I've known her for a while and she seems to like me but I haven't really broken the touch barrier. Girls, what is the best way for a guy who you've been flirting with to break the touch barrier?

[dancerdarling18]

When u take something out of her hand that she's giving to you, just subtly purposely touch her hand while you take the object out of her hand.
Also if you have known her for a while, try just walking up to her saying "hey how are you" with your arms open and if she moves into your arms guve her a hug. But dont freak out over the hug or make it serious, just nice sweet gentle and casual. there's gotta b some pressure between u two but dont squeeze her to death!
Girls like hugs, and they cn b nervous to initiate them too, so maybe she's waiting for you to make the move.

[Asker]

Lol what do I do if she doesn't hug back?

[dancerdarling18]

Hmm, i dont think she would do that, thats just plain mean. If she doesn't she either really doesn't like you or she's seriously still uncomfortable with physical contact

[Anonymous]

The first step is always hugs... girls are mostly shy to make the first move. If she hugs you back then after a few days you can go to leaning on ear other, putting your arm around, then kissing her forehead or cheek, cuddling... and the list goes onn

[Asker]

So what would be a good excuse to give her a hug?

[sandra80]

Hi how are you doing? Lol :)

[Asker]

Lol so just randomly hug? I don't usually hug girls bc none of them interest me except her lol

[Opinion Owner]

That makes it more special, when you first meet her just hug her or when you are leaving. Dont ask though because the answer might be no.. just go for it.

[ForReals23]

subtle touches during convo, or if you're sitting like at lunch or a desk touch her things (pencils, pens, etc.) or if you're that far hold her hand. touch her shoulders playfully or something like that

[Asker]

I think we're between those two points. We're past the subtle touches but going to Tue hand holding would be too far too quickly

[ForReals23]

i guess the only ones between that would be sitting in close proximity maybe touch hands on "accident" at the table. personally touching hands is the best way to break the touch barrier to me. anything to do with hands

[Animegamergirl]

I think you should at least like hold her hand or brush your arm with hers. Or like high five her or pat her back. And if she gets used to that then try hugging her at some points.

[Asker]

Like when we flirt our legs and arms touch. But only then, we don't really touch each other or show affection other than when we're flirting

[Animegamergirl]

Well I think you should at least try to hold her hand then I mean you should at least try to, because not much is stopping you.

[Asker]

Lol I think I'm more nervous about it than I should be

[Scmitch]

Footsie. It's super cute and playful :)