What are some good ways to break the touch barrier?

[Mac5500]

Girls, what are some good and creative ways that a guy could break the touch barrier?

[theydidntnameme]

if you want something subtle, bump into her accidentaly when walking. like a hip bump.

if you want something more bold try these things:

say totally serious "theres something in your hair" and pretend to take something out. don't take a long ass time though lol. if she is totally receptive to it (like she giggles or even blushes) then you know she likes it. at that point you could mess with her and say "oh somethings in your hair again" and do it again... at that point its clear to her that your just touching her, but she's receptive to it so it works out.

if you just arrived and she hasn't seen you yet, (like say its lunch time) ambush her and cover her eyes and say guess who... don't be too rough though lol

good luck :)

[Mac5500]

Alright, I like the hair idea. I might try that. Thanks for the advice!

[theydidntnameme]

no problem good luck!

[MrMarK]

Protocol is always hard mate

Start with a touch of the arm, usually just touch her for 3-4 seconds, this will indicate she feels comfortable being touched - good deal breaker!

It will be good for shy girls because its not too forward.

If you want to be riskier with it try putting her arm round hers and be playful with her, or a hug.

[Mac5500]

Alright. I had heard about the 3-4 second deal before, so that seems pretty standard. Thanks for the advice!

[scarlet8]

I would do little things first just to see how she responds. like maybe touch her back when you guys are going into or out of any kind of building/room. Then get a little bolder, fix a strand of hair when its out of place, lean towards her when you guys sit next to each other. Try not to be to touchy otherwise she might think your just wierd. After a while though she will get the hint and maybe start to touch u, like when your talking or saying something funny she might touch your leg shoulder hands...anything basically.

[Mac5500]

Alright, I was thinking about the touching her back going into a restaurant or something before. I definitly don't want to be too touchy, and that's part of the reason why I asked the question :P Thank you for your advice!

[Anonymous]

Make sure she's interested and just go for it. If she backs down, she's not into it. Maybe try holding hands one day. The next you can kiss. Just kiss for a while untill you get into making out. Making out will lead into touching. Touching will lead into other things. Anyways, hope you get the hint. It's not rocket science.

[Mac5500]

Alright, thanks for the advice!

[Chuby]

I love when a guy hugs me instead of just saying "Hi" you should try that, but it can't be like a super long hug cause then it would be kind of awkward. Oh and also you can only do this if you actually talk to her cause lets face a stranger hugging you out of nowhere o.O creepy! Anyway wish you luck :)

[Mac5500]

haha, I have definitly talked to this girl before so I won't have to worry about that :) I had thought about trying to get a hug before, but I'm not sure she would go for that yet or not :S I definitly would if I thought it would go well though! Thank you for the advice!

[Chuby]

Lol it's good 2 know that you actually talk 2 her at least that's something right?

[Mac5500]

haha, yea. That would be really creepy to just have some random person to you and hug you :S

[Chuby]

you have no idea o.O lol

[Mac5500]

Did that happen to you?!

[Chuby]

Yes... I felt vulnerable when it happened XD

[Mac5500]

Dang. That would be really awkward :S I'm sorry!

[starlight124]

When you see her, be like heyy and go in for a hug.

[Mac5500]

Haha, thanks :) I was thinking more about people who aren't neessarily the most receptive to being touched :) I definitely think that is probably one of the best ways though!

[starlight124]

My friend randomly started doing this and it was kinda outta character for him. He later told me he needed to find a way to get me to accept his hugs. lol

[Mac5500]

Haha, there you go :) Got any ideas for girls who aren't as receptive to being touched?

[starlight124]

find an excuse to touch her hair, like there's something in your hair. or like "accidentally" bump into her shoulder or her side.

[Mac5500]

Alright, thank you very much!

[starlight124]

Np :)

[Anonymous]

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