How would you feel if someone of the opposite gender calls you an enigma?

[Pingju]

How would you feel if someone of the opposite gender calls you an enigma?
Thanks.

[Pedantic]

I would think it means she is expecting me to act conventionally, or what is socially common place. To some girls who have been cheated on a lot, being faithful will make you an enigma; this is an example of what is 'socially common place' contextualized to just specific people.

If called that I think it means I don't fit in or act in ways she expects, but probably do in others.

How would I feel about it? While granted as a human being I have feelings, I try not to over-use them :) I don't think I would feel anything at all. I would just know that we have quite a bridge to cross.

[Pedantic]

Thanks for MH. by the way, at least as far as I read it, kind of an interesting discussion over here - www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1292363-is-the-demise-of-guys-upon-us-are-we-in-decline

You may or may not be interested. If you got an opinion, sound out! :)

[Pingju]

I always check your profile for any new questions but you hardly ask any :) And most of your questions are so difficult for me to answer, haha :D

[Pedantic]

I'll think of that as constructive feedback. I'll have to ask some more normal questions sometimes :)

[Pingju]

Haha, I look forward to your questions :)

[HandsomeRaj]

Not the first time I'd be called that - for any normal 'girl' I AM an enigma (incl my gf lol) though I am brutally frank, open and honest with my words :-D

THIS AGAIN is a matter of perception, while this is mine; that is theirs ;-)

[justbanANNAz]

i would actually LOVE that. i enjoy being called anything along those lines because it means he truly took the time to discover that.

[kangy]

I am indeed contradictory at times, sometimes I find it hard to explain certain decisions or reasoning

[Klaatu51]

i'd tell her that the word "enigma" sound really unattractive

[Pingju]

Haha, yeah,"enigma" reminds me of the word "enema".
Enemas are used as a treatment of last resort for people suffering from constipation :D

[Resoglass]

@asker oh god my sides

[Pingju]

@Resoglass What did you mean? :)

[Resoglass]

@asker it means i was laughing really hard

[Pingju]

@Resoglass Oh, I see :D

[Resoglass]

@asker Haha I've never associated the word "enigma" with "enema" until now

[Metlahead]

I'd take it as a compliment, but only because if I was to call a girl an enigma, I would use it as a compliment.

[YourFutureEx]

To be honest I'll be honoured by hearing such compliment, seriously.

[Neko_Chan]

It wouldn't bother me.

[croxy]

I'd ask them what an enigma is.

[Anonymous]

I'd give them a cookie for being right